Random Thoughts for July 4th, 2025. The state of Daygame

This is my last golden nuggets video, I would have to film a lot more in batches

I think this is probably the last or second last golden nuggets video.

I’m going to film a bunch of them in the future, but without being on YouTube live.

I’m just going to secretly film it and then I’m going to start cutting the video.

So I hope you guys do appreciate this one.

It was not easy to do because it was like 30 minutes worth of editing, but I did it anyways.

I’m only one person.

I’m doing everything by myself.

My video editing program, now you can prompt it and it will start to cut it automatically.

This will eliminate unnecessary video editors, especially this will put all the people in the Philippines out of the job for video editors, which is great.

I’m happy.

I hope they starve to death because these people default on projects and they just take your money and run.

They’re scumbag, sociopathic, two-faced motherfuckers.

3MP vs Elite Bundle Resurrections. How students reacts to the training.

Let me talk about the 3MP Bundle versus the Elite Bundle Resurrections.

Thereโ€™s a big difference in how students react to the training.

I have a new Chinese student who just gave me cash up frontโ€”$5K. He said, “Train me.”

This guy was fast.

In three days, he was able to do what other students could not do in three weeks.

He went through the mindset playlist for the first two days.

On the third day, he had to make 10 approaches.

Because on the second day, he also messed it up. He only had three approaches.

I forced him to do it.

On the tenth one, the woman… who is white…

invited him out to a church gathering or whatever.

It doesnโ€™t matter. He can work his way into her pants.

When I showed the other Latinos this, they were shocked.

These guys love to procrastinate. They love to take their day off and have a fucking siesta.

But this Chinese student is tough.

Right now, on this fourth day, he didnโ€™t show up to training because heโ€™s actually going out and hanging around with this white woman.

He approached her on the campus too.

So, donโ€™t shit where you eat. But you know, small town.

He needed to prove that he could do it.

That means he needs to have superior social skills and whitewashed tonality to the maximum.

Letโ€™s just see how far he can go before he mentally crashes out.

Heโ€™s 21 years old too… Gen Z.

Letโ€™s just see how fast he gets laid.

But he also wants to get married, even though heโ€™s quite young.

So, Iโ€™m going to do that.

Accent vs vocal tonality, the excuse of accent, when its really tonality.

I also have another Indian student who just ascended to the second payment of Elite Bundle Resurrections.

I want to share some of the advice that I have given him.

One of the main pieces of advice is that your accent and your tonality are two different things.

A lot of people blame their accent, but in reality, sometimes people just donโ€™t talk very well.

They donโ€™t have a good vocal tonality.

I mean, look at Arnold Schwarzenegger.

That guy has a big accent, but we can understand what heโ€™s saying because he has good vocal tonality and good vocal abilities.

Lots of people have accents.

Some people you donโ€™t really understand what theyโ€™re saying.

Kind of like Conor McGregor.

You have to work really hard to listen to it because theyโ€™re not trained how to speak properly.

People should have that distinction.

Elite Tonality Mastery… despite you having an accent…

it really doesnโ€™t matter.

Because even if youโ€™re Indian and you fix your tonality and you dress whitewashed, most people cannot technically tell that youโ€™re Indian.

Theyโ€™ll think youโ€™re Middle Eastern or theyโ€™ll think youโ€™re something else, just not Indian.

So the whole accent as an excuse is just bullshit.

Thereโ€™s lots of people that donโ€™t even look Indian.

They may look black or some other race or Latino and then theyโ€™re like, oh, my Indian accent.

Nobody can actually pair them together.

Thatโ€™s complete bullshit.

So yeah, fix your vocal tonality.

Make sure you can speak clearly and thereโ€™s going to be great lessons because I only have five videos in there right now.

Thereโ€™s going to be a lot more in the future.

But Iโ€™m thinking to myself, do I need to add more to the course or is the course so perfect that you have to go through every video six times and write down notes on your Google document?

Maybe thatโ€™s more importantโ€”to really absorb it by imprinting your brain over and over so you can correct the mistakes.

It takes six times.

Thatโ€™s the magic number.

Thatโ€™s what Marco did when he got laid, that Latino student above over there.

He had to go through everything six times, but heโ€™s only gone through three videos.

Heโ€™s on his fourth one, I believe, right now.

But he also got banned because he started taking days off.

So for a week, despite him getting laid, I still banned him for being a bad student.

Discipline equals freedom.

And this banning thing has worked really well because when youโ€™re a bad student, youโ€™re going to be delusional when you talk to me, having a meltdown, and youโ€™ll start procrastinating because of low self-esteem.

After you get banned for a long time, then you wake up.

Your cortisol will leave your system and then youโ€™ll be less delusional.

