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Don’t miss this video, this one is the one I wanted all the previous video to lead up to.

Most daygamers fail not from lack of looks or game, but because deep personality and mindset issues silently crush their progress.

Did you know that most guys fail daygame.

Not because of looks or game, but because of deep personality disorders and mindset issues nobody talks about?

I know it sounds crazy because we’re so used to hearing about direct compliments, approach volume, game or looks, and while that is important,

I’m going to share three issues with you today that’s going to revolutionize the way you understand your own behavior and why you keep failing in daygame in 2025.

So what is he real reason you’re stuck and not getting laid for daygame in 2025 with direct game?

It’s the toxic mix of Cluster B and Cluster C personality traits that crush your progress, during a tariff and inflation in 2025.

So the first issue is, Unteachable cases with Cluster B and Cluster C personality disorders, for daygamers.

The big idea here is The big idea here is these students are a toxic mix of sociopathy, narcissism, borderline, histrionic, personality disorder.

Combined with Cluster C, avoidant personality disorder and hypersensitivity.

They also have severe ADHD or Asperger-like traits that make them unable to learn, remember, or build habits.

Since the brain won’t build a new habit if you keep taking a three day break or more.

They rage quit, procrastinate, and never finish drills, due to severe ADHD and low self esteem.

Their brain’s cortisol overload shrinks their hippocampus, wiping memory and making progress impossible.

Since they can’t remember anything new, like zombies. .

This is important because these unteachable cases waste your time, energy, and money.

They never improve, never get laid, and often attack my proven daygame system with 672 laid and pulled testimonials. Instead of fixing themselves.

Recognizing this toxic mix helps you avoid wasting my precious time because you are a loser!

The second issue is The winner and loser effect fueled by cortisol and ADHD.

The main thing to understand here is that that winners is rewarded with testosterone and momentum,

taking more risks and improving fast.

Losers stack cortisol from stress, anxiety, and failure,

which shrinks their brain’s memory center called the hippocampus and destroys motivation.

Severe ADHD and narrow Asperger narrow focus make this worse,

causing mental blinking and intermittent shutdowns during coaching,

trapping them in a vicious cycle of low self esteem and delusions.

Not to mention procrastination and early quitting.

This means cortisol and ADHD don’t just make learning hard.

Cortisol physically damage the brain’s ability to form memories, meaning no habit building, no progress, and a fast track to quitting. .

The third issue is Emotional blindness and ego defense distortion block real progress.

Many unteachable students have alexithymia, meaning they can’t feel or recognize emotions.

Even in their own voice.

They’re delusional about how they come across to women, often sounding angry or depressed without realizing it.

Their ego twists reality in real time like augmented reality in a VR googles,

making them think they’re right and the coach is gaslighting them, l

leading to meltdowns and rage quitting.

Not to mention blaming and smear campaigns.

Or rage quitting, by stonewalling. .

This is key because without emotional awareness, these students can’t adjust their behavior or improve.

They live in a distorted reality and keep failing despite coaching.

If they can’t perceive their own mistakes.

I say that is your cousins audio, not you.

So their ego shuts off and they can hear their mistakes.

Now, I know what you’re thinking.

It’s maybe you are just overthinking it, or maybe your memory isn’t that bad,

or you don’t really have those personality issues.

Maybe you just need to try harder,

or maybe this is just how you are and nothing can actually fix it,

because you are a massive narcissist with low self esteem, with an avoidant personality.

Well the tricky thing is that these issues aren’t just in your head,

they’re hardwired into your brain chemistry and habits.

If you don’t address them, you’ll keep repeating the same cycle: blanking out, quitting, blaming, and never seeing real results,

unlike my good students who gets laid!

And so I’ve just create this Elite Bundle Resurrections with the new John Elite Flywheel you can use the Flywheel system and Google Docs as your external memory, follow every step, and finally build habits that stick, no more blanking out or quitting halfway.

And I, as a daygame coach who has helped hundreds of men overcome their biggest social and emotional obstacles to get laid and build real confidence for daygame who has 672 laid or pull testimonials,

even during the hardest, most stressful years of 2024 and 2025,

with more real testimonials than any other coach on earth combined, w

What I do is find the real patterns that get results for logical, analytical guys,

break them down into drills, and build systems that make it impossible to fail.

No matter how tough your case is.

I will solve the unteachable case issue in 2026 and split testing it now.

I wasn’t able to solve it before, if they do the opposite with cluster B narcissistic sociopath,

and cluster C avoidant personality disorders. .

So what I’ve done is I’ve built out the Elite Bundle Resurrections and the John Elite Flywheel so you can start winning now, not someday.

Everything’s ready for you.

Just follow the steps and watch your results change.

