The real difference between “impossible” and “unteachable” students and why only one ever gets laid for daygame.
Some students are not unteachable.
They’re impossible cases.
And only someone like me, John Elite, understands the difference.
Because an impossible case still has a path.
Even if it takes nearly a full year of drills, rewiring, and grinding through emotions that would break most men.
But an unteachable case never changes.
Never drills.
Never adapts.
No matter who trains them.
This Asian student from New York was an impossible case.
Not an unteachable one.
And that distinction is everything in my John Elite system as the world’s best daygame coach, John Elite.
He wasn’t an easy case who gets results in days or weeks.
He wasn’t a normal case who needs a couple weeks.
He wasn’t a hard case who needs a few months.
He was the category beyond that.
The impossible category.
The ones every other coach fails.
He had every disadvantage stacked against him.
Borderline traits.
Cluster C traits.
Avoidant patterns.
Fear.
Zero results in New York.
No confidence.
Almost no hope.
But impossible cases can still win if they have one thing.
Grit.
Not motivation.
Not positivity.
Not “mindset hacks.”
Just grit.
The ability to drill when everything feels hopeless.
This student literally told me,
“John Elite, if I don’t lose my virginity here, I don’t think I can keep going.”
And I told him the truth.
“I’m not taking you on unless you finish the mindset playlist.”
Because I, John Elite, don’t accept emotionally unstable students unless they prove they can handle the mindset demands.
Most coaches would have taken his money instantly.
I refused.
This wasn’t a normal case.
This was life-or-death hopelessness.
He finished the entire playlist.
Even when he barely understood half of it.
Because impossible cases push through.
Untenable ones never do.
Once he joined the program, the pattern I see every single year appeared again.
The strongest results always come from the students who drill their body language relentlessly.
Not the ones who binge content.
Not the ones who argue.
Not the ones who intellectualize.
The ones who drill.
And that’s exactly what he did.
Every day.
For months.
Until it became muscle memory.
He even told me John Elite he felt like he “wasn’t approaching enough.”
But drilling is what delivered his result.
Compare that to the New York “Italian” student this year.
He only completed Phase One of the mindset playlist.
He forgot Phase Two entirely.
Cortisol wiped his memory.
He thought “watching videos six times” counted as practice.
He didn’t drill.
He stayed busy instead of productive.
He rage quit.
And the smear-campaign narcissist?
He only did twelve drills in total.
Every single one failed.
Long breaks between attempts.
Avoidance.
Excuses.
Cluster B patterns.
Result?
Zero success.
So the separation between impossible and unteachable is simple.
Not talent.
Not looks.
Not intelligence.
Just the willingness to drill fundamentals every day without breaks.
And this Asian student had exactly that.
Enough grit to survive the impossible case category.
Enough grit to follow the system of me, John Elite.
Enough grit to win when everything was falling apart.
The #1 reason my students fail isn’t talent or looks, it’s ego that refuses to drill.
This student he thought he was so ugly, well his hair and his eyes like pennywise and weird bumps on his face. Yeah… he wasn’t good looking. Its just the fashion and hairstyle. You can change your aesthetic easily. He had Asian Jackie Chan like hair.
Most students think they’re practicing.
But they’re not.
They’re just staying busy.
And busy is not the same as getting better.
As I always say, Busyness is a form of laziness. Is that how you spell busyness? Anyways…
This is where my system as John Elite separates the winners from the pretenders.
The impossible New York student drilled every single day.
He didn’t complain.
He didn’t negotiate.
He didn’t try to “reinterpret” my instructions.
The Italian white student did that and tried to teach himself.
Yes he got laid, not because of the drills, but the knowledge of going through my videos and making adjustments.
For the Asians student from New York, he drilled exactly how I told him to drill.
Slow.
Precise.
Repetitive.
Until it became automatic.
And that’s why he succeeded.
I, John Elite, have seen this pattern for over a decade.
If you drill the Elite 30 body language until it becomes subconscious,
you will get results.
If you don’t,
you will fail like the half Latino half white from New York…
It’s that simple.
The New York Italian student this year didn’t understand this.
He half assed it and forget everything.
He can’t even pass a single homework assignement, dismissing it as singing lessons, when he sounds depressed.
Even if you made exercises super simple like breathing exercises, he would fuck up the timing.
He thought that made him disciplined.
He thought that made him committed.
But he never drilled much.
Not properly.
And because he didn’t drill,
nothing stuck.
He stayed in his head. going through every video 6 times for Elite Tonality Mastery.
