I’m posting another video testimonial, but I’m starting to feel like nobody cares.
That is exactly the problem right now.
A lot of you say you want results.
Most of you say you are tired of being lonely.
Plenty of you claim you are serious.
Once it is finally time to learn the actual skills, you tune out, procrastinate, distract yourself, and go back to the same empty life.
Another week passes.
After that, another month passes.
Eventually, another year disappears.
Meanwhile, you are still the same guy.
You are still alone.
You are still frustrated.
Deep down, you still feel like a loser every time you see a couple walking outside.
What I want to touch upon is that social skills is very important because that’s one of the things that he really took away from my coaching.
Sure, he learned tactics and by going through my product Elite Bundle 1 and using his Skype, he was able to get two girlfriends out of it.
I would say that it’s a very good deal, especially for just using products and just a little bit of Skype coaching.
But one thing that he really did enjoy the most by far is the social skills flow drill.
He’s one of the very few people in the world that had it early on, and he also likes the deep diving.
What I mean by that is that he knows the social skills flow drill triangle.
That means if he repeats it over and over, it makes it easier to get a same day lay.
Another thing that he really likes is deep diving, which I do teach, which is sometimes you can flip the triangle and open it up to go deeper into a topic.
That part is not even necessary because the way I see it is that the more she talks to you, the more she’s invested.
Once she talks more, you can flirt more.
As she invests more, the interaction stops feeling random.
At that point, you stop being just another forgettable guy she was polite to for a few minutes.
Most of you do not understand how painful that really is.
You are not being rejected with anger.
You are being forgotten with indifference.
That is worse.
But social skills is something that’s really lacking in today’s times.
Right now, your entire dating life can turn into a graveyard of almosts.
You almost got the date.
After that, you almost kissed her.
Then you almost pulled.
And lastly, you almost got laid.
You almost became her boyfriend.
You almost changed your life.
That is what destroys people.
Because you were close enough to taste it.
Still, you were not skilled enough to keep it.
When people are very deregulated, there are so many different types of daygamers.
First, there are those who are brand new to daygame or cold approach, and they don’t even know what to do.
Usually, they get positive reactions and then give direct compliments, which I do not teach by the way.
Afterward, they wonder why women won’t even go on a date with them.
In the end, they collect the number, but it always flakes every single time.
Each flake chips away at their self esteem.
Soon enough, they start to think something is fundamentally wrong with them.
That’s one group of them.
The second group is the ones who basically could still get dates, but they just don’t know how to escalate.
Usually, they try mystery method stuff, open attract, build comfort, multiple dates, seduction, and close.
That is just not very effective.
So that’s the second camp, is that these pickup artist types do approach more, but they just cannot solve it because it feels like a crapshoot.
No matter how many times they try, it always ends up in a failure.
They are already at a level where they could get more dates.
That is why this hurts even more.
They are close enough to build hope.
Then they freeze.
Soon after, they hesitate.
Next, they fumble.
Eventually, the interaction goes cold.
Later on, she becomes distant.
In the end, she says she just sees you as a friend.
That pain is disgusting.
You can feel the exact moment where you lost it.
You know you had a window.
You know you blew it.
Then we have the newbies. These guys are completely brand new to everything. They never made a cold approach before.
Sometimes, these guys jump too much in the deep end.
They want all these results right away, but this is why I made the course, as you can see in the sales letter below this post, about Elite Daygame First Steps.
I have changed the course from a booklet into a five video course, and the booklet is a bonus now.
These are the type of daygamers I’m seeing.
But the only ones who are still approaching are the intermediate guys who basically cannot close properly, but they’ve gotten laid before.
They just haven’t been able to do it within this year.
So I went on Reddit, and I wanted to see how many people got laid, and only one guy got laid twice.
After that, I read every single post and it fried my brain.
That should scare you.
What I saw was failure becoming normal.
Everywhere I looked, it was lonely men trying to sound smart.
All over the place, it was frustrated men giving advice to other frustrated men.
Almost none of them were actually winning.
If that’s the case, then pickup artistry, unless you learn from me, which is skills, you will not get laid without it.
It’s very important that you actually have a good memory.
That is the first thing that’s important because I have students that when they’re learning from me, they don’t remember anything.
The next day, everything’s forgotten.
I call these people the starting line.
For them, every day feels like day one again.
All they do is restart, cope, and pretend next week will be different.
What happens is under all the stress of the Iran war, and especially Canadians that no longer have any more rights,
and also other countries that are completely deregulated for the nervous system because of digital ID and other things,
they’re gonna probably try to push digital currency soon.
Under all that stress, even the United States for the tariff stress, people are very deregulated.
Now they no longer feel like they can actually operate anymore properly.
Most of them haven’t even been able to put it into words.
They just know something feels wrong because their attention is worse.
Their confidence is worse.
With bad memory
Also a shitty vibe and their shame is worse.
When you feel like that long enough, you stop trusting yourself.
After that, you stop believing you can change.
Soon enough, you stop believing women can ever want you.
Eventually, you stop believing your life is going to turn around at all.
Of course, I still say focus on social skills is very important, but I also teach tonality, which is also very important,
to learn how to mask the stress in your voice.
This student did not learn Elite Tonality Mastery though.
Even so, everything else seemed okay, but he did not learn how to mask the voice yet.
Basically, if you mask the voice, that just gets your foot in the door.
Halfway through that door, you need social skills flow drill.
Further into the interaction, you need good body language.
At the end of the day, game is not gonna work no matter what you try because statistically speaking,
if only one person from Reddit gets laid,
and the other place has a bunch of people trying to pretend to be dating coaches,
that’s another problem.