I don’t have to get so involved anymore with the Elite Acess if you can’t stop fighting back and getting triggered.

You have the steps right in front of you.

If you click the link, you can start using the Flywheel system and Elite Bundle Resurrections today.

I also have the 3MP program for impossible cases who need even more one-on-one, hands-on training and a full transformation.

I’ll introduce you to that later once you’re ready for the next level,

but today I’m talking about the Elite Bundle Resurrections with the new John Elite Flywheel, which is amazing.

I’m John Elite and I can’t wait to see you on the inside.

Have a great day.

-John Elite

P.S, all the other videos about different things are all leading up to this video. This one has the full spectrum of issues. It isn’t just a diagnosis, its 2 specific clusters with many issues together. But it never changed. If you are an unteachable case, you are likely cluster B and cluster C. This isn’nt a diagnosis, when I showed it to unteachable cases. They see the borderline, narcissism, sociopath, they can’t deny it. Also the cluster C avoidant personality.

UPDATED THOUGHTS…

i DON’T HAVE TIME TO WRITE EVERYTHING OUT, SO HERE IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER.

• Originally I wanted to make the cluster B and cluster C video first.
• I thought there was too many pieces to it, even if it explains perfect the unteachable cases who runs away and dosen’t adapt being triggered snowflake cunts.
• I detoured and made a lot of videos talking about opinions as facts, the avoidant to fill in the gaps of knowledge.
• It was supposed to be about smear campaigns, how its written and how its related to cluster B personality. Also cluster C avoidance and right to the video.
• There is no diagnosis… as there is only 3 clusters. I describe and it people can’t deny it when you have that perfect combinatlon of clusters in the DSM 5 manual.
• That diagnosic manual, explains almost everything like the irrational far left meltdowns. Bad students who are uncoachable and low self esteem zombies. It puts me lightyears ahead of everything.
• Its way better than saying dark triad personality as now even narcisissm has 5 different categories or more. Its light years ahead and explains everything perfectly.
• The cluster C explains the MGTOW types who runs away easily due to economic stress.
• Thats why direct game doesn’t work, due to the economic stress and massive resistance and objections they get. It all makes sense due to the Malow Chart of Human Needs…
• If we look at cluster B personalty… Anyone who is easily triggered due to low self esteem,, the snowflakes are all malinant narcissist and will turn on you. Are mentally unstable. If they had more self esteem, they won’t be delusional like the far left with meltdowns.

Haters say the numbers are fake…but every lay is earned, documented, and from guys who did the work, not chased shortcuts.

Most people have no clue what goes into these daygame student results.

Forum trolls love to throw shade, always looking for a shortcut or a conspiracy.

They see the lay count…

672 and counting…

and start inventing stories.

That’s their comfort zone.

It’s easier to believe the stats are fake defaming me, than admit you never put in the work.

One testimonial per student, no matter how many lays.

That’s the rule.

No inflation.

No padding.

I John Elite keep it honest, because that’s how you build real proof.

Some students get a single lay and walk away.

They’re happy.

Relief hits, and they vanish.

After getting their willy wet…

For them, that’s the whole point.

They wanted to prove they could do it.

That’s enough.

Others stick around, hungry for more.

Numbers start to climb.

He is a black Air Force Military guy…

clueless, buried in RSD Julian notes before he joined the army

Wanted me to coach him, but said the RSD shit has to go.

He’s got the mass-approach mindset.

Thinks “just be enough” is the secret.

Doesn’t get anywhere.

I tell him to rip up the notes.

Start from scratch.

He listens.

That’s when things start to move.

First lay.

Then another.

Momentum builds.

He doesn’t coast.

Keeps drilling.

Keeps adapting.

Elite 30, social calibration, whitewashed fashion, tonality work.

Every detail matters.

Results stack up.

He hits 22 lays.

Still not the highest.

Another black student, triple digits.

A hundred lays.

Says it’s all from the John Elite system.

But he’s still just one testimonial.

No cheating the numbers.

No shortcuts.

Normal guys, busy with work and life, fit this system around their schedule.

They get results too.

One or two lays, sometimes more.

It’s not about chasing hundreds.

It’s about getting what you want and moving on.

Pick-up artist types? They treat it like a craft.

Drilling every day.

Testing, tweaking, pushing limits.

That’s how you see the big numbers.

No magic.

No luck.

No genetics.

Just work.

Just skill.

Just discipline.

I John Elite have watched average guys turn into legends.

Not because they were born special.

Because they refused to quit.

Every win comes from adaptation.

Not just copying the steps.

Learning, adjusting, fixing mistakes.

That’s the difference.

Haters want to believe it’s all rigged.

That’s their excuse.

