Why Unteachable Cases Never Win… How was he the only exception?
You want to know what happens when a student finally drops the stubborn act and does it my way.
Let’s talk about this Spanish student.
He’s not just any guy off the street.
He was one of those classic cases…
always a one-track mind, stuck in his own head, could never do more than one step at a time.
That’s not a dig at all Latinos, and I’m only talking about a narrow slice of the pickup crowd,
but the pattern is real.
Every time I get a student like this, it’s like dealing with full-blown Asperger’s.
The left and right brain just won’t connect.
The corpus callosum part of the brain that connects both of them together…
He’d start strong, then make a bad decision, and the whole thing would blow up in 4 months exactly.
I’m talking about real life consequences here…
bad enough that the police actually kicked down his door at one point, and he ended up in jail for a while.
If stupid shit like this happens every 4 months, he also got his girlfriend pregnant.
Eventually he made more money with my training and married her.
became a father, so it all worked out.
I won’t go into details, but that’s how far off the rails it got.
Even in there, the only thing that saved him was the social skills flow drill in jail.
He ran it and suddenly everyone wanted to be his friend.
That’s how powerful this stuff is, even when your life is a mess.
But this is what I see all the time with these unteachable cases.
They never change.
They’ll have a meltdown, get kicked out, blame me, run off, and then years later, they crawl back.
Every time he disappeared, my students would start getting laid again.
Then he’d come back, and suddenly it was like gravity…
everyone’s results would tank.
It’s like the universe responds to the energy these guys bring.
If you think everything is energy, nothing is solid, just a bunch of molecules floating and bumping around, you start to notice these patterns.
Dealing with unteachable cases always messes with your feelings.
It’s like they have a parasite in their head, telling them I’m wrong and they’re the expert.
That’s actual delusion.
I have the most laid students in the world for daygame, but these guys will argue with me until they’re blue in the face.
It’s not just Latinos either.
I’ve seen it in Chinese students, Black students, Italian or half-Italian students, even a few from Spain.
Especially from Spain for cluster A personality disorder, wth…
It’s the same stubbornness, same meltdown, same quitting, same resurrection, same gravity.
Every time.
I used to call it Latino fuck behavior, but that’s not accurate.
Seeing it finally happen to other ethnicities, I am going to change the name…
It’s unteachable case stubbornness.
Cluster B and C personalities on the side.
Cluster C is avoidant personality disorder that the unteachable cases have.
The chart hasn’t changed in years.
This is not the latino stubborness, but the low self esteem trait.
Delusion is stage one.
You hear your homework, but ego defense distortion scrambles the signal in real time.
You can’t hear your own mistakes, even if you sound angry or depressed.
Emotional blindness kicks in.
Stage two is half-assing it… mass approaching, no drills, tons of procrastination, ADHD out of control.
Stage three is the bad decision that blows up in four months.
Stage four is quitting.
That’s the cycle.
Recently, I’ve seen even more of it.
Mental blinking is everywhere.
Brains go on and off like a bad light switch.
When they’re “on,” they can learn.
When they’re “off,” you have to repeat yourself ten times and nothing sticks.
This is an ADHD trait.
Teachability gets stripped away right in front of you.
And if they have a one-track mind, it’s a countdown to quitting.
Strong beliefs like “it feels weird to sing like a melody” are a death sentence.
The minute it “feels weird,” they vanish.
The parasite wins.
Or if they don’t want to cut their hair as my Italian white student.
Or if he said he got the right pants, even if it was wrong and too baggy with the wrong pockets.
In 4 months he would of got rejected like a super fucking super zzombie.
Even if he got laid in New York.
The strong opinions will make them bhenchod and quit.
If you ever start to build self-esteem, ego drops, and you stop getting triggered.
But these types are always triggered, always delusional, always blaming the world.
Economy gets worse, more men go their own way, more excuses get made, more testimonials get ignored.
Money problems, globalization, digital IDs, the World Economic Forum, all of it just amplifies the delusion.
And if you think it can’t happen where you live, you’re wrong.
The same traits show up everywhere.
You want to know why nobody’s getting laid with the old big game sword anymore?
That samurai approach is dead.
Nobody is pulling with it.
Not last year, not now.
What works is ninja game.
Skill maxing.
Learning every tool, every weapon, every nuance.
Not just swinging the sword and hoping something lands.
When this student finally did it my way—after all the chaos, after getting kicked out, after years of struggle…
he got laid.
He got married.
He made more money.
He even had a side chick, a blonde Colombian, and when his wife found out, she forgave him.
That only happened because he finally embraced ninja game.
It took years, but he got there.
Most don’t.
Most never will.
Brains aren’t built for it.
Some will take two years, most will take forever, and some will never get it.
That’s the parable.
If you see yourself in any of this, you have a choice.
Do it your way, and keep getting the same result.
Or finally drop the stubbornness, follow the system, and maybe you’ll be the next guy who actually wins.
I’m not here to sugarcoat it.
