Author: vancouverdaygame

xpose… why this Asian student got laid in the United States

This Asian student got laid in the United States because he did two things at the same time.

One part was Kaizen inside 3MP.

Another part was the social skills flow drill that most people ignore.

Kaizen is a Japanese word for continuous improvement.

That program is brutal on purpose.

Everything gets forced for 30 days until it becomes second nature.

Rapid fire corrections happen over and over until the habits install.

Most guys say someone got laid in 14 days and they think that is the whole story.

Reality is that the first seven days come before that.

Those seven days are the social skills flow drill.

That drill is the part I do not like talking about publicly.

A lot of people do not have a memory anymore.

Plenty of people procrastinate like it is their identity.

Chronic procrastinators always think they are right.

Sometimes I have to bet with them just to see if they can do homework.

Often they still fail even with a bet.

Severe ADHD makes them unable to control themselves.

Kaizen does not care about excuses.

Discipline gets forced because the clock is running.

Body language and social calibration get drilled for 30 days.

Videos get sent in nonstop for corrections.

Changes stack so fast the brain has no choice but to adapt.

That is why the Asian student could get results while other people stay stuck.

Another reason this works is that the social skills flow drill extends the conversation.

Longer conversations build trust and comfort.

More comfort makes instant dates easier.

More instant dates make pulls easier.

Sales works the same way.

People have to like you.

Trust has to build.

Then the product can be accepted.

Daygame is not different.

A lot of my students, especially Indians, go on dates and learn only seven to nine things about her.

Usually it is seven.

Self centered talking kills the vibe.

Trying to impress her with stories does not impress her.

Getting into her ego is what works.

Most dating coaches teach statements.

Statements create short answers.

Short answers create dead air.

Dead air creates panic.

Autism and Asperger like traits make it worse because the left and right brain do not communicate well.

Then the guy defaults to a random question.

Another short answer comes back.

Then he throws another statement.

That loop is why so many men stay stuck.

Cold approach becomes code reading instead of real connection.

Social skills flow drill fixes that by funneling her into your body language.

Correct 45 degree body language builds attraction over time.

More time in that frame builds more attraction.

Six minutes becomes enough for an instant date when the drill is installed.

Same day lays become possible when the drill is installed.

Most people do not want to hear that.

Many guys would rather argue with me than drill.

A European guy will claim he tried 45 degrees and it did not work.

Odds are he did it wrong.

No outsider knows if they are doing it correctly.

That is why I do not teach the full details outside my students.

You do not know what you do not know.

673 laid and pulled testimonials did not come from luck.

Results came from systems that force skill maxing.

3MP is no longer three months of proficiency.

3MP now means mating, marriage, and mastery.

Kaizen sits inside that system.

The Asian student followed it.

The Asian student did not try to be the expert.

The Asian student did not gatekeep what mattered.

That is why he got laid.

Expose… why most Asian guys quit in 2025 Turning Super MGTOW

A lot of Asian guys did not fail because they were doomed.

Most of them failed because they stopped training.

Many of them quit in 2025.

Money pressure pushed them into survival mode.

Tariffs and inflation made everything feel heavier.

Stress made focus worse.

Low focus made procrastination worse.

Procrastination made them avoid homework.

Avoiding homework made them delusional about what was wrong.

That is the downward spiral.

Instead of fixing skills, they went looking for a story.

MGTOW became that story for some of them.

Night game became the backup plan for others.

Tinder travel became the fantasy for the rest.

None of that builds daygame skill.

…The Asian masculinity movement got hijacked by scam advice.

Global Game Platform is part of that.

ABCs of Attraction is part of that.

Pickup Alpha is part of that.

Those networks sell a narrative that sounds good when you are losing.

That narrative says do not approach in the United States.

Or that narrative says fly to Latin America.

Also, those narratives says swipe on Tinder.

Or that narrative says stack status and lifestyle and call it game.

That narrative is attractive because it avoids training.

…Travel creates fake points for Asians.

Exotic advantage shows up automatically.

Money advantage shows up automatically.

Lifestyle photos show up automatically.

Engineering status looks bigger in a poorer country.

Instagram clout looks bigger when locals are impressed.

Those are stacked points.

Those are not skills.

…Then the same guy comes back to the United States and gets demolished.

Cold approach is harder at home.

Women are not pre sold at home.

Daygame requires calibration at home.

Daygame requires emotional control at home.

Daygame requires social skills at home.

So the guy who never trained gets exposed.

