Red pill and black pill mindsets are dangerous.
Why? It’s all about blame-shifting.
Both camps are obsessed with pointing fingers—never taking responsibility for their own results.
I was talking to a white student about this recently.
You have to watch out for that far left mentality: always shifting blame, crashing out, getting angry, and acting irrational.
It’s a brain structure thing—sociopathy mixed with narcissistic personality disorder, plus Machiavellian manipulation.
It’s not just guys, either.
A lot of modern women have these far left traits too—especially when narcissism fuels their delusions.
That’s where the whole “Karen” thing comes from.
It’s not just a meme. It’s a real psychological pattern.
And it’s not limited to one group.
Indians, Middle Easterners—I’ve seen these traits pop up everywhere.
They get triggered, they get irrational, and they start making excuses.
It’s a global problem, not just a Western one.
Now, people on the far right?
They’re different.
They’re more logical, more Christian, more moralistic.
They love saying, “You should do this, you should do that.”
They don’t crash out emotionally as much.
Right now, they’re winning elections all over.
I predicted Europe would swing right after Trump, and it’s happening.
I even called Israel’s move on Iran’s nuclear facilities—got the receipts to prove it.
Yeah, I’m psychic sometimes.
But here’s what matters for you:
Anytime you shift blame, you stop growing.
That’s what I call the “cackling Kamala” concept—making excuses, never your fault, always someone else to blame.
Sociopaths do this all the time.
They don’t feel guilt or remorse.
They don’t even know what that means.
They’re delusional, intense, and always have to win.
Bottom line?
Never shift blame.
You are responsible for everything that happens in your life.
Own it, and you can actually change and get results.
Keep making excuses, and you’ll stay stuck forever.
I even asked that student, “You have a far left brain, right? You voted for Kamala Harris, right?”
He was shocked—“How did you know?”
Easy. The patterns never lie.
RED PILL AND BLACK PILL ARE BLAME SHIFTING SOCIOPATHS
I wasn’t even planning to write a post today. Honestly, the last one could’ve just stayed up. But I’ve got a lot on my mind—so here comes another freestyle.
Let’s talk about masculinity and this whole Andrew Tate/Red Pill thing.
To be real, most of my audience doesn’t even care about Red Pill. They’re like, “What the fuck is that?
Who gives a shit?”
But here’s something you probably didn’t know:
Every major Red Pill coach? They’re all married.
Every single one.
Some are even dads.
It’s the weirdest thing.
They preach anger at women, but behind the scenes, they’re living the exact life they tell you to avoid.
It’s almost like they’re manifesting what they secretly want—marriage, stability, family.
It’s not a coincidence.
Here’s the real deal:
Red Pill and Black Pill both run on blame-shifting.
Red Pill blames women and status.
Black Pill blames looks.
Both are extremist, both are half-truths.
They’re just different “operating systems” on the same dark triad hardware—sociopathy, narcissism, Machiavellian traits.
And let’s talk about all this TikTok “evidence” people use to generalize about women.
You see these clips of women blaming men, talking about “high body counts,” “cock carousel,” whatever.
But honestly?
That’s a tiny, narcissistic slice of the population.
You have to be pretty narcissistic to even want to broadcast your life on TikTok.
Most women aren’t like that.
Most women don’t have a super high lay count.
They might have six or seven relationships, then get married.
That’s it for them.
Now, there are women out there with crazy high lay counts—no doubt.
But those are the ones with real narcissistic traits.
Damaged goods, mentally off.
That’s not the majority.
Could most women rack up 100 lays in three months if they wanted to? Absolutely.
Tinder and the algorithm make it possible.
But most don’t.
So what’s the point?
Stop blaming “female nature” just because you don’t understand it.
Red Pill, Black Pill—both are just excuses.
If you keep shifting the blame, you’ll never get the results you want.
You’ll never actually understand women, and you’ll stay stuck, angry, and alone.
Let’s talk about female nature. It’s actually simple if you know what to look for.
First—forget all the Red Pill and Black Pill noise. Most of those guys are obsessed with blaming women or blaming “the system” because their own SMV is low.
They want to believe it’s all fixed, but it’s not. That’s the first mistake.
Here’s the real deal:
Female nature is basically three things:
- Relative SMV (Sexual Market Value):
It’s 20 out of 35. That’s it. That’s the number you need to hit if you want to get laid from daygame. - Emotional Reasoning:
Women are emotional creatures.
Their decisions are driven by how they feel in the moment.
That’s why you see so many guys with low SMV get frustrated—they’re too logical, too stuck in their own heads, and they forget that women are operating on emotion most of the time.
