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White guys are struggling in daygame.
Minorities? They’re winning at daygame, and John Elite is the only one talking about it.
No one in the daygame industry is honest about why white guys are stuck, but John Elite breaks it down.
Before we break down how each ethnicity can win at daygame in 2025, I need you to stay until the end of this John Elite video.
Because what John Elite is about to show you is going to flip your daygame beliefs upside down.
Everyone thinks minorities have it harder in daygame—and they’re not wrong… at first.
But the truth is, once you understand why white guys are stuck in daygame and how minorities are skill-maxing with John Elite,
you’ll see why race is no longer a setback in daygame—it’s a power-up… if you play it right with John Elite’s daygame system.
Later in the video, John Elite is going to break down how Asian, Indian, Black, and Middle Eastern students are using daygame,
Elite Tonality Mastery, and Arrow Science to dominate daygame—even in the toughest Western markets.
(Except Latinos. Still the worst-performing group in daygame this year, according to John Elite.)
But first, we’ve got to cover the real reason minorities are winning at daygame…
—and why white guys are falling behind in 2025, until they learn from John Elite and master daygame.
The Four Pillars (with Arrow Science and Tonality Mastery as One)
There are four pillars that you need to succeed in daygame, according to John Elite.
A lot of people have internal objections or belief problems about daygame, but John Elite proves they can do it.
The first pillar—the one that gets your foot in the door in daygame—is elite tonality mastery plus Arrow Science, both taught by John Elite.
Let’s get real for a second: John Elite’s elite tonality mastery is not just a nice-to-have for daygame.
In 2025, if your voice leaks stress during daygame, if you sound low-status, monotone, or just plain tired, you’re not even getting a shot at daygame.
You’re not getting an instant date in daygame.
You’re not getting a date at all in daygame.
You’re getting rejected outright in daygame, and John Elite sees this all the time.
If you understand what John Elite is saying about daygame, say “I” in your brain right now.
Let’s talk numbers for a second, because John Elite knows his daygame audience is logical.
Looks: 10 points in daygame.
Money: 5 points in daygame.
Status: 10 points in daygame.
Social skills: 2.5 points in daygame.
Social calibration: 2.5 points in daygame.
Emotional control: 2.5 points in daygame.
Game: 2.5 points—John Elite’s formula for daygame success.
You need 20 out of 35 to get laid in daygame, according to John Elite.
That’s the line—cross it in daygame, and you’re in, says John Elite.
Fall short in daygame, and you’re invisible, which John Elite warns against.
But here’s where most guys mess up in daygame, according to John Elite.
If your emotions are out of control in daygame—if you’re broke, anxious, stressed—you’re not just missing out on 2.5 points in daygame.
You’re actually at minus 2.5 in that daygame category, says John Elite.
That means you’re digging yourself a hole in daygame before you even start, John Elite explains.
Why does this happen in daygame? John Elite will be brutally honest.
Broke guys are the most problematic in daygame, says John Elite.
If you’re broke, you’re usually depressed, and it kills your daygame.
And what do depressed guys do in daygame? John Elite sees them spending money on distractions—food, gadgets, whatever—to try to feel better.
It’s like a self-soothing addiction, but it only makes your daygame worse, according to John Elite.
And why are you depressed in daygame? John Elite says it’s because you have ADHD, you can’t focus, and you’re always distracted during daygame.
You get more cortisol in your system—your stress hormone rises, and it destroys your daygame, says John Elite.
You start losing your hair, you get a double chin, your belly grows, you lose muscle—John Elite sees this impact on daygame results.
Usually, you get at least two out of those four, sometimes all four, and your daygame suffers, says John Elite.
If you’re nodding your head to any of this daygame reality, say “I” in your brain, just like John Elite tells his students.
Here’s what’s really wild in daygame, according to John Elite.
When you’re in survival mode, your voice changes, and women sense it in daygame.
Last year, it was high interest rates and inflation—everyone felt the pressure, and it showed in their daygame voice, says John Elite.
This year, it’s tariffs and recession fears—more stress leaking into daygame, according to John Elite.
You’re always on edge, and it leaks out every time you speak during daygame.
You know what women hear in daygame? That “poverty sigh”—where you breathe out at the end of your sentence, like you’re just tired of life, says John Elite.