…Night game hides weakness.

Loud clubs hide tonality problems.

Alcohol hides nervousness.

End of night logistics hide lack of comfort.

Tinder hides conversation skill because she is already down.

Daygame does not hide anything.

Daygame exposes everything.

…That is why the social skills flow drill matters so much.

Most Asian daygamers lost their social skills over time.

A lot of them stopped doing real drills.

Many of them replaced training with content consumption.

Plenty of them replaced field time with doom scrolling.

Some of them replaced self improvement with looksmatching talk.

Others replaced discipline with dirty bulking.

…Dirty bulking became a cope.

Big belly showed up.

Shrek body showed up.

Black t shirt uniform showed up.

Bad hair showed up. Like split ends.

Narcissism showed up.

Then they tried to stand out in the nightclub.

After that, they went for whoever was left at the end.

That is not mastery.

That is hiding.

…Meanwhile my students still got results.

The Asian student in this testimonial got a white girl as a fuck buddy.

Elite Tonality Mastery helped his delivery.

Whitewashed tonality helped him sound clearer.

Social calibrations helped him hold the frame.

Social skills flow drill helped him extend the conversation.

Kaizen forced the habits until they stuck.

That is why he could do it in the United States.

…So the real issue is not race.

The real issue is not weather.

The real issue is not the city.

The actual real issue is training.

Or whether someone will do the drills.

But the real issue is whether someone will stop being the expert.

The real issue is whether someone will stop gatekeeping.

If that part is missing, the same quitting pattern repeats every year.

The new offer, and who should not contact me

This is why I am building a new program around the social skills flow drill.

Elite Social Skills Flow Drill Mastery is going to be a 30 day online training.

Price is $1,500 USD.

Time is the reason.

Training is the reason.

The first seven days alone are ruthless.

Two hours a day is the standard in that opening week.

Fourteen hours of my time gets burned just to install the drill.

Maintenance and corrections take the rest of the month.

That is why it cannot be cheap.

That is why it cannot be casual.

…Kaizen already gives seven days of this inside 3MP.

3MP now means mating, marriage, and mastery.

Kaizen is not sold separately anymore.

Access happens through 3MP only.

That is the structure.

That is the gate.

…Every year I crack the code again.

Pandemic era required heavier social calibrations and body language.

Variant era required the social skills flow drill.

Later we added Arrow Science.

Next we layered Elite Tonality Mastery harder.

Now the next algorithm is obvious.

Social skills flow drill has to be maxed.

Conversation length has to be extended.

Instant dates have to happen faster.

Pulls have to happen cleaner.

…Most people will not do this.

Many guys want a shortcut.

Plenty of guys want to argue.

Some guys want to keep their old beliefs.

Others want to keep their old identity.

A lot of them want to be the expert.

Those are the ones who should not contact me.

…Anyone who refuses homework is not a fit.

Anybody who procrastinates and then blames the world is not a fit.

Anyone who keeps saying it feels weird is not a fit.

Anybody who wants to debate drills instead of doing drills is not a fit.

Anyone who wants to cherry pick the system is not a fit.

…Results come from obedience to the process.

Skill maxing beats motivation every time.

Rehearsal beats hype every time.

Drills beat opinions every time.

That is why this Asian student got laid.

That is why 673 laid and pulled testimonials exist.

…If you want the full system, start with Elite Bundle Resurrections.

If you are serious and want to ask about Elite Social Skills Flow Drill Mastery, use the contact form and ask directly.

-John Elite (Best Daygame Coach In The World)

P.S lets keep it that way this year. Stop acting super MGTOW. Your money problems with the tariffs making you quit, shouldn’t be my problems.

Why Unteachable Cases Never Win… How was he the only exception?

You want to know what happens when a student finally drops the stubborn act and does it my way.

Let’s talk about this Spanish student.

He’s not just any guy off the street.

He was one of those classic cases…

always a one-track mind, stuck in his own head, could never do more than one step at a time.

That’s not a dig at all Latinos, and I’m only talking about a narrow slice of the pickup crowd,

but the pattern is real.

Every time I get a student like this, it’s like dealing with full-blown Asperger’s.

The left and right brain just won’t connect.

The corpus callosum part of the brain that connects both of them together…

He’d start strong, then make a bad decision, and the whole thing would blow up in 4 months exactly.

I’m talking about real life consequences here…

bad enough that the police actually kicked down his door at one point, and he ended up in jail for a while.

If stupid shit like this happens every 4 months, he also got his girlfriend pregnant.