If you come in with blame-shifting, negative energy, or you’re just plain low value, women sense it instantly and bail. - Logic Last:
Logic only comes in when she throws out a logical objection.
That’s rare—less than 1% of the time.
Almost all objections are logical from the left brain, but the rest of the time, she’s running on emotion and recalculating your SMV.
If you try to argue with emotion using logic, you’re wasting your time.
Only answer logic with logic, and emotion with emotion—simple as that.
So for all the low SMV guys who want to get laid but can barely afford anything, have bad emotions, talk super fast (thanks, cortisol), and look like crap—what do you expect?
You can’t just walk into my training as a low SMV, unteachable case and expect magic.
You need to bring something to the table.
Hit that 20 out of 35, work on your emotional control, and stop shifting blame.
That’s how you understand female nature—and actually get results.
Let’s talk solutions…
This is what I tell my white students…
But honestly, it applies to everyone…
First rule…
Never make excuses…
Never shift blame…
Every time you do, it’s like yanking the handbrake on your life…
You stall out—no progress for 24 hours…
Sociopathic students?
They always pull the “cackling Kamala” move…
Excuses are for losers…
Losers with cortisol issues…
Winners?
They get more testosterone with every win…
Losers?
More cortisol, more b
lame-shifting, more excuses…
It’s a vicious cycle…
Once that sociopathic gene flips on, they’ll keep making excuses…
Even when I call them out—show them the Cackling Kamala concept—they’ll do it four more times before it finally clicks…
They go through this cycle:
- Excuses…
- Blame-shifting…
- Self-congratulation…
- Then finally, realizing they were wrong—because their memory got wiped by stress…
I showed this to one of my white students…
He tried to shift the blame onto me…
I called it out—told him, “That’s a far-left, sociopathic mindset…”
Sociopaths hate being called out…
It triggers them hard…
Second rule…
Never beat yourself up…
My system works—if you stick to the protocol…
Look at Brian Johnson, that longevity guy…
Obsessed with his protocol, but still looks old as hell…
I look younger—my protocol actually works…
But here’s the point…
He never changes anything—he’s forced to stick to his system “for science”…
My protocol?
It’s called the 640…
Listen to my audio six times…
Then watch the video and listen to it forty times…
Not busywork—this wires it into your brain…
If you can’t remember our first Skype call, how will you remember the second one without the 640 protocol?
You need to install this neural link, or you’re screwed…
One of my Latino students did it right…
Watched the hybrid opener video six times, then forty times…
When he was about to go for a same-day lay with a girl who sounded crazy, I told him to abort…
He listened—he’s already gotten laid, already had wins…
The protocol works—if you do it…
But if you try to break the protocol—take a day off, blame ADHD, make excuses—guess what happens?
Memory wipes out…
You start slipping…
One day off becomes two, then three, then you’re done…
Total loser behavior…
I had a student named Marco who tried this…
Wanted to take a day off, asked about his Indian classmate (who I kicked out for slacking)…
I told him: you want to stay in?
Do the work…
If not, you’re out…
Now he’s on track, doing the assignments, not making excuses…
Bottom line…
If you want results—stop making excuses, stop shifting blame, and stick to the protocol…
Excuses are for losers—not for my students…
If you’ve made it this far and you’re still making excuses,
still blaming women,
still stuck in Red Pill or Black Pill thinking—wake up.
You’re broke,
you’re stressed,
you’re losing your hair,
you’ve got a double chin,
and you’re depressed.
You want results with women,
but you don’t want to do the work.
You want to believe you’re “enough”—
but your low SMV and loser habits are exactly why you’re stuck.
Every time you get depressed,
you drink,
you watch porn,
you waste money on garbage food.
You’re broke because you can’t control yourself.
You’re stuck in the loser loop—
and nobody else is going to tell you the truth.
I’m not here to coddle you.
I’m not here to sell you a fantasy.
I don’t care if I lose money by telling you what you need to hear.
If you’re done being a fucking loser,
and you’re ready to actually do the work,
I can turn you into a winner—just like my students.
But if you’re an unteachable case,
a total fucking loser,
then seriously—fuck off.
This isn’t for you.
But if you’re coachable—
if you’re Latino,
Asian,
Indian,
or anyone with the guts to face the truth and put in the work—
then what are you waiting for?
The five-day challenge is coming up on the 18th.
But if you’re tired of wasting time,
if you want results now,
don’t wait for me to write the next challenge.
Join me right now.
Change your life,
or keep making excuses.
Your move.
-John Elite
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