A Black Student From The United States Got Laid… But It Still Was Not A Fairy Tale Ending
This black student from the United States did get laid…
but like I keep telling you…
not every testimonial ends like a fairy tale.
A lot of students get the result…
then chaos starts right after.
You already saw that with the last Asian student from Vancouver who got 22 lays and 3 fuck buddies…
then lost his mind because he did not get a girlfriend.
Even though I could have helped him get one very easily…
he ejected before I could even finish my sentence.
That is the reality with students a lot of the time…
especially when you are dealing with high ego…
low self esteem…
and people who get triggered too easily.
This black student had his own version of that.
Before he got laid…
he had this huge afro…
sideburns…
the whole look was just turning women off.
He looked more like he belonged on a stage than in a set trying to pull a woman home.
He also had religious objections to doing daygame.
From what I understood…
he was around church people…
maybe working with a pastor…
or at least involved in that world enough that it gave him a lot of inner conflict.
So I told him exactly what I believed was true.
Jesus Christ died on the cross so people can be forgiven.
I even brought up the story of the good son and the lost son.
One stayed home…
did everything right…
obeyed…
followed the rules.
The other one went out…
wasted money…
blew everything…
and sinned.
Then when he came back…
the father rejoiced because he had found his way back.
That story mattered for this student…
because the mental hurdle was not just women.
It was guilt.
It was this idea that if he sinned once…
he was stained forever.
I told him no…
if you get something out of your system…
and you repent…
and you truly turn back…
you can be forgiven.
That helped him more than people would think.
And yes…
I know it sounds crazy that I am talking about scripture in a daygame blog.
I do not care.
It helped him.
And if a man wants to procreate one day…
if he wants a girlfriend one day…
if he wants a wife one day…
he still has to cross that bridge.
He still has to get laid first.
Compression Saved Him… Because At The Beginning He Rarely Did What I Said
Here is the truth about this student.
At the beginning…
he rarely did what I said.
He resisted a lot.
He got triggered a lot.
He had that same pattern I keep seeing over and over…
high narcissism…
low self esteem…
low money…
and a lot of emotional instability.
The only thing that really saved him was compression.
That means he actually did the 30 day challenge…
and he practiced the drills in the mirror enough times that it started to create its own momentum.
That is what I mean by compression.
It is not just hearing coaching.
It is not just watching a video.
It is repeating the behavior until your body starts to store it.
That is why I made the new chart.
When you look at that chart…
it has three big parts.
Memory…
compression…
and adaptability.
That is the real Venn diagram of whether somebody gets laid in a bad economy or not.
If a guy still has enough memory…
and he compresses the training…
and he can adapt in real time…
he can still get laid.
That is what happened with my Jewish white student too.
He got 20 lays with my training before he quit and found the woman he wanted to be with.
But during the second tariff era…
during 2025 and now 2026…
the money pressure is destroying men.
The cortisol wipes out memory.
When the memory goes…
the drills stop sticking.
Then compression does not fully work.
Then adaptability breaks down too.
That is why the economy matters.
This never hit this hard before.
I have gotten many students laid during bad economies…
but this current era is strangling people.
This is the second year where a lot of them feel like they cannot breathe.
That affects the hippocampus…
it affects recall…
it affects their ability to remember what they practiced…
and then perform under pressure.
That is why I keep saying memory is not just memorizing lines like some Todd V bullshit.
It means your body can actually remember the drilled behavior and reproduce it when it counts.
This student had just enough memory…
just enough compression…
and just enough adaptability to finally break through.
He Invested In Himself… Got Laid… Then The Same Old Chaos Started Again
What I will give him credit for is this…
he invested in himself.
He did the coaching.
He was part of Inner Circle Platinum.
He did the Skype calls.
He stayed around long enough to hear the hard truth.
And on Skype…
I had to keep telling him not to get triggered…
to follow through…
and to stop fighting the process.
That is also where the religious talk helped his inner game.
And for once…
he got confident.
That confidence is what got him laid.
Then he pulled a second time…
but he did not close.
Then after that…
he disappeared.
This is where reality starts to look very different from bootcamp propaganda.
Because other dating coaches make it look like the student gets laid…
the music starts playing…
everything is magical…
and then the credits roll.
That is not how this works.
In real life…
there is always more chaos.
For this student…
money was part of the issue.
He could not even afford to really overhaul his clothing.
He kept wearing the same stupid red shirt…
the same gray pants…
and did not have the money to buy proper replacements.
I told him already…
the haircut matters…
but the fashion matters too.
For my black students…
the haircut is like the black version of what a strong haircut does for my white students.
It changes the category.
It puts them into a better stereotype.
It shifts the frame faster than people think.
And this student needed that.
Because before…
he was getting rejected hard.
He even reminded me of another black student I had in the United States…
the tall one in the Air Force.
So yes…
he got laid.
Yes…
the result was real.
But no…
it did not suddenly become some perfect transformation story.
Every Testimonial Has Three Sides… The Student Side… My Side… And The Objective Truth
This is what people do not understand about pickup artist testimonials.
There are always three sides.
There is my side.
There is the student side… which is the only side you usually see in the video.
Then there is the objective truth.
The objective truth here is that he did get laid…
but afterwards…
he lost his mind a little because of the money issues…
the ego issues…
the instability…
and the same old triggered behavior.
That does not mean the coaching did not work.
It means the man was still the man.
And this is what I have seen again and again since I started teaching in real life in 2012…
and online in 2016.
When students get laid…
what happens next is usually chaos.
Sometimes they become grateful zombies…
the ones who still appreciate what you did for them.
Sometimes they become sheep…
the ones who worship halo effect coaches with height… muscles… good looks… and fake optics.
Sometimes they become demons…
the ones who backstab you afterwards because they are too triggered… too narcissistic… too unstable… and too cluster B.
This student never backstabbed me…
but the pattern was there.
That is why I always tell you…
results matter…
but what happens after the result also tells you a lot about the person.
Some become more grounded.
Some run away.
Some ghost everybody.
Some start thinking they are a god.
Some become grateful.
Some become dangerous.
That is the truth.
It is never just about getting laid.
It is about what the lay reveals in the person after the fact.
-John Elite
P.S ignoring video testimonials doesn’t get you laid. Yes lots of 2025 stuff. In 2026 I see a lot of nervous system deregulation. If that is you, then get inner circle basics.
P.P.S sorry for the late blog post, I wasn’t feeling like writing anything yesterday at all.
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