And then you actually can be coachable because you donโ€™t want to be banned again.

These people… you canโ€™t reason with a zombie.

Youโ€™re talking to zombies.

They donโ€™t have any logic.

Itโ€™s kind of like Iran.

No matter how much you talk to them, theyโ€™re just going to delay and stall and then just keep building nuclear facilities.

Just bunker buster them.

Itโ€™s the same thing.

Just ban these people.

Thereโ€™s no actual rationalization.

They only understand consequences.

And whenever bad students get banned, a good student will show up in my manifestation, my thoughts and feelings, like gravity, all the time.

And then the woman that theyโ€™re with, sheโ€™ll start to submit too for some reason.

Iโ€™m not sure if itโ€™s manifested.

Everybody submits.

So your thoughts and feelings equals your vibe, your energy, your frequency.

It has to be corrected.

Everyone daygame coach is based on their own merits, getting students laid. Not worshipping the halo effect. My stuff is still transferable.

Every daygame coach is based on their own merits.

What I mean by that is, whatโ€™s the point of worshipping a dating coach?

For example, letโ€™s just say a dating coach might have daygame lay testimonials during the pandemic from 2020 and 2021.

But then for the last many years, thereโ€™s no lay testimonials.

Letโ€™s say they start using crutches in their game.

Maybe they use alcohol.

Heavy bedroom escalation.

Then they just recut some old clips and try to make it look new.

Itโ€™s like taking an old piece of clothing thatโ€™s beat up and trying to make it into something that itโ€™s not… which is new.

Iโ€™ve been posting lay testimonials, putting the date on it as soon as a student got laid.

These are all new.

Theyโ€™ve been happening every single five-day challenge.

I say itโ€™s important not to worship a coach because transferability is everything.

Unless youโ€™re a sheepโ€”youโ€™re like the far left type where youโ€™re sociopathic and youโ€™re triggered easily.

If youโ€™re triggered extremely easily, you will always be worshipping dating coaches.

And worshipping the halo effect, like when youโ€™re tall, white, and strong, doesnโ€™t automatically get you laid.

And this video did not get a lot of views.

It has like 40 views because people donโ€™t want to hear the truth.

Because they are a bunch of fucking sheep.

Not my students.

They are enlightened daygamers.

When youโ€™re enlightened, you know thereโ€™s something wrong with the entire daygame industry.

You almost think theyโ€™re always trying to sell boot camps.

Every single time, itโ€™s always how to maximize the profits by getting these sheep into boot camps…

or what I call slaughterhouses.

This is not the way to be.

And more people were delusional last year.

These people have been making record profits for boot camps.

Because the inflation was so high for the interest rates, peopleโ€™s minds flipped upside down.

And they got triggered and more delusional…

the four traits of low self-esteem.

Number one, they became more delusional.

Number two, they start half-assing everything and worshipping.

Number three, the wrong path to sociopathโ€”it blows up in your face in four months.

Or when you listen to these white dating coaches and you cannot stop sucking off their banana as fast as you can, right?

And number four, youโ€™ll quit.

A lot of people turn MGTOW.

So the coachโ€™s student results are important.

In the beginning, I only got one student laid for the first three months.

It was very hard because I didnโ€™t get enough students.

And that guy has three lays, two in one day.

Then afterwards, they started popping off because I had the right instinct to release Elite Tonality Mastery.

I was talking about it with my millionaire student, the Chinese guy, and he says, donโ€™t do it, just release Elite Bundle 2 and then teach Elite Tonality Mastery…

which he also learned because he got 15 lays, five models, five white girls, two actresses, and he married one of the actresses and now heโ€™s a father.

But then I decided from my gut instinct that you might as well release that because that way I donโ€™t have to do as much work teaching everything on Elite Access.

Also, they will understand that tonality is important.

But hereโ€™s a difference.

If I try to explain emotions, most of these triggered people have alexithymia…

emotional blindness.

They donโ€™t actually have any emotions, especially Latinos.

If they hear their own infields, they cannot hear the anger in their voice.

It just sounds like the emotion is not even turned on.

Thereโ€™s no way to interpret it.

They can only hear if itโ€™s talking fast or if itโ€™s too long, or maybe thereโ€™s a sigh at the end of the sentence, but they cannot actually hear the emotions or identify it.

I even had the worst student of the year, half Latino, half white.

Heโ€™s no longer a student.

He accused me of saying, oh, Iโ€™m gaslighting him.

Everybody else would say that it sounded good.

Another student did the same thing, which is surprising.

And I had to get both of them on the phone with another Latino that explained to them, listen, they have emotional blindness, both of them.

And then he finally listened.

Yeah, Latinos do not actually have emotions.

They have triggered feelings, which are two different things.

