Indians in Canada Are at Zero SMV… Unless You Whitewash
I John Elite think…
Indians in Canada have it harder now than ever before.
The perception has shifted since COVID-19.
Asians took a hit first…
But Indians later got the bigger social backlash.
In the United States…
Things are still not as bad.
Indian SMV is still around two out of ten there.
Even with the 2 truck driver incident for the CDL thing…
But in Canada, it can drop to zero if you dress the wrong way.
There’s something I John Elite call Indian fatigue.
Too many bad stereotypes…
Too much bad press…
And people just get tired of it.
Due to immigration fatigue, without assimilating.
I don’t hate anyone, i’m just speaking the truth because i’m a dating coach who always does.
It’s not personal…
It’s social calibration.
That’s why I John Elite always say you have to whitewash husband material your look.
Clean white washed haircut all my students have with pomde too…
Stylish white washed fashion clothing all my students wears…
No over-accessorizing with cheap shit.
You want to look like husband material…
Not like an Indian caricature with pink plaid work shirts.
You blend in…
Then you stand out through behavior and confidence.
Whitewashed doesn’t mean fake…
It means calibrated.
You’re playing the social game the right way.
Give women what they want
Not be Indian, Latino washed because you are a big narcissist who has a blindspot due to autism or Aspergers…
In Canada right now…
That’s survival.
You do that…
And you’re back to a four out of ten minimum for the natural status points
That’s a massive jump.
I am downgrading Canada for natural status to 0, or 1, not sure yet if you dress Indian washed…
Even if you are born there like I am.
It’s not racism…
It’s realism.
I John Elite train Indians to adapt to the social ecosystem…
Look at how many Indians I got laid, even married too.
Not to fight it.
You can’t change the whole system overnight.
You just change how you show up in it.
Most importantly, break negative sterotypes.
Not reinforce it.
My pakistani mentor always said he wouldn’t be caught dead having an Indian person on his instagram.
its dating suicide, metaphorically speaking.
He only has tall white guys and women in it.
Why Students Crash Out… And Why Most Never Come Back
I John Elite think…
Crashing out is a real epidemic among students.
It’s always laziness, due to severe ADHD…
Sometimes it’s emotional burnout…
Or self-sabotage.
I’ve seen it in every race.
But Indians and Asians have their own version of it.
Latinos, of course has it too, its common.
But its also happening with other ethnicities.
Marco the latino student is asking why are people crashing out so much?
I showed him…
Then he said, its happening all at hte same time, why?
One student was white and half-Italian.
He had talent…
He got laid for street game in New York…
But crashed out and disappeared.
I was smear campaigned from someone from New York, a taller Latino.
But I got this shorter half white half Italian laid.
Another Chinese student crashed too…
But came back stronger.
He did his homework.
Resilience decides who wins…
The reason why Marco keeps getting laid is he is resilient…
He can be a zombie.
But he keeps moving forward..
Its not intelligence.
But I had this one Indian student…
Heavy accent…
Good heart…
Bad self-awareness.
He kept failing assignments…
Especially the voice training drills.
I told my active John Elite students to rate his rate his homework with a pencil across the mouth from zero to a hundred.
Zero means they can’t understand you.
One hundred means crystal clear.
He scored low…
He had like 6 zeros.
Some 2 points, some 7 points
One 15 points
One guy said 40 points.
But he already crashed out before he can hear the other scores.
I made sure he didn’t blame me like the smear campaigner.
If he has no memory, then this is pissing people off for this particular video speaking the truth. They know its the truth, but don’t want me saying it out loud.
Not to shame him…
But to show him how others hear him.
That’s when he realized it’s not about effort…
It’s about calibration again.
Cluster B types crash from emotions…
Cluster C types crash from fear.
Or avoidant personality disorder
Both can be fixed…
But only through drills and systems…
You have to adapt.
The worst unteachable cases didn’t adapt at all, but failed 100% of their homework assignments due to Aspergers.
Plus narcissistic personality disorder.
Their ego overwrites what they see and hear.
Their lack of emotions, makes them emotionally blind to themselves and others for their audio.
Not motivation or positive thinking.
You can’t be emotionally unstable and expect mastery.
