Lets dive into this guide on daygame.
I am John Elite.
I am going to explain why dates flake.
And how to stop it.
There is a lot of advice out there.
Most of it is wrong.
I John Elite am a daygame coach.
So I see the real pattern.
Forget the myths.
It is not just a numbers game.
Understanding flakes, it is not a numbers game
Most guys think daygame is simple.
Approach as many women as possible.
Eventually one says yes.
That sounds logical.
But it is misleading.
Numbers alone does not fix flakes.
What fixes flakes is communication.
Real communication.
Nonverbal communication is 55 percent.
Tonality is 38 percent.
Words are 7 percent.
So if you obsess over text game or lines, you are stuck in the 7 percent.
I John Elite focus on the 93 percent.
That is why my students flake less.
The DVD concept
Here is the analogy.
Every time you interact with a woman, you burn a score onto a DVD.
That score is what she feels from you.
Looks.
Money from your fashion
Status from your ethnicity.
Body language.
Social calibrations.
Tonality as in emotional control.
Game…
Basically everything.
If the score is high enough, she shows up.
If the score is low, she flakes.
This is why the DVD concept matters.
It makes daygame simple.
Raise the score.
Stop guessing.
And it works no matter who you are.
Once you understand this, you are already ahead.
Now lets get into how to reduce flakes.
Secret 1.: Burning the DVD Concept. Why Women Flakes On You
Master nonverbal communication.
Understand this.
Flakes are not happening because you lack game.
Nonverbal communication is the real reason you get flaked on.
This is the 93 percent.
Body language is 55 percent.
Tonality is 38 percent.
Words are 7 percent.
Most guys get hypnotized by the 7 percent.
Lines.
Scripts.
Routines.
Text game.
That is the trap.
Routines do not raise your score.
Scripts do not raise your score.
Rehearsed delivery feels low value in daygame.
Here is the DVD concept.
Every interaction is like burning a DVD.
Every single second she is seeing your score.
Words are not the main thing.
The score is the main thing.
I John Elite call this your 20 out of 35.
Your relative SMV.
Looks.
Money.
Status.
Social skills.
Social calibrations.
Emotional control.
Game.
She scans it all.
Second by second.
Emotional reasoning runs the whole time.
One question stays in her head.
Do I feel safe with this guy.
Do I feel excited with this guy.
That is why tonality matters.
Stress in your voice creates resistance.
Rush in your voice creates distrust.
Depression in your voice kills attraction.
Body language does the same thing.
Stiff posture reads as anxiety.
Needy energy reads as weakness.
Try hard behavior reads as fake.
Over smiling reads as approval seeking.
Over talking reads as nervous.
Over explaining reads as selling.
The outcome is predictable.
Fake number.
Fake smile.
Fake yes.
Flake later.
The DVD score was not high enough.
This is why I John Elite teach drills, not scripts.
Scripts only touch the 7 percent.
Drills change the 93 percent.
Body language drills make you look grounded.
Calm energy makes you look like you belong.
Presence makes you look higher value.
Tonality drills hide cortisol.
Slower speech makes you sound certain.
Cleaner delivery makes you sound masculine.
That is what makes you memorable.
Also, that is what makes her curious after you leave.
Since is what makes her show up.
She is not remembering your line.
She is remembering how you made her feel.
A good feeling brings her back.
A weird feeling makes her disappear.
More approaches will not fix this.
Also, more routines will not fix this.
More clever words will not fix this.
Raise your 20 out of 35.
Raise your nonverbal score.
Also, raise your tonality.
Flakes drop.
Daygame starts working the way it is supposed to.
Secret 2: Step Beyond Traditional Game Tactics
Alright, lets get real for a moment.
Mystery Method looks shiny at first.
RSD looks like it can work with a huge numbers game.
Real daygame exposes both fast.
Ghosting increases when tactics replace skill during a tariff that started in August 2025.
It will carry over to this year.
Flaking increases when performance replaces presence.
Results drop when you chase scripts.
A better plan is required now.
Drop old school methods that do not cut it.
