WHY I WANT A DIFFERENT KIND OF STUDENT THIS YEAR
I always talk about negativity in terms of poor people because they are not affording the coaching…
and that’s not very good because I am the best day game coach in the world.
Sometimes I think to myself…
is it the smear campaign that has happened to me that has turned people off and poisoned the well?
Or is it because the economy is bad…
which is more of a likely scenario?
And if the economy is bad…
it probably affects other dating coaches too.
Not just me…
So when I talk more negativity…
I believe your thoughts and feelings will equal manifestation.
Things would become like gravity in your life.
So I want to at least change the tone a little bit and talk about…
what is a good student…
and who do I want to manifest into my coaching this year?
WHAT TYPE OF STUDENT AM I LOOKING FOR THIS YEAR
So what type of student am I looking for for this year in general?
Well…
I want a person that is actually financially stable…
and that’s very hard these days.
For example…
I have a lot of students that are engineers…
but AI has been taking over their job…
where their coding skills are not necessary anymore.
When you are in survival mode because of the Maslow chart of human needs…
when the food, water, shelter, sex as in procreation, and also temperature control…
all these things can affect you.
In this building I’m living in over here…
earlier today…
they didn’t have any hot water.
They had to change something.
For example…
that would affect my Maslow chart of human needs.
But luckily I woke up later…
because I was feeling kind of mildly depressed right now…
even making this post.
I always have one nice student who’s Asian…
who has not started my training yet…
but he’s always encouraging me whenever I’m down…
while nobody else gives a shit.
FINANCIAL STABILITY COMES FIRST
But first of all…
the second level of the Maslow chart of human needs is to actually have enough financial stability.
This is why I think that’s very important.
First and foremost…
I see a lot of people that are just poor…
but in reality…
they’ll make excuses.
They won’t invest in themselves.
They think it’s a luxury…
but in reality…
they are bad people because they’re cluster B personality mixed with cluster C avoidance.
Poor people have poor mindsets.
And of course…
due to the economy, the Iran war, and everything else…
which I do not think is going to end anytime soon…
I think it’s really important to realize that if you don’t invest now…
you’re going to waste a summer.
And of course…
I know it’s a lot harder.
THE SECOND TRAIT I WANT IN A STUDENT
So this brings me up to the second question.
This question that I want to talk about is…
what do I want for the next trait?
You guys have seen my chart.
Sometimes I post a chart in terms of a Venn diagram.
I show that in order to get results with my coaching…
you need to have memory…
you need to have compression…
that means you actually need to develop a habit by not procrastinating…
and lastly…
you need to be adaptive.
So I would say that the best type of student is…
I’m not asking for much…
but the people that are very forgetful right now…
they cannot recall any information right now due to the bad economy.
That means the cortisol has wiped out their hippocampus…
the part of the brain that brings the short-term memory that you learn new stuff into the long-term memory.
It could be either for body language…
you start practicing drills…
or it could be remembering the rough strategy that I’m teaching for the arrow science.
WHY MEMORY MATTERS
But I do have current students that have absolutely no memory…
even students that were good students before…
getting laid…
no longer has a memory as they sigh out and they breathe out…
and then they just procrastinate and forget everything.
I have some students that cannot remember anything past one minute because they’re such losers.
So I want a winner to train here…
a person with stable income first of all…
that has the actual memory because they are not losers.
It’s a very tall order…
because you’re asking whether or not zombies exist…
and I believe the worse the economy gets…
the more the zombies get more affected by it than the general blue pill population.
So I want somebody with a strong memory…
because it is protected by them focusing…
because if you have ADHD or severe ADHD in this case…
you’re not going to have a single bit of memory.
That’s really bad.
So I want a student with memory.
SHOWING UP AND DOING THE HOMEWORK
And second of all…
I want a student that can actually show up and do the homework and not procrastinate and build the habits.
But if you don’t have a memory…
like one of my students, an Indian guy…
then no matter how much you do the drills…
you can’t go back out there in the field and forget.
Yes…
I have adapted the training a little bit…
where instead of doing a drill, getting it corrected, and doing a drill again…
and then going back out there eventually…
where it’s 80% drills and 20% approaches…
now I’ve changed the system to 80% approaches and 20% drills.
He only has to do the drill once…
get the feedback of his mistake…
and then go out there and do it and see if he can do it that way.
I know I changed the system a little bit in that regard.
But this is not how it’s supposed to be.
In the past…
when I taught students…
even if they did a minimal amount of drills…
but they showed up every single two days or something…
or less…
they’ll be able to repeat the same habits out there…
and they start getting more results.
I’m glad this Indian student has pulled a woman home twice…
but that’s just not good enough when they act like a forever beginner.
THE WRONG MENTALITY
I was very surprised that he was using alcohol…
or trying to seed the idea of using alcohol and bring her back home.
That’s gonna create a lot of anti-slut defense…
you know…
where women do not wanna feel like a slut if they go home with you.
And I was just really dumbfounded…
like what the hell is this guy thinking?