You can’t be paralyzed by fear and expect progress.
Then run away like that video calling them out.
I John Elite train both extremes…
But you must face your mental wiring first…
Before you can rewire.
Busy People Are the Laziest… Here’s Why
Business is a form of laziness.
I John Elite think…
Being busy is one of the most dangerous excuses in this generation.
Busyness doesn’t mean productivity.
It’s actually a form of laziness…
The kind that hides behind movement without progress.
A lot of my Indian students tell me they’re busy with work…
With studies…
With side projects.
I tell them…
Show me your calendar…
And I’ll show you your results.
When I see no structure…
No time-blocking…
I know it’s chaos.
ADHD-level chaos.
They’re jumping between dopamine hits.
That’s not discipline…
That’s survival mode.
I know when a persona is so busy when they rarely show up…
They put me on mute notifications and shows up for 3 seconds.
You know they are going to quit soon and have severe ADHD and refuses to learn time management.
When I taught Marco the latino student it…
He bought an air fryer and stop going to eat out there with junk food costing him so much money…
Now he pays only a fraction of the cost and eats better food than ever.
When I John Elite teach focus…
It’s not just about attention…
It’s about energy control.
You allocate the brainpower where it matters most.
I give my John Elite students scheduling drills…
The ABCDE method
Plus the 7 habits of highly effective people chart.
And daily reflection.
The ones who follow it…
Double their learning speed.
The ones who don’t…
Crash.
It’s that simple.
Busyness is comfort…
Its like your RAM in your brain is full…
Like having too many tabs open for a shitty computer..
Focus is pain…
But pain builds results.
Broke Because You’re Lazy… Not Poor
I John Elite think…
If you can’t manage your money…
You can’t manage your success.
It’s that simple.
I’ve seen too many Indian and Latino students in five-figure debt…
This is not trying to be racist or prejudice.
Its a statistical fact that latinos have 51% poverty rate in the USA before…
It could be higher or lower now, i’m not sure.
Eating out every day…
Crying about being broke.
It’s not about being poor…
It’s about being careless.
You’re not tracking what’s killing your budget.
One of my Latino John Elite students changed everything by buying an air fryer.
I told him…
That’s your ticket to freedom.
He started cooking simple meals…
Saved hundreds a month…
Dude was spending like $1400 on food.
Now he can pay of his debt.
Air fryer = discipline.
Cooking = independence.
Your not exactly cooking.
You set the timer and you set the temperture.
My ninja air fryer can also broil and roast and do all sorts of cool shit.
And independence equals control.
I can just leave it there and come back later on.
I had the best costco chicken tenders tonight.
I am a good cook and can make it from scatch.
But why waste all that time?
I John Elite don’t look down on Indians or Latinos for struggling financially…
But I call out the pattern.
They buy comfort over progress.
You don’t need to eat out…
You don’t need Uber Eats…
You need control.
Cooking your own food…
Tracking your time…
Fixing your Latino, Indian washed, Asian washed wardrobe…
These are the three gateways to transformation.
You do this…
And your life starts to align.
You start to win.
And when you win…
Your SMV rises.
Not because you became someone else…
But because you finally became the version of you that society respects.
That’s what I John Elite teach every single day.
You don’t want to deal with xenophobia… The fear and dislike of other peoples cultures..
She would give you a concerned look on her fect like this Chinese student who keeps trying to wear shades, not use pomade with Asian split ends.
Or try to wear a big gold chain to look like a triad.
He is in a predominantly white neighborhook.
Makes no fucking sense.
Give women what they want…
Don’t scare them with xenophobia.
Nobody is racist, but highly xenophobic for white women.
You could be walking in there Indian washed, she will want to leave.
You dress white washed, then she stays, not knowing you were the same person earlier.
Be in the in-tribe.
I am not going to use any marketin call to action shit…
When the student is ready… the teacher appears.
-John Elite (Best Daygame Coach In The World)
P.S, to bhenchod or not to bhenchod?…
That is the question.
Plus there are some interesting videos on Youtube that might lower the natural status points of Indians lately by a guy called Tyler, Oliveria or something. Its too bad, but that would lower your SMV if it gets 10 million views. I would revise depending on how viral it gets.
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