(Day 5) All June 5 Day Challenge Quesions: FAQs Re-Answered

I’m re-answering every question asked from the 5-Day Challenge—no fluff, no filters. Let’s get it right this time

​​Do average looking guys have chance to close 8 and up Women in 2025?

Yes my Asian student got laid and turned a stripper into a girlfriend in 2025. Using the Elite Tonality Mastery and the Arrow Science combined.

One to open and keep her in set. The other one to close her.

Without Elite Tonality Mastery, you won’t mask your cortisol and have a foot in the door.

The other one walks through the door and get you laid.

If you didn’t have either, you would never get your foot through the door.

Is flirting more important than teasing?

My students flirts when she talks more, so the timing depends on her. You only tease if she is off the line, giving you attituted.

Its not like you throw a bunch of random flirts or teases.

Romantic flirts doesn’t work at all, as you don’t fit into the boyfriend and girlfriend frame. You would get auto rejected if you don’t use alcohol in the bedroom and heavy bedroom escalation.

Why is looks and status higher than social calibration, social skills, and emotional control in the 20/35 concepts?

Actually if you take social skills, social calibrations, emotional control and game skills category, the skills category. Its actually 10 points together.

So each of them combined is equilvent to one of the other sections.

Money is out of 5 otherwise rich Asians and Indians would get all the girls, which isn’t true.

This perfect formula got me 665 laid and pulled testimonials. I can’t debunk it as it explains everything like Einsteins E = MC 2

​​What is the halo effect?

The half effect means you take one trait of the coach. Whether it is race, height, looks and you automatically assume everything else must be good, so you turn into a sheep.

There are a low ot flaws as other Asian dating coaches are taller or stronger or better looking than me. But don’t have any laid testimonials.

White dating coaches are not the same as the white naturals. With a sociopathic death stare. If they are sociopaths, they don’t have social skills either with autism or aspergers.

They are dark triad personality disorder, sociopath, narcissist and machevellian manipulators who are marketers disguised as dating coaches gaming you into bootcamps to make more money to cross the $100,000 threshold as fast as possible.

You never seen a white dating coach go from open to instadate, to venue change to pull, to sex all in a video. It always 99% ends in a cab. Or a number close.

Have you ever successfully trained someone with Generalized Anxiety Disorder?

Most of the students have anxiety on top of approach anxiety. So yes of course I have trained people like that.

For people with extreme approach anxiety, its an epigenetic curse. It means previous generations did something to cause a life and death super fear and passed on the genetics to you..

There are methods around it, that turns off the fear from the left brain with affirmations. Its like a turtle that will walk over the finish line and the fear is gone. Vs the right brain rabbit who is faster and if that crosses the finish line before an approach you run away or freeze up.

I can’t get into more details as that is secret to my students for my training.

Does emotional control focus on tonality?

Your facial expressions plus body language for congruency. Like if you were animating it like a pixar cartoon will affect your state of mind.

Then your state of mind changes your tonality whether you are in a confident pose or a fearful pose and facial expressions.

Your words change too based on your state of mind along with your tonality.

If you are broke as a daygame zombie with cortisol, that would show up in your voice.

So yes Elite Tonality Mastery mask this cortisol effect in your tonality so you have your foot in the door.

So emotion is more like a mood and feelings is like a reaction to something?

Emotions is like basket robbins, 21 flavors of ice cream. It is happy, sad, empathetic, remorseful, shocked, suprised, happy etc. Lots of emotions.

Feelings is like getting triggered, which is also like putting your hand on a hot stove. Its mostly negative reactive feelings.

Lots of my Jewish students don’t have any emotions, but they get triggered and have gloomy feelings, that isn’t emotions.

Most unteachable case PUAS have Alexithymia, emotional blindness. They are triggered by high ego, low self esteem due to the dark traid personality disorder of low self esteem and high ego. This is not an emotion. The more triggered you are, the more likely you have Alexithymia and no emotions.

Would buying a homeless person food once in a while help with becoming more empathetic?

Most peopel confuse empathy with sympathy. feelings of pity and sorrow for someone else’s misfortune.

If you feel bad for someone’s misfortune, it doesn’t mean you can really put yourself in their shoes.

Empathy confuses most unteachaable cases due to not having any range of emotions and only having triggered feelings.