Choose skill over tactics.
Build maneuver instead of memorizing lines.
Learn relocation so the interaction moves forward.
Use location switches to change the vibe.
Add flirtation that matches the moment.
Keep flirtation simple and natural.
At some point you have to sexualize it to the maxium.
Practice objection handling like a real skill.
Handle resistance without getting emotional.
Stay calm when she tests you.
Stay playful when she pushes back.
Loop objections instead of arguing.
Pivot topics instead of forcing.
Create momentum instead of waiting.
Make logistics easy instead of complicated.
Turn a number into a real meetup.
Turn a meetup into a real outcome.
Calibrations decide how hard to push.
Awareness decides when to pull back.
Timing decides when to move locations.
Energy decides whether she feels safe.
Tonality decides whether she feels excited.
Body language decides whether you look grounded.
Words only polish the surface.
Scripts only touch the 7 percent.
Skill controls the 93 percent.
I John Elite see the same failure pattern weekly.
Guys copy Mystery Method and sound rehearsed.
Guys copy RSD and sound try hard.
Women sense that and disengage.
Numbers happen and still lead nowhere.
A number is not proof of attraction.
Also, a number is not proof she will show.
Lastly, a number is just a maybe.
Maneuver turns maybe into yes.
Sexualizations turns yes into results.
Daygame rewards the man who can move things forward dealing with objections.
John Elite system is built around that reality.
Secret number three is about using your economic and social standing to your advantage.
When the economy takes a hit, people perceive you differently.
That shift is not always obvious.
Still, the vibe changes when money worries creep in.
Caution goes up.
Sensitivity goes up.
During shaky times, stability stands out.
Social status matters more when things feel uncertain.
A steady life matters more when things feel uncertain.
Boosting your social status can help your daygame.
Keeping your life steady helps too.
A clean confident tone comes from steadiness.
Better body language comes from lower stress.
Stress has a sneaky way of showing up.
Voice is one place it leaks.
Posture is another place it leaks.
Facial tension is another place it leaks.
Women pick up on those signals fast.
I John Elite always say emotional control is key.
Emotional control is the foundation.
When emotions are in check, your vibe stays strong.
Clear intent matters.
Stability shows in your tone.
Stability shows in how you carry yourself.
That makes your approach more effective.
Fewer mixed signals means fewer misunderstandings.
Less confusion means fewer people flaking out on you.
A solid vibe feels calm.
A reliable vibe feels consistent.
Consistency makes daygame smoother.
Secret 3: Harness Economic and Social Status
Tailoring your strategy to different backgrounds.
Sexual market value metrics change based on ethnicity.
That matters in daygame.
This insight helps guys from all backgrounds adjust.
Grooming helps.
Stylish clothes help.
Overall vibe helps.
Those upgrades counteract social bias.
I John Elite tell students to own uniqueness.
Uniqueness is leverage in daygame.
Training is the secret to consistency.
Daygame is not a quick dash.
Daygame is a long distance run.
Steady practice is required.
Strategic practice is required.
I John Elite emphasize drills.
Specific drills build habits.
Habits create consistency.
Consistency beats trends.
Consistency beats whatever new tactic is popular.
Focused training prepares you for lasting success.
Conclusion.
Why the John Elite system works.
Student success is not luck.
Results come from well rounded daygame skill.
Those skills work even when the economy is rough.
My approach gives tools.
My approach reduces flaky encounters.
My approach boosts interactions.
If you want to master daygame, the John Elite system is the way.
Elite Bundle Resurrections is for students ready to level up.
You should check it out if its for you.
Beginners can use it.
Advanced guys can use it.
Real skill is the goal.
Not more game.
You should check out the last past on Reddit, me roasting it. It relates to this one because they get flaked on non stop because they are incomptent and won’t survive the tariff with more stress and cortisol in their voice.
-John Elite
P.S I hope these topics don’t turn people off lately about cluster B and cluster C. I don’t mind cluster B. But if you mix it with cluster C avoidant personality, you will fail my coaching and run away. I don’t want those types here. Adhd losers.
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