He stayed stressed.
He stayed busy instead of improving.
Then he stonewalled me.
Then he quit.
Same pattern with the smear-campaign narcissist.
Zero discipline.
Zero consistency.
Only twelve drills in total.
All garbage.
All failed.
Weeks between each one.
No focus.
No reps.
No grit.
And now he has no results.
This is why my students must follow the system exactly as I, John Elite, teach it.
Because the drills are what create neural pathways.
The drills are what build calibration.
The drills are what turn chaos into muscle memory.
People think daygame is about talking.
People think daygame is about charisma.
People think daygame is about “confidence.”
They’re wrong.
Daygame is a technical skill.
And technical skills only develop through repetition and drilling.
This Asian student drilled so much that he felt like he wasn’t approaching enough.
But that feeling was proof he was doing it right.
Because when your body language is polished
and your vibe becomes grounded
and your movements stop leaking insecurity
you don’t need as many approaches.
Your SMV multiplies automatically.
Your results multiply automatically.
And women respond differently to you.
This is why drills matter more than anything.
More than mindset.
More than theory.
More than “game knowledge.”
Or the smear campaigner saying whatever I taught from other coaches is legit and the rest of my stuff is mental bullshit?
Idiot, thats what is the secret sauce and gets people laid.
Nobody from reddit got laid for daygame in 2025, lol.
Without drills
you’re just another guy consuming content like a half assing zombie.
With drills
you become the version of yourself
that women actually choose.
This student survived the impossible category because he drilled.
The others failed because they didn’t.
And this is why the system of John Elite system continues to produce results
even in 2024 and 2025
when every other coach or global game platform scammer collapsed under inflation and social changes of 2024 and 2026.
Because drills don’t lie.
People do.
Success leaves clues.. as Dan Pena always said.
The Mindset Playlist Always Reveals Who Will Win And Who Will Fail
Every time a student joins my training, the first thing I look at is whether they finish the mindset playlist.
Because the mindset playlist exposes everything.
It shows who is teachable.
It shows who is changeable.
It shows who has any resilience.
And it shows who is lying to themselves.
This Asian New York student was emotionally unstable, borderline traits, avoidant patterns, cluster C tendencies, all the red flags.
But he still forced himself to finish the entire playlist before joining me.
That alone puts him above most of the John Elite students worldwide.
Because finishing the playlist means you are willing to face yourself.
It means you stop running.
It means you are ready to grind even when your brain is fighting you.
The Italian white student never did that.
He only completed Phase One and thought that made him disciplined.
He forgot everything in Phase Two.
Cortisol wiped his memory and he didn’t even notice.
He thought watching videos six times counted as progress.
It didn’t.
He half assed everything.
He stayed stressed.
He stayed busy.
He stayed unfocused.
And because he didn’t finish the mindset playlist, he didn’t build the foundation.
He didn’t build the discipline.
He didn’t build the emotional structure needed for Elite 30.
So when pressure hit, he cracked.
He stonewalled.
He quit.
Same pattern with the smear campaigner from New York.
He didn’t finish Phase One.
He dismissed the playlist the same way he dismissed every instruction.
He rejected anything that challenged his ego.
He avoided anything that required effort.
He avoided accountability.
He avoided discipline.
And because he never finished the mindset playlist, he stayed a low functioning narcissist who could not change.
Twelve failed drills.
Long breaks between every attempt.
Zero consistency.
Zero teachability.
Zero changeability.
No mindset.
No spine.
No grit.
No chance.
And he blamed everyone but himself.
That’s why he is still stuck.
This is why I, John Elite, always begin with mindset.
Before drills.
Before theory.
Before Elite 30.
Before social skills.
Because if you cannot finish the mindset playlist, you will never survive my training.
Mindset is the gatekeeper.
Mindset filters out the weak.
Mindset exposes the pretenders.
Mindset reveals who has cortisol problems, memory issues, emotional instability, or ego blindness.
And the ones who skip it always fail.
Always.
The impossible Asian student finished it.
He didn’t understand half of it.
But he still finished.
He forced his borderline mind through every video.
He fought his own emotions.
He fought his own anxiety.
He fought his own fear.
He pushed through the playlist because he wanted to live.
He wanted to change.
He wanted to win.
And that is why he succeeded.
Because teachability is survival.
Changeability is survival.
Mindset is survival.
His mind was broken.
His emotions chaotic.
His self esteem destroyed.
But he still listened to me and completed everything.
That one act revealed everything I needed to know.
This student was an impossible case.