Because feelings are negative feelings.

Emotions could be many different types of emotions.

This is why the people that are far left, they donโ€™t actually have any emotions.

They get triggered, like Trump derangement syndrome.

This kind of brain style with low self-esteem will make them not accomplish anything, be a narcissist, shift blame, and crash out all the time.

UPDATE WITH THE 3MP STUDENT. HE JUST GOT BACK MEETING A WHITE WOMAN, 10TH APPROACH AND REPLIED.

What does 3MP stand for?

It’s no longer called 3 months to proficiency.

That was the first name.

I’ll talk about the update of the student soon, but I want to clarify what it is.

At first it was 3 months of infield analysis to be proficient.

Now the name has changed into 3M, which stands for mating, marriage, because some students want to get married, and lastly mastery.

You can be one of the three.

Some people want to be here to master it, getting many lays.

Other people might want to be here for other reasons, like getting married, like this student wants that.

Other people just want mating, like having a white girlfriend or white fuck buddy, like a lot of my students over there.

So it’s up to you how you use this course, because it has every single online course and digital course all in one.

Let’s talk about this student today.

This is day number 4.

He’s done very well.

I mean day number 1 and 2, he’s already done the mindset playlist.

Day number 3, he’s already gone and had 10 approaches.

Day number 4, he’s gone out and met with the white girl, the 10th approach, even though his audio was quite long.

He does not have training yet officially.

So he’s done the best he can.

My best advice to him is just to take the punches, because a cop pulled him over last time and he gave him a ticket, and he crashed out.

And I said, do not worry about it.

Think about this as an opportunity.

One of my white students, who’s an unteachable case, he has like a dual personality.

One of them is like a tall, good-looking white guy.

That’s only after he vents his anger.

Once everything’s reset, he becomes Mr. Cinderella Man.

And then he switches back into this one.

It’s like the movie The Substance with Demi Moore, where there’s like a younger version that’s better looking that gets rebooted, that’s created from her, and then you have to switch back and forth over and over every week.

So as I digress, for this Asian student, I’m just saying he should not beat himself up.

The students that beat themselves up is not good to think it’s failure, because my system is perfect.

If you just follow and transform to it, you’ll get laid.

But even if you crash a few times, just like rockets like Elon Musk, it crashes a few times, no big deal.

But you’re still going towards the right direction.

You’ll get into orbit.

You’ll still pull women home, and you’ll get laid, as long as you keep trying and adapting.

Memory is very important.

So reframe that.

If you try to learn from a white dating coach or other dating coaches whose stuff is not transferable, then you are failing, because you chose a system that is not transferable anymore.

It doesn’t matter if they had crutches or it was transferable before.

It’s not transferable this year or last year or the year before that during the inflation.

Because women are not going to put up with alcohol and you having heavy bedroom escalation in a first world country.

And they don’t give a fuck about your clout either, your status maxing.

So if my students are able to get it done, it’s not easy.

But actually it’s easier than ever, because if you combine elite tonality mastery with the aero science, together it’s unstoppable.

That covers everything.

Of course the body language, all that stuff is very important, but that’s still part of the aero science, including being able to manage your finances so that way you’re not in survival mode, so the aero does not start to shake.

That’s also part of the aero science.

It’s all connected.

It’s not just maneuver, sexualize it to the maximum, and dealing with the sexual objections only.

This way you don’t need alcohol.

The “I Have A Boyfriend” Excuse and How to Solve It Daygame

The golden nuggets series is back. Or that is my last video I have in the series, so watch it.

Hey there, Iโ€™m John Elite… best daygame coach in the world.

Let me take the stage and show you why my approach is different.

With over 666 laid and pulled testimonials, what I teach is real.

If youโ€™re tired of the same old dating advice that gets you nowhere, youโ€™re in the right place.

Forget the optics.

Leave them behind.

With each golden nugget youโ€™ll discover here, youโ€™ll open up your mind and transform your game.


Who Is John Elite? Why Listen to Me?

Iโ€™m not just another dating coach.

Iโ€™m the worldโ€™s leading daygame coach, with more proven results than anyone else in the industry.

I donโ€™t just sell hope…

I deliver transformation.

My Elite Bundle Resurrections program is the most effective daygame system for 2025, and my studentsโ€™ results speak for themselves.

I donโ€™t believe in quick fixes, bootcamps, or empty promises.

I believe in science, structure, and repeatable results.


The Problem with Mainstream Daygame Advice

Letโ€™s get real.

Most daygame advice you see online is outdated and ineffective.

Youโ€™ll hear tall, self-proclaimed โ€œnaturalโ€ coaches telling you to go direct, give compliments, and validate women from the start.