This is the wrong mentality.
This is not night game or Tinder where they are down to fuck.
Adaptability is important…
because my students who get laid adapt very quickly.
I have a Jewish student who got 20 lays in a row…
because it only takes him three tries on the drill to adapt.
I also have another Indian student right now…
who is basically at the same starting line as some of my other students.
Every time he does his homework assignments and drills…
he forgets everything the next day.
There is literally almost no memory…
because the cortisol has wiped out the hippocampus.
When that part shrinks…
short term memory does not transfer well into long term memory.
So it is almost like he is starting all over again each day…
like an Alzheimer’s patient.
But I also have an Italian student who has eight lays in a row…
At first he was resistant…
but eventually he listened.
Then he got eight lays with very attractive women…
women who were way above his look scale.
He was adaptable…
and he just had to maintain the skill.
In the beginning…
he did a lot of drills.
Because of that…
he was able to retain most of it.
Later on…
he stopped doing the drills.
Then he got stuck…
and then he stayed with the eighth woman.
I remember a Chinese student who got 15 lays…
five models…
five white girls…
two actresses…
and he ended up marrying one of the actresses.
Now he is a father.
At first…
he resisted.
He kept copying a Caucasian dating coach…
because he was brainwashed.
He always referenced one of them…
and kept trying their techniques.
It did not work.
I told him it was not transferable…
and to do it my way.
Then the second time around…
he adapted and got laid.
That is why he got 15 lays in a row…
It really is that simple.
They are adaptive…
They have memory…
and they have better mindsets.
Bad students usually have no memory…
even if they show up and do the homework.
So adaptability is super important…
You can have a bad memory and still be adaptive.
The Jewish student with 20 lays is an example of that…
He has traumatic brain injury.
He hurt himself by falling and hitting the sink…
so he does not have much of a memory.
But whatever drills he does subconsciously…
he assimilates.
Then he adapts in the field…
and he gets laid.
I am seeing more and more people these days with no memory…
And you might say to yourself that you have a memory…
but in reality…
you probably do not.
Let me ask you three questions…
Number one…
are you a forgetful person?
Are you constantly forgetting things…
unable to recall things…
always dropping what you learned by the next day?
If you are an unteachable case…
the answer is probably yes.
Number two…
do you have any debt?
Do you owe four figures…
or five figures…
or are you broke?
The answer is probably yes…
and that already makes you a zombie.
Number three…
do you procrastinate a lot?
You probably already know the answer…
and you are probably guilty of that too.
You are not the type of student I want to manifest…
because the more I talk about this kind of stuff…
the more I attract bad students.
I talk about four traits I keep seeing in loser students…
The first is a receding hairline…
which I associate with long term stress and cortisol damage.
The second is the double chin or belly fat…
which I also connect to cortisol and nervous system stress.
I have reduced a lot of my own double chin and belly fat from cortisol…
and one thing that has helped me is a new unit called the Neo Surround.
It has been regulating my nervous system…
and I also think organic food has helped.
The third trait is loss of muscle mass…
I have students who are razor thin…
but they are still in denial.
The stress is eating away at their body…
and they do not even realize it.
The fourth trait is the worst one of all…
and this is the one that tells me the student is in the deepest hole.
They have no memory recall for drills…
they do the drills…
forget everything the next day…
and then smile like an idiot.
I have seen a lot more of that recently…
more than ever before.
I had never seen it this bad before the tariff era…
The first tariff hit in August 2025…
I remember it like it was yesterday.
The second tariff hit in February this year…
and since then it feels like the tariffs have wiped out people’s memory and their bank accounts harder than the pandemic or inflation did.
Now we have a perfect storm…
and the Iran war could push prices even higher.
I do not think that is ending anytime soon…
I think this drags on for at least two years.
In the final chart… I talk about the people who cannot afford my coaching.
They look at the price…
then get turned off…
then drift into MGTOW thinking.
In that chart there are four arrows…
The first is severe ADHD.
Then it leads into depression…
After depression…
you spend more money.
You waste money…
You treat money like it is going out of style…
because spending becomes your antidepressant.
Then you end up in five figure debt…
and that road often leads straight to the double chin.
A lot of students with double chins also have money problems…
because losing in one area starts bleeding into every other area.
That is the winner and loser effect…
The more you win…
the more testosterone you feel.
The more you lose…
the more cortisol takes over.
I have been taking anti estrogen pills to reduce estrogen…
and I also have another supplement that pushes it out of your system hard.
That has helped…
but at the same time…
I should probably be taking more testosterone boosting supplements too.
Because when testosterone drops and cortisol rises…
you spend more money…
make worse decisions…
and stay trapped.
That is why you can never afford my coaching…
You say maybe next year…
then you say maybe next year again…
and then you say maybe next year for the third year in a row…
because you are stuck in a loser pattern.
And that is why the double chin keeps growing.
-John Elite
P.S I didn’t feel like making a blog post yesterday, so at least there is a new one. Hopefully I am not making content for entertaining poor sewer rats.
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