But not an unteachable one.
And that is why he survived the training.
That is why he lost his virginity.
That is why he got a girlfriend.
That is why he succeeded in New York when other students from New York crashed under pressure.
And that is why the mindset playlist is non negotiable in my John Elite system.
If you skip it, you fail.
If you finish it, you rise.
If you ignore it, you stay a zombie.
If you embrace it, you evolve.
The mindset playlist is the dividing line between those who live in denial and those who become the next success story.
And in 2025, when the world collapsed under stress and inflation and social pressure,
the only students who got results were the ones who finished the mindset playlist
and followed exactly what I, John Elite, told them to do.
Success leaves clues.
And mindset is the first one.
Resilience Is The Real Reason He Survived (Not Talent… Not Looks… Not Luck)
Every impossible case that succeeds under me, John Elite, succeeds for one reason.
Resilience.
Not motivation.
Not confidence.
Not hype.
Not “positive thinking.”
Resilience.
The ability to keep moving forward even when everything in your life is collapsing.
And this Asian student had more resilience than anyone realized.
He wasn’t stable.
He wasn’t confident.
He wasn’t high functioning.
He wasn’t emotionally grounded.
He had borderline traits.
He had avoidant patterns.
He had cluster C tendencies.
He had cortisol issues.
He had anxiety.
He had fear.
He had desperation.
But he still showed up.
He still drilled.
He still listened.
He still pushed through every emotional crash.
And that is the entire reason he survived the impossible category inside the John Elite system.
Because resilience is the only thing that separates the impossible cases who rise…
from the impossible cases who break.
Look at the contrast.
The Italian white student had way more advantages.
Better face.
Better SMV.
Better environment.
Better mental health.
Less trauma.
But the moment pressure hit, he cracked.
He froze.
He forgot everything.
He stonewalled.
He quit.
He ran away like every low resilience case who thinks watching Elite Tonality Mastery six times makes them disciplined.
It doesn’t.
It never has.
It’s fake discipline.
It’s busywork.
And busywork collapses under pressure.
The smear-campaign narcissist from New York?
Same story.
Zero resilience.
Zero emotional structure.
Zero accountability.
He couldn’t handle pressure, so he projected.
He couldn’t handle drills, so he avoided.
He couldn’t handle feedback, so he attacked.
Twelve failed drills.
All sloppy.
All inconsistent.
All spaced out by days and weeks.
That’s not resilience.
That’s collapse.
That’s why he is still stuck in the same place in 2025.
No girlfriend.
No results.
No progress.
No future.
And absolutely no chance of surviving the Elite 30 training of me, John Elite.
Meanwhile the impossible Asian student kept pushing.
He pushed when he felt numb.
He pushed when he felt hopeless.
He pushed when he felt anxious.
He pushed when he wanted to give up.
He pushed when his emotions were all over the place.
He pushed even as his borderline symptoms made his brain fight him.
He pushed when every other New York case quit.
That is resilience.
That is grit.
That is survival.
That is why he won.
Because resilience is the final gatekeeper inside the John Elite training system.
Not looks.
Not theory.
Not tactics.
Not charisma.
Not “confidence.”
Resilience.
Every single student who made it to the finish line had it.
Every single student who quit lacked it.
Every single smear-campaign narcissist had zero.
Every single success story had enough.
And this Asian student proved something most people never learn:
You don’t need to be stable to win.
You don’t need perfect mental health to win.
You don’t need confidence to win.
You don’t need talent to win.
You only need enough resilience to survive the drills and follow exactly what I, John Elite, tell you to do.
Because drills create the skill.
And resilience fuels the drills.
That’s the entire formula.
This student didn’t rise because he was gifted.
He didn’t rise because he was lucky.
He didn’t rise because he was charismatic.
He rose because he didn’t stop.
He rose because he didn’t break.
He rose because he didn’t collapse when pressure hit.
He rose because he trusted me, John Elite, even when his brain was telling him to quit.
And now he has everything he wanted.
His first S-close.
His first girlfriend.
His first real transformation.
And a life he would have never reached if he didn’t push through the impossible category.
This is why resilience is sacred in my system.
This is why grit matters more than talent.
This is why drills matter more than theories.
This is why mindset matters more than hype.
And this is why my training still dominates in 2024 and 2025 when every other dating coach collapsed under inflation, social changes, and zero results.
Because I, John Elite, build men through resilience.
Not fantasy.
Not delusion.
Not shortcuts.
Actual resilience.
The kind that creates real neural pathways.
