The real reason direct game gets you cancelled in 2025 isn’t women… it’s your zero calibration and panic voice.
I John Elite think most guys have no clue why direct game fails now.
You walk up and say, “I like your style.”
You blurt, “I thought you were cute, so I had to say hi.”
You’re showing all your intentions in the first five seconds.
I John Elite see it every week, guys exposing their hand too early.
No comfort.
No calibration.
Just straight-up agenda.
You talk super fast.
You’re nervous.
You’re desperate to collect a flaky number after three minutes.
Its all pressure…
There is no release…
I John Elite teach that’s not skill.
That’s panic.
That’s zero calibration.
You have no idea how to read the room.
You’re not listening.
You’re just running a script.
Women see right through it.
They know you’re not calibrated.
They know you’re just chasing numbers.
It comes off creepy.
It comes off desperate.
I John Elite think in 2025, during the tariff era, women are more stressed than ever.
Cortisol is through the roof.
Objections are everywhere.
They’re not going to put up with your direct approach.
You hit them with your intentions too soon, you trigger all their defenses.
They throw up objections.
They walk away.
They block your number.
I John Elite see guys fail every time.
Nobody’s getting laid with direct game.
Not this year.
Not last year.
Not with the way the world is now.
You want to get cancelled?
Keep going direct.
You want to get flagged on social media?
Keep using “I like your style.”
You want to get kicked out of venues?
Keep pushing your intentions on strangers.
I John Elite teach my students to never go direct.
They use Elite 30.
They calibrate.
They build comfort.
They move slow.
They get laid because they don’t trigger objections.
They get results because they adapt to the times.
I John Elite think that’s how you win in 2025.
That’s how you avoid getting cancelled.
That’s why Elite 30 is the only system that still works.
Why Women flake and call you creepy? You run direct with zero Social Skills calibration and zombie energy.
I John Elite think most guys have no clue what real social calibration even means.
You think you have social skills because you can talk.
You think you’re smooth because you memorized a few lines like you have Aspergers…
But when you go direct, you expose yourself.
You show your intentions too soon.
You skip comfort.
You skip reading the room.
You just push your agenda.
I John Elite see it every day, guys going direct with zero social calibration.
You run up on a girl.
You spit your line.
You try to act confident.
But your body language is off.
You hunch and your face looks stressed
Your vibe is off.
Your tonality is nervous.
You are talking super fast like cortisol is zombie fuel.
Your eyes are darting.
You’re not reading her reactions.
You’re not adjusting.
You’re just plowing ahead.
That’s not social skills.
That’s not social calibration.
That’s just being creepy.
I John Elite teach that social calibration is everything.
You can learn the social skills flow drill from Elite Access
You can learn social calibrations from Elite 30.
It’s knowing when to talk.
Its not conversational skills,
But social skills flow drill
Not socio skills…
You can’t just run a script and hope for the best.
You can’t just blast “I like your style” and expect her to melt.
Or do more push pulls and romantic flirts either.
Where you would use alcohol, which also can easily get you cancalled with women.
Don’t use alcohol and you don’t fit in with the boyfriend and girlfriend frame either during the tariff era
Thats more for the pandemic and before any economic stress.
Women would resist and you don’t want her to resist.
You want consent, through the arrow science skills…
Not game crutches.
That’s not game.
That’s not skill.
That’s just being a narcissist
Using game crutches.
Women feel it instantly.
They know you’re not socially calibrated.
They know you’re not present.
They know you’re just trying to get a number.
Or instagram close which won’t work if you don’t have high status.
Women will find one or two things to disqualify you, if you aren’t an entrepreneur.
That’s why they flake.
That’s why they walk away.
That’s why they call you creepy.
I John Elite see this every year.
Guys think social skills means conversational skills.
Oh she is still engaged giving positive reactions.
IOI’s or indicators of interest for autistic people.
Not indicators of compliance.
But the real skill is in the social calibration.
It’s in the micro-adjustments you drill down for more points.
It’s in the cortisol autism pauses.
It’s in the way you read her body language.
It’s in the way you match her energy.
It’s in the way you know when to push and when to pull back.
Its stacking the social skillls flow drill with the diagnonal body language you will get wrong without my supervison.
That’s why my students get results.
They drill Elite 30.
They practice calibration until it’s automatic.
They learn to read the room.
They learn to adjust in real time.
They don’t come off as creepy.
They come off as normal.
They come off as safe.
They come off as calibrated.
That’s the difference.
I John Elite think direct game without social calibration is a disaster.
