Introduction to the 20/35 Concept
What is the 20/35 concept…
Let’s break down what the 20/35 system really is and why it keeps getting my students laid over and over…
Looks is out of 10…
Money is out of 5…
Status for hierarchy is out of 10…
Social skills is 2.5 points…
Social calibrations is 2.5 points…
Emotional control is 2.5 points…
Game is 2.5 points…
If you reach 20 out of 35, I get another video testimonial from a student…
It’s not just about game…
That’s why I discovered it’s not just looks, money, status, plus game…
Game is just a value delivery system…
Social skills, social calibrations, emotional control, and game—along with looks, money, and status… are all necessary…
The Role of Social Skills and Calibrations
It wasn’t until I created Elite 30: From Hard Case to Hero and focused only on social calibrations and social skills…
an extra five points…
that people kept getting laid…
I thought to myself, wait a minute, this isn’t a game course…
This is just a hard case course to improve your social skills and social calibrations…
Why are they getting laid so much…
I started thinking, I already got like 10 video testimonials out of nowhere…
They just kept popping up…
It’s clearly not just all game or “you are enough” plus game, or whatever…
I started to think there might be something wrong with the old way of thinking…
Just selling bootcamps and saying “learn more game” as the solution isn’t reality…
They’re not getting their students laid…
This was the beginning of getting more video testimonials…
In the beginning, I got a lot of students laid with just game alone, but when social skills and social calibrations were added, it was a clean sweep…
So there’s more to it and more categories…
20 out of 35 is called the line of fuckability…
Night Game vs. Day Game
You automatically get laid for daygame if you reach 20/35, but it’s different for night game…
For night game, it’s not 20 out of 35…
Night game is 15 out of 35…
So you might ask, what do you mean by 15 out of 35, John…
That’s because other Asian dating coaches can get students laid for night game, but not for daygame…
During inflation and tariffs, they can’t do it…
Only ABCs of Low Self-Esteem got one student laid in Mexico or Peru, but that was 2024…
They couldn’t get them laid in the United States, and they don’t have any other laid testimonials since the pandemic days, way back…
So they can get students laid for night game, no big deal…
Challenges with Night Game
It’s 15/35 for night game because there are no social skills in the nightclub…
It’s too loud to have a real conversation…
When you start talking, you’re yelling in her ear, and she’s like, “What did you say…” or “What…”
That’s not social skills…
With the loud music, alcohol, and everything else, how could you possibly have emotional control…
You cannot have emotional control if the nightclub is super loud, and that becomes a big problem…
There’s no social skills, social calibrations, or emotional control…
just some text game and being white for 10 out of 10 status…
So you’ve got these tall, self-proclaimed coaches bragging about Tinder testimonials…
Who cares…
It doesn’t mean anything at all…
Anyone could get Tinder testimonials…
You just have to be white, have good pictures, and just a little bit of text game…
You’re going to bang a woman that’s a three or four out of ten, really fat and unattractive, easily…
The Influence of Status and Location
Or status maxing in Latin countries if you’re Asian…
That’s what they love to do, especially the Asian passport bros and the Asian masculinity movement…
These guys are insufferable…
They believe that by going to Latin countries, they can raise their status…
High-status job because they’re all engineers…
That’s how they can afford the bootcamps…
And also because of that, not only can they afford the bootcamps, they can also have a third-world money status advantage on their Instagram, showing off that they travel to all these countries…
That gives you two extra points…
Maybe you could show a lifestyle and get three points…
You can also show an exotic advantage if they’re all Latinas in Colombia…
That place is crazy…
Lots of people get social circle mean…
So, who wants results in 2025…
Or do you want to keep waiting…
Exactly…
You guys should invest in yourself…
Reinforcing the 20/35 System
You guys should invest in yourself, but for daygame, the benchmark is 20 out of 35…
It’s the only system I cannot debunk…
I can’t change anything because I keep getting students laid at 20 out of 35…
Looks out of 10…
Money out of 5…
Status out of 10…
Social skills, 2.5…
Social calibrations, 2.5…
Emotional control, 2.5…
Game, 2.5…
I cannot change it…
I tried to change it…
I tried to debunk myself, but it explains everything…
Debunking Other Theories
It explains black pill…
It explains red pill…
It explains everything…
It explains tall, self-proclaimed coaches going to Latin countries and just having more status, making it easier…
It explains everything because even if you’re a black pill, if your looks are like eight out of ten, and your race is 10, that’s 18 points…
You’re like, “Oh, it’s not 20/35…”
No, that’s 18/35…
And they have no social skills, no social calibrations, because they’re angry and have really bad emotional control…
They’re game deniers…
So technically, 18 points becomes 15.5 because the emotions category can be minus 2.5…
That’s the only category that can go downwards…
Social skills cannot be minus…
Social calibrations cannot be minus…
If it’s bad, it’s zero, but your emotions can be minus 2.5…
And this is not just counting inflation or tariffs…
Of course, people’s emotions are minus 2.5…
Because of that, they’re stuck…
That’s why when women hear you, they get turned off…
So if they’re 15.5 out of 35, they’re not going to get over the line of fuckability…
Even if they got surgery, they’d just be 16.5 points…
It’s the same thing with red pill…
You focus all your points on lifestyle…
third-world money, status advantage, exotic advantage, lifestyle, whatever…
Just four points…
You’re white, 10 points, you’re six in looks, that’s 20 points…
They have no social skills, really bad body language, and they’re game deniers, and then they’re minus 2.5, so that becomes 17.5 points…
So basically, this system cannot be debunked…
It explains everyone’s testimonials or the lack of them, especially when other bootcamps start teaching direct game and it doesn’t work…
So this is a perfect system…
If this system is perfect, you guys should calibrate to the 20 out of 35…
Conclusion: The Importance of Emotional Control
The most important category this year is emotional control…
I’ll figure out how to end this category later on, tired..
Here is a link to my course.
-John Elite
P.S I still need to update my testimonial page, too many things to do.
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