But every lay is earned.

Every win is documented.

The John Elite system is for anyone willing to do the work.

No favorites.

No secret sauce.

Just relentless drilling and real change.

Speed of implementation gets you started… speed of adaptation is what stacks results and separates winners from quitters.

Everyone talks about speed.

They want to know how fast they can get results.

Most think it’s just about action.

Show up.

Do the drills.

Copy the steps.

But that’s only half the story.

I John Elite see it every day.

Some students rush in, eager to copy every move.

They watch the videos.

Print out the notes.

Try to memorize every line.

Speed of implementation gets them started.

They’re the first to try something new.

But here’s the problem….

copying isn’t enough.

If you can’t adapt, you crash.

The best students aren’t just fast.

They’re flexible.

They learn from mistakes.

They tweak what isn’t working.

Speed of adaptation is what separates the winners.

I John Elite call it the CPU effect.

The more you adapt, the faster you process new info.

Implementation alone is like spinning your wheels.

You can move fast and still get nowhere.

Adaptation means you see what’s broken, fix it, and move forward.

That’s how the numbers stack up.

The black Air Force student wasn’t the fastest at first.

He tripped over his own habits.

Kept falling back into old patterns.

But he listened to feedback.

He adjusted.

He stopped treating Elite 30 like a checklist.

Started using it as a daily habit.

Every time he adapted, results improved.

When he coasted, everything stalled.

I John Elite see it with every case: easy, normal, hard, impossible and the dreaded fucking unteachable cases..

Speed of implementation gets you in the door.

Speed of adaptation keeps you in the game.

Some guys freeze when they hit a wall.

They get frustrated.

They blame the system.

Winners pivot.

They try something new.

They ask questions.

They adjust their approach.

That’s why some students get one lay and quit, while others rack up double or triple digits.

It’s not about who’s fastest out of the gate.

It’s about who keeps evolving.

The John Elite system rewards those who adapt.

That’s the secret no one wants to hear.

No shortcut.

No hack.

Just relentless improvement.

Winners celebrate other wins and stack their own… losers get jealous and fade away in their own bitterness.

Reaction matters more than you think.

Some guys see a student rack up lays and feel inspired.

They think, “If he can do it, so can I.”

Others see the same results and get bitter.

Jealousy creeps in.

They look for reasons to dismiss the win.

“He must be tall.”

“Probably got lucky.”

“Maybe he’s just a natural.”

That’s loser thinking.

I John Elite know the difference right away.

Winners celebrate success, even when it’s not their own.

They ask questions.

They look for the lesson.

They focus on what’s possible.

Losers complain.

They compare.

They make excuses.

Every time you see a testimonial compilation, you have a choice.

You can use it as fuel or as an excuse to quit.

Envy poisons progress.

Gratitude opens doors.

Students who adapt, celebrate others, and stay hungry keep stacking wins.

Those who get jealous, beat themselves up, or blame the system always crash out.

It’s like seeing someone drive a Ferrari.

You can admire the work that went into it.

Or you can stew in resentment and never move forward.

The John Elite system doesn’t care about your ego.

Results don’t come to those who sulk.

They come to those who keep showing up, learning, and refusing to quit.

Every time you ignore a win, you close yourself off from success.

Every time you celebrate, you get closer to your own breakthrough.

I John Elite see it every day.

Some students turn into legends.

Others fade away, lost in their own envy.

Choice is yours.

You can watch from the sidelines, or you can get in the game.

No more excuses.

No more blaming.

No more hiding behind jealousy.

Results are there for anyone willing to earn them.

That’s the mindset that wins.

That’s the John Elite system.

I’m not chasing you with links and pitches… if you want results bad enough, you already know where to find me.

I’m not dropping a link here.

No sales pitch.

No “click here for more.”

You know where to find me if you really want to.

I’m tired today, honestly.

Still wrote this blog post because I felt like calling out the bullshit.

If you want to ignore all the testimonials, pretend it’s luck, or think it’s just a few superstars… fine.

That’s your choice.

Keep scrolling.

Keep blaming the weather, the economy, or your genetics.

Miracles don’t happen for people who keep their eyes closed.

Ignoring proof never got anyone laid.

I John Elite already did my part.

You want results?

You figure it out.

I’ll keep posting wins.

You can keep pretending it’s not possible.

That’s the difference.

That’s why some get results and most just watch.

-John Elite (Best Daygame Coach in The World)

P.S celebrate other students win. So you can win. If you are jealous, what does that tell your subconcious mind? You will fail, with the wrong frequence.

P.P.S, if I write I John Elite, I only wrote that to get more on the search engine. Otherwise its quite hostile to me. Incase you didn’t know. The thing is bhenchoding.