Eventually he made more money with my training and married her.

became a father, so it all worked out.

I won’t go into details, but that’s how far off the rails it got.

Even in there, the only thing that saved him was the social skills flow drill in jail.

He ran it and suddenly everyone wanted to be his friend.

That’s how powerful this stuff is, even when your life is a mess.

But this is what I see all the time with these unteachable cases.

They never change.

They’ll have a meltdown, get kicked out, blame me, run off, and then years later, they crawl back.

Every time he disappeared, my students would start getting laid again.

Then he’d come back, and suddenly it was like gravity…

everyone’s results would tank.

It’s like the universe responds to the energy these guys bring.

If you think everything is energy, nothing is solid, just a bunch of molecules floating and bumping around, you start to notice these patterns.

Dealing with unteachable cases always messes with your feelings.

It’s like they have a parasite in their head, telling them I’m wrong and they’re the expert.

That’s actual delusion.

I have the most laid students in the world for daygame, but these guys will argue with me until they’re blue in the face.

It’s not just Latinos either.

I’ve seen it in Chinese students, Black students, Italian or half-Italian students, even a few from Spain.

Especially from Spain for cluster A personality disorder, wth…

It’s the same stubbornness, same meltdown, same quitting, same resurrection, same gravity.

Every time.

I used to call it Latino fuck behavior, but that’s not accurate.

Seeing it finally happen to other ethnicities, I am going to change the name…

It’s unteachable case stubbornness.

Cluster B and C personalities on the side.

Cluster C is avoidant personality disorder that the unteachable cases have.

The chart hasn’t changed in years.

This is not the latino stubborness, but the low self esteem trait.

Delusion is stage one.

You hear your homework, but ego defense distortion scrambles the signal in real time.

You can’t hear your own mistakes, even if you sound angry or depressed.

Emotional blindness kicks in.

Stage two is half-assing it… mass approaching, no drills, tons of procrastination, ADHD out of control.

Stage three is the bad decision that blows up in four months.

Stage four is quitting.

That’s the cycle.

Recently, I’ve seen even more of it.

Mental blinking is everywhere.

Brains go on and off like a bad light switch.

When they’re “on,” they can learn.

When they’re “off,” you have to repeat yourself ten times and nothing sticks.

This is an ADHD trait.

Teachability gets stripped away right in front of you.

And if they have a one-track mind, it’s a countdown to quitting.

Strong beliefs like “it feels weird to sing like a melody” are a death sentence.

The minute it “feels weird,” they vanish.

The parasite wins.

Or if they don’t want to cut their hair as my Italian white student.

Or if he said he got the right pants, even if it was wrong and too baggy with the wrong pockets.

In 4 months he would of got rejected like a super fucking super zzombie.

Even if he got laid in New York.

The strong opinions will make them bhenchod and quit.

If you ever start to build self-esteem, ego drops, and you stop getting triggered.

But these types are always triggered, always delusional, always blaming the world.

Economy gets worse, more men go their own way, more excuses get made, more testimonials get ignored.

Money problems, globalization, digital IDs, the World Economic Forum, all of it just amplifies the delusion.

And if you think it can’t happen where you live, you’re wrong.

The same traits show up everywhere.

You want to know why nobody’s getting laid with the old big game sword anymore?

That samurai approach is dead.

Nobody is pulling with it.

Not last year, not now.

What works is ninja game.

Skill maxing.

Learning every tool, every weapon, every nuance.

Not just swinging the sword and hoping something lands.

When this student finally did it my way—after all the chaos, after getting kicked out, after years of struggle…

he got laid.

He got married.

He made more money.

He even had a side chick, a blonde Colombian, and when his wife found out, she forgave him.

That only happened because he finally embraced ninja game.

It took years, but he got there.

Most don’t.

Most never will.

Brains aren’t built for it.

Some will take two years, most will take forever, and some will never get it.

That’s the parable.

If you see yourself in any of this, you have a choice.

Do it your way, and keep getting the same result.

Or finally drop the stubbornness, follow the system, and maybe you’ll be the next guy who actually wins.

I’m not here to sugarcoat it.

The chart doesn’t lie.

The results don’t lie.

You can argue, you can quit, you can blame the world, but gravity always wins.

And so does ninja game.

Red Flags… How to Spot an Unteachable Case Before It’s Too Late…

You want to know how to spot these guys before they blow up your group, waste your time, and drag down your results.

I can tell you the red flags because I’ve seen them for years.

