Author: vancouverdaygame

I talked about the 5 attraction switches before. Why not use DHV stories in your daygame to flip attraction switches of higher value. Not explicitly, but implicitly. Meaning, don’t try to state it outright so it sounds like bragging. But say it in such a way it sounds like you are talking about a friend. But you use the word she in it to her surprise. To imply you have females around you. Pick 10 of your best stories as if you were a comedian and this is your material. Make sure you can flip a lot of the attraction switches. Just say parts of the story in pieces. No one has the time to listen all day to a full story. As long as you flip the 5 attraction switches. Let these stories demonstrate the best part of your personality. At times being Asian and short for example. You would be stereotyped as someone without a lot of dating options. You can put into your stories how you have dated women like models ect. You can even relate with short stories like, “Oh you are Russian? Reminds me of my friend Anastasia, (or Ana, for other races.) Man, she wasn’t a citizen and she tried to marry me. I haven’t talked to her in two weeks. I’m sure she is married to someone else right now.” Image not only using this for knowledge and relatability. “Like oh my best friend is this too. She..”But into normal statements too. I rarely see people who can do this on the fly, off the top of their own head. You seem like you go to this university. Rather than say do you go to university? Which you would get a yes, no or maybe answer. “One time I sneaked in there with a backpack. (risktaker) I brought a few other girls with me (preselection). A fight nearly broke out, I told them to back off. They sensed how calm I was sensing I knew how to fight. (protector status). My friends cheered me on (leader of men). I ended up making out with a few girls, but connected very well with them. (ability to emote). The rest I can’t say.” This might be the missing component if you aren’t strong or tall. You don’t have preselection or protector status. Or you are still building it. But for now, these stories can raise your value in a short interaction. No one said the stories have to be true, just sound believable. But I prefer to tell true stories. That is why building a lifestyle is just as important. So you have things to talk about. You aren’t trying to be a try hard or braggart. But someone who is the most interesting man in the world. Showing her a trailer of your world. Inviting her in.

No all of us will have every quality other daygamers have. Most of the so-called naturals. Not natural and direct wannabes. But actual naturals, or born good at being with women tends to be tall, decent looking and very confident. But we all can’t have everything, we have to learn it in a synthetic way. For a short Asian guy who is skinny. He needs to compensate by working out. The stereotypes he would face would be he is too short or skinny, or not masculine. It is really important to work out and gain a lot of mass. If he is really short, perhaps a verbal only game isn’t suitable. Rather combining it with progressive kino escalation. For a tall black guy who is intimidating. It is important he is soft-spoken and articulates when he speaks. For an East Indian guy. Although they can be tall and strong. With a harsh funny sounding accent. (No racial) It is important not to be a clown. It just reinforces the stereotype. If you are from South America and from a country that is violent. Sometimes girls might bring a friend. It is important to reassure that you are a safe guy to be around you can trust. If you were a tall white guy who has the height and muscle mass. But you dress like shit and don’t care about your hair. Then you can compensate by actually dressing better. Improving your fashion and passive value.

You have to take a few negative stereotype like me. I’m short and skinny, Asian. That is already three negative things working against me. I would need six positive things about me. I could focus on working out and getting a lot of mass. I could dress better than usual but relate to her tribe. I could have a confident but seductive personality. Demonstration of higher value from stories of dates I’ve had with pretty white or Latina girls. I could break the touch barrier and not be afraid to kino or touch in daygame. For every negative, have positives to compensate.

The average male height here is 5’9. Anything that height or taller is considered tall. Anything below it you have to compensate. If you were 5’7 and white, it doesn’t matter. You already have status. But if you were colored, it would be important to weight lift. The further you are away by every inch, the more compensation you need. I’m 5’7, so I would need a great deal of muscles to be showing. Some of the best PUAs I know are all 5’9-6’1. They will have compliance, a line of fuckability. Where race wouldn’t even matter at that height. If you can’t physically get over that line, you can use heel lifts. If that isn’t enough, you better get really wide. Trust me. Fashion opens sets so much easier. But working out and muscle mass gets you more pulls.