Because I’m starting to think to myself, you know how whenever they say there’s a market cap in terms of those cryptocurrencies,
or even the stock market, or the word TAM, total addressable market.
How many people am I talking to when I say daygame or cold approach.
Did most of them already quit.
Has daygame finally started to die.
Are only the pickup artists with enough resilience, even though they’re still failing, the only ones doing it right now in this year, 2026.
Those are very interesting questions and things I’ve been thinking about.
Regardless of that, I’m very proud of this student’s results.
He is proof that winning is still possible in a dead market.
He is proof that skills still matter when everybody else is coping.
He is proof that most of you are not stuck because the world ended.
You are stuck because your skills are too low, your memory is too weak, and your nervous system is too fried.
I have found that him being Latino, in my experience, the shorter Latino students are usually much better than the taller ones statistically.
They have more resilience and they’re willing to do what it takes.
The taller ones used to have girlfriends before because they used to have a higher SMV.
Now their SMV is not as high as before.
At the same time, they need more skills.
That really affects the ego.
When you used to have multiple girlfriends before automatically just by approaching and being tall, and then not anymore, then you go to bars and nightgame instead.
That is a very frustrating experience.
It feels humiliating.
It feels like your identity is collapsing.
It feels like life took away your crutch and exposed what was underneath.
But the shorter Latinos, they continue to get laid.
Yes, I do have some other shorter Latino students, but they’re very deregulated right now.
So my best advice for Latino students is to get the emotional control correctly for the tonality.
Second of all, even if it’s hard, try to get the social skills flow drill down.
It’s a three step process that repeats itself.
It’s almost like you tie a rope from your bedpost, you walk outside right to the daygame location.
Every single time you go through a social skills flow drill, it creates a triangle, a big one.
With every repetition, you get closer and closer to the bedroom.
That is what people are missing.
Instead, they’re being very random because they’re cold reading or making statements.
As a result, this becomes a huge numbers game.
Now they are off the line.
It’s kind of like sales.
Are you on the line or off the line.
Most of them are deregulated and also completely off the line.
They don’t have social skills.
Without social skills, you pay for it in loneliness, pay for it in flaked numbers.
without social skills, you pay for it in dates that go nowhere.
She flakes on you.
And I know I talked about emotional control a lot last year and I got a lot of people laid because of updating the course.
But if you want coaching, if you’re a newbie, you should get the Elite Daygame First Steps booklet.
I mean the video course.
It’s no longer a booklet, but the booklet is the bonus.
If you’re a beginner, you don’t know what you’re doing, you can’t even get a date, then you should get the Inner Circle Basics.
This is not just Elite 30 in a group coaching.
It’s more like Elite Access, but a lesser version of it, because it’s group coaching, I was able to teach more people.
It’s a lifetime membership.
You gotta treat this like survival skills because if you don’t learn it right now, you’re gonna completely quit forever.
If you quit forever, then your life turns into one long excuse.
After that, it becomes one long cope.
At the very end, it becomes a story you tell yourself about why it could never have worked for you anyway.
This is not just some luxury.
This is a toolbox of skill sets.
This is a survival backpack, basically.
And I want to make a belt system.
What I mean by that is yellow belt.
All right, here’s the belt system.
From now on, it’s going to be yellow belt, orange belt, green belt, blue belt, brown belt, and black belt.
What I mean by this is your yellow belt means you have to get two dates first in order to graduate.
A lot of people want to go straight to black belt, which is getting laid.
That is exactly why they fail.
They want the fantasy without the work.
They want the reward without the process.
They want the black belt while still thinking like a white belt loser.
So the next belt is orange.
That means you’re able to go on a date and have one venue change.
That means you go to an instant date location.
You’re awarded yellow belt first.
Green belt means you have moved to two locations.
Blue belt means you have moved to three locations, like venue changes.
Brown belt means you have pulled her home.
Black belt means you have gotten laid with the arrow science of maneuver, sexualize, and objections looping.
Everyone would be given these belts every single year.
We will reset every year.
One student is already brown belt.
Actually, two students this year are already brown belt.
Still, people are so deregulated.
There are students who have gotten multiple lays.
That means they are like Dan level.
So if they got three lays, it’s like Dan three.
If one guy gets 17 lays in one year, it’s still considered 10 Dan.
It’s kind of like a martial arts system.
This is how every system fits together.
The Inner Circle Basics is for people that are yellow belt or trying to achieve their first yellow belt because right now they have no belt.
Another type of people are orange belt because they already moved around.
By the time somebody is brown belt, he already pulled.
Does that make sense.
So people that this year can get a date, but it doesn’t go anywhere, they’re either orange, green, or even blue.
They are not brown belt or black belt.
Those people should be in Elite Bundle Resurrections.
That is where you stop wasting rare opportunities.
That is where you stop fumbling women you already attracted.
That is where you stop telling yourself maybe next time, maybe next girl, maybe next month.
The newbies do not even get a belt.
That’s why I put these three courses out there.
I want to focus on this system.
Instead of just one thing like last year, I want to focus on three main things.
Because the pain is different at every level.
The newbie pain is confusion.
The beginner pain is frustration.
The intermediate pain is torture.
If I don’t sort you correctly, you stay exactly where you are now.
You stay alone, stay regretful and you stay deregulated.
And you watch your life disappear while pretending you still have time.
-John Elite
World's BEST Daygame Coach with 675 Laid/Pull Testimonials. More Than Every Daygame Coach In The World Combined 
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