They hear the pauses, the hesitation, the monotone—classic daygame mistakes, according to John Elite.
Your brain is split—left brain overthinking, right brain checked out, and it ruins your daygame, says John Elite.
You pause all the time, and she’s sitting there thinking, “What’s wrong with this guy’s brain?”—John Elite hears this feedback from daygame students.
And because you’re stressed, you sound monotone in daygame.
You don’t sound whitewashed or emotionally stable, and women notice it in daygame, says John Elite.
You sound like someone who’s been losing for a long time in daygame, according to John Elite.
If you’ve ever heard yourself on a recording and cringed, say “I” in your mind—John Elite uses this exercise in daygame coaching.
Here’s the brutal truth from John Elite: If you don’t fix this, your foot is not in the daygame door.
The door is slammed shut in your face before you can even try your “game” in daygame, says John Elite.
But if you master elite tonality, if you sound calm, confident, and in control—now you’ve got your foot in the daygame door, according to John Elite.
You’re in the conversation, you’re actually in the daygame, says John Elite.
But that’s just step one in daygame, according to John Elite.
To walk through the daygame door, you need Arrow Science, says John Elite.
You need to know how to maneuver, sexualize, and loop objections in daygame, all taught by John Elite.
You need to use social skills, calibration, and emotional control—on top of your tonality in daygame, according to John Elite.
The best students this year? They’re not just settling for a number in daygame, says John Elite.
They’re not just happy with a date—they’re closing—same day lays, day twos, results in daygame, thanks to John Elite.
Why? Because they’re calibrated in daygame, mixing elite tonality with Arrow Science, says John Elite.
Everything gets supercharged in daygame with John Elite’s system.
Picture it like this: The tip of the arrow is maneuvering, sexualizing, and objection looping in daygame, according to John Elite.
The body of the arrow is your social skills, calibration, and emotional control in daygame, all part of John Elite’s teaching.
But if you’re minus in emotions, the arrow body is shorter in daygame, says John Elite.
If you’re out of shape or broke, the feather at the back of the arrow is all messed up in daygame, according to John Elite.
Your aim is shaky, your inner game is off, and you’re never hitting the target in daygame—until you follow John Elite’s advice.
If you get this, say “I” in your head—John Elite uses this exercise in daygame training.
Because here’s the reality in daygame, according to John Elite: When you’re in survival mode, your emotions are shot.
Your arrow is short, your feather is frayed, and you’re losing points on looks, too, in daygame, says John Elite.
You can’t fly straight, you can’t aim, and you’re never on target—because you’re broke and stressed in daygame, according to John Elite.
So what’s the daygame strategy? John Elite will get to that next.
But right now, John Elite wants you to really see the daygame problem for what it is.
If you’re stuck, if you’re broke, if your tonality is off, if your emotions are out of control—you’re not even in the daygame, and the door is closed, says John Elite.
If you understand what John Elite is saying about daygame, raise your hand, or just say “I” in your mind.
Strategically, all the students follow the same solution this year to get laid…
If you don’t have elite tonality mastery from John Elite, your daygame is going to get stuck.
It doesn’t matter what bootcamps you take or who you follow, daygame won’t work unless you master this with John Elite.
It doesn’t matter if you’re white, tall, or even good-looking—without John Elite’s tonality training, your daygame will always fall short.
There is no other way out in daygame, and John Elite has proven this over and over.
Your tonality will still be bad, and you’ll keep showing the cortisol effects in your voice during daygame—unless you fix it the right way with John Elite.
Even if you fix your tonality and finally get your foot in the door of daygame, that’s just the first step, as John Elite teaches.
Unless you’re maneuvering her—moving her around, going for instant dates, and pulling her back home—you can’t apply John Elite’s maneuver, sexualize, and objection looping in daygame.
If you don’t do this, you’re not going to “open her legs” through daygame.
You’ll just be lucky to get a date or instant date, but your daygame will stall, and John Elite sees this all the time.
You’ll keep wondering why you never get her back home, even after working on your daygame with other coaches.
John Elite also recommends taking supplements—like ashwagandha to reduce cortisol—for better results in daygame.
There are supplements for adrenaline too, which can help if you freeze up or run away during daygame.