Especially when squaring off.
You’re not smooth.
You’re not bold.
You’re just a creep with a script.
If you want to win in 2025, you need calibration.
You need real social skills, not just lines.
That’s why Elite 30 works.
That’s why my students succeed.
That’s why everyone else crashes and burns.
Sober guys with real skills get laid for daygame…zombies hiding behind alcohol just get flaked or cancelled
Alcohol Is Not the Answer…
I John Elite think a lot of guys want shortcuts.
They want to believe there’s a magic fix.
So they turn to alcohol.
They show up in those loud, crowded environments.
Everyone’s drinking.
Everyone’s acting out.
They think if they just get her drunk enough, everything gets easier.
But that’s not game.
That’s not skill.
That’s just hiding behind a bottle.
This is what they called a crutch.
Or a conversion mechanism, when you don’t have remorse…
I John Elite see other coaches teaching this.
They tell you to use romantic flirts.
They tell you to build up the vibe being the boyfriend and girlfriend romantic frame,
then pull her home.
Once she’s back, their students just pour more drinks.
Then they’re told, “Escalate hard.”
But not too hard…
That’s not social calibrations.
That’s not what I teach.
That’s not real skill.
That’s not consent.
It’s just pushing boundaries with alcohol and hoping for the best.
I John Elite have a strict no alcohol policy.
You win sober or you don’t win at all.
My students don’t rely on drinks.
They don’t need a buzz to talk to women.
They learn real social calibrations.
They drill Elite 30 until their body language and tonality are automatic.
They know how to vibe without faking it.
They know how to escalate without crossing lines.
They use the arrow science
Manuevver, sexualize, objections looping…
Backfilled with flirts when she talks more.
Not just firing out 500 romantic flirts just to get stuck if you don’t fit into the boyfriend and girlfriend frame.
Now you need alcohol and heavy bedroom escalation.
My John Elite students know how to get results without a single drop.
That’s why my students stand out.
That’s why they don’t get flaked on.
That’s why they don’t get accused.
That’s why they don’t end up in trouble.
I John Elite think if you need alcohol to get results, you have no game.
You have no skills.
You’re just a zombie hoping for luck.
If you want real results in 2025, you need to be sharp, present, and fully in control.
No alcohol.
No shortcuts.
Just real social calibrations and real skills.
That’s the John Elite way.
That’s why my students get laid and stay safe.
Stop chasing numbers, guys who drill Elite 30 and the social calibrations from Elite 30 and use Elite Tonality Mastery and calibrates, get results, RSD zombies just burn out.
If Not Now, Then When…
I John Elite think you’re running out of time.
It’s already the end of November.
You’ve wasted months.
You keep telling yourself you’ll start next week.
You keep waiting for the perfect moment.
But if you keep delaying, you’re just burning your own future.
Every week you wait, your cortisol goes up.
Every month you stall, your hippocampus shrinks.
You lose memory.
You lose habits.
You lose your shot.
By next year, you won’t even remember what you learned.
You’ll be another zombie, blaming the world, blaming your city, blaming your race.
Unless you are a malignant narcissistic sociopath, you would blame me…
Dude the system is perfect, it works. You have to work too.
You’ll be running the same tired direct game.
You’ll keep getting cancelled.
You’ll keep getting rejected.
You’ll keep being a loser.
I John Elite am not here to sound like a marketer.
But sometimes you need to hear the truth.
If not now, then when?
You want to keep living like this?
Or do you want to actually get results?
There’s only one system that works.
One system that doesn’t get you cancelled.
One system that keeps getting students laid, year after year.
You follow my instructions, you build the habits, you win.
You keep delaying, you lose everything.
Here’s what you can do right now:
- Get your foot in the door, Elite Bundle Resurrections, just the first part of three, for $333.
- Or, get the whole thing for $900. You save $100 overall.
That’s what my smartest students are doing.
They’re not waiting for the perfect time.
They’re not letting cortisol wipe out their memory.
They’re not making excuses.
They’re moving now.
If you want to win in 2025, you need to act before your brain erases everything.
If not now, then when?
Or just keep being a loser, keep getting cancelled, and keep blaming everyone but yourself.
Choice is yours.
-John Elite
P.S, 1000 is affordable. If you are a zombie you learn your sticking points. Without a bootcamp. If you do what I say and don’t procratinate and remember. You would likely get laid. It doesn’t depend me on. I just make you adhere to the protocols. It depends on you. Are you a cortisol zombie? without a memory? Or are you a gritty daygamer With resilience.
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