My students has exercises where they learn to watch emotional people react to t.v shows that are emotional. They wonder why people are so emotional and trying to put themselves in the shoes of other actors. Thats called empathy

This is not to be confused with cognitive empathy, which is a fake empathy sociopaths have to manipulate people. They don’t feel guilt or remorse and are backstabbers. But they try to learn people like a terminator. But that isn’t real empathy either.

John what’s your favorite opener? ​​but what if you cant think on the spot for hybrid openers

There is no favorite openers, there is only one. The hybrid opener.

Excuse me real quick, I have a question. I was looking for XYZ, do you know what I can find it?

Transition to oh by the way I just noticed something about you in a higher note until she said what?

I just noticed you are X + Y, are you Z?

Hey I know this is really random (statements of empathy)

But (call out the elephant in the room or what is in the back of her mind) If you were latino and she thinks you are a migrant, you would say I know this is random, but I am born here and people aren’t tlaking to each other anymore..

This disarms her fear thinking you are a migrant.

If you were a passport bro you can say I know this is random, but I lived here for 6 months, but I can’t find the XYZ place. So she doesn’t think you are a sex tourist only there to have sex and pickup women.

​​Do you agree that what you say doesn’t matter as much as the energy you bring?

This is pure sheep brainwashing from other white dating coaches.

My students can get laid in 1 to 6 approaches if they drilled down their social skills, social calibrations, emotional control fully.

So bringing energy without the social skills flow drill, or the 45 degree body language for social calibrations and only vibbing it is insane.

You are basically vibbing your SMV for looks money and status using zombie game tactics, mixed with vibbing emotions. It won’t work for low SMV minorities. Which they don’t have enough points to vibe their SMV like a RSD mindset.

These other daygame coaches saying that, who are white has no laid testimonials or only 3 in total.

​​Hey John how can i improve my self esteem. ​​can self esteem be built the same way as any habit with 21 days or is it a life long process?

By doing what you say you would do. If you don’t, you withdrawl from your emotional bank account. You become more delusional, half assing it more, wrong decisions that fails in you in 4 months and you quit.

So if you have ADHD you will half ass it more due to low self esteem. Then you would procrastinate like a loser, you would get depressed. The more depressed, you will spend more money to get rid of the depression, from video games, or some other habit like drinking.

Thats why most latinos are in debt and have bad ADHD. Indians do too, so they have the lowest self esteem because they can’t complete anything and procrastinate the most. Impossible cases and unteachable cases

If you didn’t half ass, but fully did it, you completed a task fast without procratination, then you would get self esteem. Depositing in your self esteem, thus reducing your 4 traits of low self esteem traits and delusions, half assing it. Going in an upward spiral.

White washed HUSBAND material fashion? But isn’t that beta? But what are the characteristics of a husband frame, or what do you have to do to embody that frame?

FAQ: Why is the “husband material” frame so important?

Because it’s the only frame that consistently gets my students laid in as few as 1 to 6 approaches—especially if you’re a low SMV minority. Fashion is framing: if you dress and act like husband material, you skip the line past taller, higher-status guys, since women want long-term security, not just another “fuckboi.” Most women has 10 boyfriends before marrying the 11th boyfriend. But if your husband material, you can be the first in line.

There are six frames, but if you’re not tall or high SMV, only the husband material frame works—especially during inflation.

The other frames (fuckboi, boyfriend/girlfriend, friendzone, sugar daddy, high status) don’t work for most guys, and that’s why other coaches don’t have real laid testimonials for daygame in 2025 and 2024.

Use husband material fashion and combine it with Arrow Science (maneuver, sexualize, objection loop) for results—no alcohol, no illegal heavy bedroom escalation on drunk women, just what works. That no longer gets laid testimonials beyuond the pandemic years. During the inflation years, they recycle the same testimonials from the pandemic because you don’t fit into the boyfriend and girlfirend frame for the inflaition using romantic flirts.

​​So blue jeans will never be husband material?

This would never be husband material because even Gen Z who has 63% single or latino illegal aliens dress with blue jeans and a white t shirt and sneakers as someone else said when they bought Elite 30. Good luck running from ICE.

This puts you in the fuckboi frame or the friendzone frame instead of the husband material frame.