Real social calibration.
Real transformation.
Real results.
The kind that turns impossible cases into completed missions.
And that is why this Asian student from New York succeeded.
Because resilience kept him alive when everything else failed.
Success leaves clues.
And resilience is the final one.
Resilience Is The Real Reason He Survived (Not Talent… Not Looks… Not Luck)
Every impossible case that succeeds under me, John Elite, succeeds for one reason.
Resilience.
Not motivation.
Not confidence.
Not hype.
Not “positive thinking.”
Resilience.
The ability to keep moving forward even when everything in your life is collapsing.
And this Asian student had more resilience than anyone realized.
He wasn’t stable.
He wasn’t confident.
He wasn’t high functioning.
He wasn’t emotionally grounded.
He had borderline traits.
He had avoidant patterns.
He had cluster C tendencies.
He had cortisol issues.
He had anxiety.
He had fear.
He had desperation.
But he still showed up.
He still drilled.
He still listened.
He still pushed through every emotional crash.
And that is the entire reason he survived the impossible category inside the John Elite system.
Because resilience is the only thing that separates the impossible cases who rise…
from the impossible cases who break.
Look at the contrast.
The Italian white student had way more advantages.
Better face.
Better SMV.
Better environment.
Better mental health.
Less trauma.
But the moment pressure hit, he cracked.
He froze.
He forgot everything.
He stonewalled.
He quit.
He ran away like every low resilience case who thinks watching Elite Tonality Mastery six times makes them disciplined.
It doesn’t.
It never has.
It’s fake discipline.
It’s busywork.
And busywork collapses under pressure.
The smear-campaign narcissist from New York?
Same story.
Zero resilience.
Zero emotional structure.
Zero accountability.
He couldn’t handle pressure, so he projected.
He couldn’t handle the John Elite drills, so he avoided.
He couldn’t handle feedback, so he attacked.
Twelve failed drills.
All sloppy.
All inconsistent.
All spaced out by days and weeks.
That’s not resilience.
That’s collapse.
That’s why he is still stuck in the same place in 2025.
No girlfriend.
No results.
No progress.
No future.
And absolutely no chance of surviving the Elite 30 training of me, John Elite.
Meanwhile the impossible Asian student kept pushing.
He pushed when he felt numb.
He pushed when he felt hopeless.
He pushed when he felt anxious.
He pushed when he wanted to give up.
He pushed when his emotions were all over the place.
He pushed even as his borderline symptoms made his brain fight him.
He pushed when every other New York case quit.
That is resilience.
That is grit.
That is survival.
That is why he won.
Because resilience is the final gatekeeper inside the John Elite training system.
Not looks.
Not theory.
Not tactics.
Not charisma.
Not “confidence.”
Resilience.
Every single student who made it to the finish line had it.
Every single student who quit lacked it.
Every single smear-campaign narcissist had zero.
Every single success story had enough.
And this Asian student proved something most people never learn:
You don’t need to be stable to win.
You don’t need perfect mental health to win.
You don’t need confidence to win.
You don’t need talent to win.
You only need enough resilience to survive the drills and follow exactly what I, John Elite, tell you to do.
Because drills create the skill.
And resilience fuels the drills.
That’s the entire formula.
This student didn’t rise because he was gifted.
He didn’t rise because he was lucky.
He didn’t rise because he was charismatic.
He rose because he didn’t stop.
He rose because he didn’t break.
He rose because he didn’t collapse when pressure hit.
He rose because he trusted me, John Elite, even when his brain was telling him to quit.
And now he has everything he wanted.
His first S-close.
His first girlfriend.
His first real transformation.
And a life he would have never reached if he didn’t push through the impossible category.
This is why resilience is sacred in my system.
This is why grit matters more than talent.
This is why drills matter more than theories.
This is why mindset matters more than hype.
And this is why my training still dominates in 2024 and 2025 when every other dating coach collapsed under inflation, social changes, and zero results.
Because I, John Elite, build men through resilience.
Not fantasy.
Not delusion.
Not shortcuts.
Actual resilience.
The kind that creates real neural pathways.
Real social calibration.
Real transformation.
Real results.
The kind that turns impossible cases into completed missions.
And that is why this Asian student from New York succeeded.
Because resilience kept him alive when everything else failed.
Success leaves clues.
And resilience is the final one.
-John Elite
P.S sorry for the late post. I had imflamation and the nerves hurt. Zapping me from all my energy today. At least I finished the post. Join Elite Bundle Resurrections. Stop blaming the weather or economy.
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