But all this does is put you in a position to be judged on your looks and status.

Youโ€™re off the line before you even begin.

No wonder you keep hearing the dreaded โ€œI have a boyfriendโ€ excuse.

This isnโ€™t just frustrating…

itโ€™s demoralizing.

Every rejection chips away at your confidence and leaves you doubting your ability to succeed.


Why Direct Compliments Fail

When you lead with a compliment, youโ€™re making it all about physical appearance.

You miss the chance to connect on a deeper level.

You put yourself in the line of fire, and if you donโ€™t measure up, you get rejected.

Thatโ€™s why so many daygamers get stuck in a cycle of rejection, anxiety, and self-doubt.

You start to dread approaching women, fearing the same excuse will haunt every interaction.


The Real Reason Youโ€™re Not Getting Results

Itโ€™s not your fault.

The industry has misled you.

Direct game is a scam.

The numbers donโ€™t lie…

other coaches have huge subscriber counts but almost zero real results.

Meanwhile, my students are stacking lay and pull testimonials every single month.

Why?

Because I teach a system that works…

even during tough economic times.

I focus on mindset, social skills, and real strategy.


The Elite Bundle Resurrections: What Makes It Different?

My flagship program, Elite Bundle Resurrections, is built on the science of social calibration, tonality, and emotional control.

Itโ€™s not just about lines or routines…

itโ€™s about transforming your entire mental filter.

Youโ€™ll learn:

  • How to master the hybrid opener and avoid the boyfriend objection entirely
  • How to build deep, genuine rapport (not just surface-level attraction)
  • How to calibrate your approach to any woman, in any city, under any conditions
  • How to develop resilience, grit, and the mindset of a true winner
  • Why social skills and social calibration matter more than looks or status

I donโ€™t just teach you what to say…

I teach you how to think, act, and win.


The Hybrid Opener: Your Secret Weapon

Hereโ€™s the truth.

If you want to avoid the โ€œI have a boyfriendโ€ objection, you need to get off the line of fire.

That means starting indirect…

asking for directions, making a neutral inquiry, or simply breaking the ice in a low-pressure way.

Once you have her attention, you transition smoothly into a casual, natural observation.

Then, you use empathy statements and address the elephant in the room.

This approach is natural, non-threatening, and keeps you on the lineโ€”so you never get hit with the boyfriend objection.


Why My Students Succeed (And Others Fail)

My students donโ€™t get stuck in the cycle of rejection.

They donโ€™t fear approaching women.

They donโ€™t dread the โ€œI have a boyfriendโ€ excuse.

Instead, they build real confidence, social intelligence, and emotional control.

They succeed…

again and again…

because they follow a proven, scientific system.

And the results speak for themselves: 666+ lay and pull testimonials.

No other coach even comes close.


The Importance of Mindset and Grit

Itโ€™s not just about tactics.

Itโ€™s about mindset.

Most students who fail have a fixed mindset, low resilience, and avoid doing the work.

They self-sabotage, blame others, and never break the cycle.

But my system is designed to build grit, resilience, and a growth mindset.

Youโ€™ll learn how to overcome mental trauma, break through your limits, and become the best version of yourself…

inside and outside of daygame.


Why You Should Avoid the MGTOW Mindset

I advocate against the MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) mindset.

That mentality is about giving up, blaming society, and avoiding responsibility.

My approach is about personal responsibility, growth, and real-world results.

If you want to win, you have to face your fears, do the work, and invest in yourself.


The Real Cost of Waiting

Every month you wait is another month lost.

You risk quitting, turning bitter, and missing out on real transformation.

The longer you delay, the harder it gets.

Donโ€™t let indecision hold you back.

Strategic investment in coaching is the fastest way to get results and change your life.


Ready to Transform Your Daygame?

If youโ€™re tired of rejection, tired of hearing โ€œI have a boyfriend,โ€ and tired of wasting time and money on coaches who canโ€™t get students laid…

join my program.

Contact me today for a consultation and start your journey to becoming an elite daygamer.

This is your chance to rise above the rest and claim your success.

The opportunity is here, but it wonโ€™t wait forever.

Act decisively and watch your daygame results transform.

Donโ€™t forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell for more insights and tips on mastering daygame.


The Proof Is in the Student Results

If you need more proof, check out my testimonial page on my website.

665+ laid and pulled testimonials.

Elite Bundle Resurrections is the only course that consistently delivers real results.

Donโ€™t sit on the sidelines.

Take control of your destiny and join the winning team.

3mp I sold a few lately. Maybe its better to focus on this instead of Elite Bundle Resurrections.

Join my webinar.

-John Elite (Best Daygame Coach In The World)

P.S, of course, everyone knows. Lets see who gets laid this month.