I got 665 laid and pulled testimonials where my students can get laid in 1 to 6 approaches when levelled up. You are brainwashed by white plausiblity dating coaches with optics standing next to women not going from open to sex, but ends in a cab, its all for show.

Which videos from your channel do you recommend to better understand your game?

Join my same day lay webinar instead. You can find the link in my bio for the youtube. You get a free mindset playlist my students all use. Plus you get a free 15 minute consultation call.

Is extreme ownership also a 21 day habit? ​​Should we always think if it’s meant to be it’s up to me for extreme ownership?

It should be a permanent mindset. I only suggested 21 days to a latino student because he needed to try it first. He won’t go back to making excuses which is sociopathic. If you made an excuse you won’t change. You pull the handbrake on the progress. Sociopaths have to win at all cost and are never wrong, they have no remorse and have opinions as facts, delusional. So they make excuses to be right away because they can’t be wrong. By being wrong, you can correct your mistakes. Not repeat it like a narcissist protecting your ego and shifting blame. Unable to progress, getting double chinned due to cortisol stress because your mind knows you are a loser with loser traits like this. No winners will behave like this.

Blackpill question. What if you have a facial deformity?

Its all 20/35, women don’t notice. they calculate everything overall for looks, money, status, social skills, social calibrations, emotional control and game. This is the last thing on their mind, thats only part of the looks cartegory, a small category.

​​Do you think these is some truth to these red black pill beliefs like the female nature etc?

These are called half truths. Not full truths. All these beliefs have the same hardware. They are all dark triad personality disorder sociopath, narcissist, machevellian manipulator. They jhust have a different openating system, which are these different type of pills.

Its all about shifting blame, just as I talked about for sociopaths not taking extreme ownership. This is just an extreme version of that.

​​Would going to Philippines colombia push you over the line if you’re close to 20/35? Would you apply it the same way for the 20/35 system? ​​So it if I live in one of the countries I won’t have to fully get to 20 out of 35?

It doesn’t matter if you think are are near the line. :Women can subconciously calculate it, not you because you are a delusional zombie.

However if you have a high state job compared to the locals over there, or 3rd world money status advantage showing pictures of your travels on instagram as clout. Or have a high status lifestyle and 3rd world money status advantage. Then you will have some extra points.

As long as you reach 20/35 you would; get laid. But you also need skills for social skills, social calibrations, emotional control and game. If you aren’t trained with me, you most likely don’t have it like other daygame coaches and their students lacking any laid testimonials this year or last year. Not over the line of fuckabiilty.

Does the cortisol ever fully go away or are we just trying to mask it with the tonality?

While Elite Tonality Mastery does mask the problem to get your foot in the door. If you take Ashwaghada for 3 months in a row, you would loser your cortisol by 32% if you don’t skip days. Thats almost a third gone, so yes you can permanently remove it. Most of the cortisol filled zombies forgets because cortisol wipes their memory.

​​Aren’t Dark Triad traits attractive to many women according to psychology?

If you have high SMV she will think you are toxic and sexy. But if you have low SMV she will think you are toxic and a zombie. Its not working as well during the 2024 inflation and 2025 tariff era. You need skills. Elite Tonality Mastery mixed with the arrow science.

So 2025 is easier than 2024?

Yes and no. The tariffs is a threat of a recession so people do turn into zombies. Yes the interest rates isn’t as high for the inflation of 2024. Last year other daygame coaches couldn’t get any laid testimonials. They only had optics and global game platform scammer network interviewing scammers to get false authority.

To hide their lack of laid testimonials. But it was harder last year, but this year, peoples tonalities are not good at all and they are crashing out faster. Its not that it is harder. They have minus 2.5 points for the emotional control category.

How many days a week should I approach? Gym days per week? Drill days per week? Would U recommend one hour a day drill?

Its not about how many drills. Practice doesn’t make perfect. Perfect practice makes perfect. You practice zombie half assed PUA technique garbage. Zombies reinforce bad habits, they don’t get laid from that.

So get Elite Bundle Resurrections for Elite Access to get feedback on what to fix. You are delusional, so you would not know what to focus on without my help.

​​Is the social skills flow drill in elite playbook?

No it is in Elite 30 on Module 5. But the music in the background makes it harder to hear it. You would be taught it in the Elite Access or 1 on 1 skypes.