The first sign is always delusion.

You’ll notice it right away.

They hear what they want to hear.

Homework gets assigned, but the signal gets scrambled.

You explain it three different ways, but they still don’t get it.

They’ll say their voice sounds fine, even when it’s monotone and flat.

They’ll swear up and down their fashion is good, even when it’s a disaster.

There’s always some story about why they’re the exception.

You’ll see the second red flag when they start half-assing everything.

Assignments show up late or not at all.

Practice is skipped.

Drills are ignored.

Suddenly, they’re mass approaching with zero skill.

They procrastinate like it’s their full-time job.

It’s always “I’ll do it tomorrow,” but tomorrow never comes.

When you push them, they get defensive.

They start telling you how to coach.

They want to negotiate every step.

That’s when you know you’re dealing with unteachable case stubbornness.

The next red flag is the meltdown.

It always comes.

Maybe it’s a big rant.

Maybe it’s a wall of text blaming you, blaming the group, blaming the world.

Sometimes it’s a full-on tantrum.

Sometimes it’s a silent quit.

Either way, it’s coming.

There’s always a bad decision in the mix.

Four months down the line, something blows up.

Could be relationships, could be work, could be legal trouble, could just be total self-sabotage.

Every time, it’s predictable.

After the meltdown, they quit.

Disappear for weeks or months.

When they’re gone, everyone else starts getting results again.

It’s like a cloud lifts.

But they always come back.

Resurrected, at least for a while.

And every time, you feel the gravity shift.

You feel your own energy drop.

You watch the group’s momentum stall.

That’s how powerful these cases are.

You can see it coming if you pay attention.

Delusion.

Half-assing.

Meltdown.

Quitting.

Resurrection.

The cycle never changes.

If you see any of these red flags, don’t ignore them.

You’re not going to “fix” these guys with more patience or more hand-holding.

You’re just going to get dragged down with them.

Spot the pattern early.

Protect your group.

Protect your results.

If you don’t, you’ll pay for it in lost time, lost energy, and lost momentum.

I’ve learned that lesson more times than I care to count.

Ninja Game, Skill Maxing in a World Built to Make You Quit…

Ninja game isn’t just a catchy phrase.

It’s the only thing left that actually works.

The samurai circus is dead.

Nobody is getting laid swinging the big game sword, running around with brute force, mass approaching, thinking numbers will save them.

That was the old world.

Now, most of these guys are quitting.

They go MGTOW, men going their own way, because it’s easier to blame the world than fix their skills.

I don’t respect that.

I don’t respect the quitting.

I don’t respect the hiding.

The truth is, the market changed.

Women changed.

The world changed.

You can’t just force your way through anymore.

Skill maxing is the only answer.

The economy is squeezing everyone.

Inflation, tariffs, and now you’ve got the World Economic Forum pushing digital IDs, digital currencies, trying to turn the West into another China.

People are stressed.

They’re broke.

They’re angry.

They’re losing motivation.

It’s not just about game anymore.

It’s about survival.

That’s why you see so many men quitting, blaming the system, joining the MGTOW crowd, or just giving up on women altogether.

But here’s the thing.

Complaining doesn’t get you laid.

Blaming the world doesn’t get you results.

Skill maxing does.

Ninja game is about learning every drill, every nuance, every adjustment.

You keep your frame tight.

You move quietly.

You adapt in real time.

You don’t put on a show.

You don’t chase validation.

You don’t try to impress.

Instead, you build skills until they’re automatic.

Social skills flow drill isn’t just a gimmick.

It’s the foundation.

You let her talk, calibrate every move, and when the moment’s right, you escalate.

Objections come, you loop.

You handle every one until the answer is yes.

That’s not luck.

That’s not hope.

That’s real skill.

The student I talked about earlier, he only got results when he finally stopped fighting the system and started building real skills.

He got married.

He pulled a side chick.

His whole life changed.

That’s the power of skill maxing in a world built to make you quit.

You can’t shortcut it.

You can’t argue your way into it.

You have to do the work.

If you’re still stuck in the samurai mindset, hoping the old ways will save you, you’re just setting yourself up to lose.

The world is harder now.

The pressure is higher.

But if you can build the skills, you can still win.

If you can’t, you already know where you’ll end up.

MGTOW.

Excuses.

Blaming the world.

Watching from the sidelines while the guys who did the work get all the results.

That’s the real divide now.

Winners adapt.

Losers quit.

That’s ninja game.

-John Elite