The chart doesn’t lie.
The results don’t lie.
You can argue, you can quit, you can blame the world, but gravity always wins.
And so does ninja game.
Red Flags… How to Spot an Unteachable Case Before It’s Too Late…
You want to know how to spot these guys before they blow up your group, waste your time, and drag down your results.
I can tell you the red flags because I’ve seen them for years.
The first sign is always delusion.
You’ll notice it right away.
They hear what they want to hear.
Homework gets assigned, but the signal gets scrambled.
You explain it three different ways, but they still don’t get it.
They’ll say their voice sounds fine, even when it’s monotone and flat.
They’ll swear up and down their fashion is good, even when it’s a disaster.
There’s always some story about why they’re the exception.
You’ll see the second red flag when they start half-assing everything.
Assignments show up late or not at all.
Practice is skipped.
Drills are ignored.
Suddenly, they’re mass approaching with zero skill.
They procrastinate like it’s their full-time job.
It’s always “I’ll do it tomorrow,” but tomorrow never comes.
When you push them, they get defensive.
They start telling you how to coach.
They want to negotiate every step.
That’s when you know you’re dealing with unteachable case stubbornness.
The next red flag is the meltdown.
It always comes.
Maybe it’s a big rant.
Maybe it’s a wall of text blaming you, blaming the group, blaming the world.
Sometimes it’s a full-on tantrum.
Sometimes it’s a silent quit.
Either way, it’s coming.
There’s always a bad decision in the mix.
Four months down the line, something blows up.
Could be relationships, could be work, could be legal trouble, could just be total self-sabotage.
Every time, it’s predictable.
After the meltdown, they quit.
Disappear for weeks or months.
When they’re gone, everyone else starts getting results again.
It’s like a cloud lifts.
But they always come back.
Resurrected, at least for a while.
And every time, you feel the gravity shift.
You feel your own energy drop.
You watch the group’s momentum stall.
That’s how powerful these cases are.
You can see it coming if you pay attention.
Delusion.
Half-assing.
Meltdown.
Quitting.
Resurrection.
The cycle never changes.
If you see any of these red flags, don’t ignore them.
You’re not going to “fix” these guys with more patience or more hand-holding.
You’re just going to get dragged down with them.
Spot the pattern early.
Protect your group.
Protect your results.
If you don’t, you’ll pay for it in lost time, lost energy, and lost momentum.
I’ve learned that lesson more times than I care to count.
Ninja Game, Skill Maxing in a World Built to Make You Quit…
Ninja game isn’t just a catchy phrase.
It’s the only thing left that actually works.
The samurai circus is dead.
Nobody is getting laid swinging the big game sword, running around with brute force, mass approaching, thinking numbers will save them.
That was the old world.
Now, most of these guys are quitting.
They go MGTOW, men going their own way, because it’s easier to blame the world than fix their skills.
I don’t respect that.
I don’t respect the quitting.
I don’t respect the hiding.
The truth is, the market changed.
Women changed.
The world changed.
You can’t just force your way through anymore.
Skill maxing is the only answer.
The economy is squeezing everyone.
Inflation, tariffs, and now you’ve got the World Economic Forum pushing digital IDs, digital currencies, trying to turn the West into another China.
People are stressed.
They’re broke.
They’re angry.
They’re losing motivation.
It’s not just about game anymore.
It’s about survival.
That’s why you see so many men quitting, blaming the system, joining the MGTOW crowd, or just giving up on women altogether.
But here’s the thing.
Complaining doesn’t get you laid.
Blaming the world doesn’t get you results.
Skill maxing does.
Ninja game is about learning every drill, every nuance, every adjustment.
You keep your frame tight.
You move quietly.
You adapt in real time.
You don’t put on a show.
You don’t chase validation.
You don’t try to impress.
Instead, you build skills until they’re automatic.
Social skills flow drill isn’t just a gimmick.
It’s the foundation.
You let her talk, calibrate every move, and when the moment’s right, you escalate.
Objections come, you loop.
You handle every one until the answer is yes.
That’s not luck.
That’s not hope.
That’s real skill.
The student I talked about earlier, he only got results when he finally stopped fighting the system and started building real skills.
He got married.
He pulled a side chick.
His whole life changed.
That’s the power of skill maxing in a world built to make you quit.
You can’t shortcut it.
You can’t argue your way into it.
You have to do the work.
If you’re still stuck in the samurai mindset, hoping the old ways will save you, you’re just setting yourself up to lose.
The world is harder now.
The pressure is higher.
But if you can build the skills, you can still win.
If you can’t, you already know where you’ll end up.
MGTOW.
Excuses.
Blaming the world.
Watching from the sidelines while the guys who did the work get all the results.
That’s the real divide now.
Winners adapt.
Losers quit.
That’s ninja game.
-John Elite
World's BEST Daygame Coach with 673 Laid/Pull Testimonials. More Than Every Daygame Coach In The World Combined 
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