I am not gaining muscles after many years. Should I be going to the gym or is it not important for me?

You have too much cortisol stress, so you can’t gain muscles. You need to get ashwaghanda first. So that way you can get rid of the cortisol. Then your muscles will finally start growing.

If you have a double chin, or receeding hairline, or no working memory. Then its a cortisol issue.

​​Are you against night game if it still leads to the goal? But if your goal is to get laid as much as possible might as well do night game?

Night game is an opportunity cost for those who doesn’t believe they can do daygame. Lots of low SMV guys in Toronto and other places without any status, will do night game and women will turn their backs on them in 20 seconds every time. Then they get mental trauma spending so much money.

Daygame requires more social skills, social calibrations, emotional control along with game.

night clubs you don’t need that stuff, for social skils as you can’t talk, or emotional control, even if they are down to fuck.

It doesn’t mean its always easier.

Plus other Asian companies like ABCs of low self esteem Asians can get their students laid for night game, but not daygame. Its way easier.

Its like focusing on two businesses, you attention is divided. If you don’t get laid often in night game, then you are half assing daygame. You won’t get laid for both.

If you start with daygame, night game is easier, if you occassionally go.

What about abs for daygame at the beach and pools? Is it important?

It is not important. The most important is the V shaped body.

Its like a woman with small waist and big hips. Its the upside down version of the mans v shaped body.

This shows she has child bearing hips.

Just as the man has protector status

Abs has nothing to do with anything.

Have you noticed women responded to you differently when you elevated your height?

Yes, when you are above the 5’9 national average, you are SMVing it, this was before the inflation anyways. It feels like a downhill battle.

If you are below 5’9 its an uphill battle.

Now during 2024 and 2025, you need Elite Tonality Mastery and the arrow science.

But yes it would feel more like a downhill battle like a samurai swinging their big game sword.

While the other way feels like a ninja that needs like 100 different skills rehearsed.

So you can see future world events. So you also can tell if a student will be good 100%? Has your psychic read told you someone would be good but they turned out bad?

I can find out a lot about a potential student by their vibe. Yes I get a good sense, but if they resist the fashion ideas, or anything. I know they are likely to have no growth mindset of GRIT. They have no resilience and are unteachable cases. One guy fought me on supplements or fashion. Mostly stubborn latinos who are uncoachable this year except one student.

I also find out if they are in any pain as it would motivate them. If not, they won’t finish and will quit.

I also ask what do they think their mistakes are. If they are dimwitted like white people thinking they are enough. Why are women not falling from the sky and landing on their dick. I know they are delusional and has low self esteem. They are likely brainwashed by white dating coaches. They are not enlightened and dimwitted people are going to get stuck.

Can the social skills flow drill be used for conversating with everyone or just for pulling?

Its universal. The daygame version is a bit more components. But the social circle version is streamlined a bit. Its the same steps repeated and it works. But with a different focus.

Why do a lot of white guys like Asian girls?

Its hypergamy. The creepy receeding hairline white guys with an inbred looking face always had a yellow fever. They can’t get white girls who they deem too alpha or tough as they are more meek and feminine. They love to have a self hating Asian woman who has a huge squared jawline no Asian men like. When she marries him their future offsprings will have a better advantage than being just fully Asian. So she likes to select the creepiest of white guys who other women aren’t into so she can lock that down.

I MADE A PSYCHIC PREDICTION THIS WOULD HAPPEN. SO WHY WORRY ABOUT A WORLD WAR OR MONEY PROBLEMS? I TOLD YOU IT WOULD TURN OUT WELL.

On the youtube community section I said he would use bunker busters for sure. It happened.

Join me for coaching, stop getting so mentally irregular.

Stop losing your mind, everything would turn out well.

If my predictions are accurate, then every thing else like a good ecomomy after tariffs will happen.

This was written 11 months ago. Almost everything happened. The things that didn’t, will happen eventually

Join me today

-John Elite

P.S its not about me, but the John Elite army, they are working hard. Everyone is alighned and I need more troops. It won’t be easy, but you would likely get laid if you aren’t an unteachable case making. Skillset without mindset, would lead to upset. Competence equals confidence.

P.P.S back by 665 laid and pulled testimonials for daygame. Its not the money I care about, but having more laid testimoinals. I’m below the recruiting for the new students and laid testimonials quota.