Don’t be so busy with your job/school you forget to build a life (game)

My job is a dating coach, so I can daygame all I want. But some of my students, always says the same thing. How they are so busy building a life. They act like survival value betas. They never take the time to get better at game or improve their social skills. They don’t apply what is in the online course I provided. They think they are smart building the foundations of their life. But that happens to most Asian guys who gets older. They think by having a house, a car, a job, a girl will fall in their lap. But it never happens. Once they built their survival value, they realized life has already passed them by. These guys will never get good because they always say priorities this, priorities that. Game is never a priority. I’m not saying game should be a top priority. But it should be up there. It is actually very important. You are learning social skills, persuasion and salesman tactics. If you don’t get laid, or into relationships. You will settle in marriage. You would settle for a divorce. It is too bad this message falls on deaf ears. Some students just want mental masturbation and not approach. Or they do it once a week and think it is enough. You fall into the trap of work as an excuse to distract yourself from the lack of dating options in your life.

Always focus on your biggest weakness first.

Sticking points means weaknesses. By focusing on your weaknesses or the biggest one first, you see a dramatic improvement in your results. If you only focused on your strengths, you might not know if it works or not. Even as a coach I had weaknesses. I moved my body too much every sentence. Even if it is good to move my hands to be expressive. I was doing that every sentence. Also, my number closing wasn’t that solid until recently. Where I got a ton of numbers in a short time. A few dates and a pull.

Solution: hammer away at your biggest weakness. Then focus on your second biggest weakness. Spend a week or two at them. It would save you years of fuckups. Trust me, there are people I see who learns stuff and does exactly the same shit afterwards saying okay, okay. Work to change one thing at a time. Even as a daygame coach, I am not afraid to admit I have things I could improve on. Neither should you let your ego get in the way.