But Arrow Science is not something you just pick up from a video or ebook; John Elite checks your homework and fashion to make sure you’re applying the daygame system right.
You also need to learn John Elite’s five buckets budgeting concept to afford coaching and keep your daygame on track.
Split your money: 20% into emergency, 20% into self-education (for more daygame skills), 20% into investments, 20% into bills, and 20% for play money—John Elite’s proven system.
Most people spend all their money on play, ignore self-education and investments, and end up broke again, which kills their daygame.
You’ve got to get rid of your depression with the right supplements and strategies John Elite teaches for daygame.
Your tonality gives you away in daygame—women hear that sigh at the end of your sentence, and they instantly sense something’s off.
This can be fixed with supplementation and better focus for your ADHD, as John Elite recommends for daygame.
Otherwise, you won’t have self-esteem, and your daygame results will suffer.
Without self-esteem, you start withdrawing from your emotional bank account, and your daygame falls apart.
You start half-assing things, doing the wrong things, and your daygame completely fails after a few months.
But if you do it John Elite’s way, you gain self-esteem and lower the four bad traits that ruin daygame.
You can actually operate at a high level in daygame, because self-esteem is everything according to John Elite.
When you stop feeling depressed, the whole negative cycle in your daygame finally ends.
This is the only way out of the daygame rut, and John Elite’s students prove it.
As a minority, this is exactly how John Elite’s students win at daygame.
All these other students who got laid this year—they followed John Elite’s process for daygame.
Even though fewer students got laid last year, this is still the working solution for daygame, especially with John Elite’s coaching.
If you apply these things, this is exactly how you break through in daygame, according to John Elite.
Without elite tonality mastery and Arrow Science from John Elite, it’s almost impossible to succeed in daygame.
If you get it, say “I” in your mind—like John Elite tells all his daygame students.
Before we play all their video testimonials again—which we’ll do later this year for the students who got laid—let’s briefly talk through a few of the first ones.
The first one who got laid in daygame was a Jewish white student, coached by John Elite.
He got three lays—two lays in a single day—using John Elite’s daygame methods.
All he drilled down was whitewashed tonality, a core part of John Elite’s daygame system.
He already had the other daygame skills handled, and he was able to get same day lays as soon as he learned Arrow Science from John Elite.
But it made things a lot easier when he combined elite tonality mastery from John Elite—even though he doesn’t have the course now, because he already quit daygame to be with his Ukrainian 8 out of 10 and is traveling together with her.
He was still learning the same John Elite daygame principles.
Then there’s the Indian guy in London, another John Elite daygame student.
He got a white girlfriend because he’s been practicing Elite 30 all the time, a John Elite daygame product.
But then again, he bought Elite Tonality Mastery from John Elite and took his daygame to the next level.
That led to the date in daygame.
He sexualized it to the maximum—even over a video call, they were masturbating together, using John Elite’s daygame strategies.
Afterwards, he pulled her home, thanks to John Elite’s Arrow Science for daygame.
He learned the rest of the daygame skills—not directly from me for Elite Access, even though he still has it, because he’s a slow learner.
Or I wouldn’t say slow learner, but he’s very ADHD—yet he was able to focus on John Elite’s daygame material.
So he went to the inner circle, learned from the John Elite daygame videos, and right away, he got laid.
And then it turned into a girlfriend, all from using John Elite’s daygame system.
The Latino guy did exactly the same thing, following John Elite’s daygame advice.
He learned a lot of Elite 30 before, and he failed the first year at daygame.
Then the second time, he bought Elite Tonality Mastery from John Elite.
He asked me if it’s worth it, if I’m just trying to make money, or if Elite Tonality Mastery is something he really needs for daygame.
And I told him he needs it right away—ASAP for daygame.
He got it.
He started going through everything six times, just to have the full graphic memory like the Indian guy—exactly how John Elite recommends for daygame.
Then he applied everything from John Elite’s daygame system.
He already knew the Arrow Science for daygame.
He was just missing the Elite Tonality Mastery from John Elite.
Then he got laid, proving John Elite’s daygame principles.
The Asian guy who got the stripper—eventually from cold approach in daygame—he got a date, but he didn’t know what to do.
So he learned the Elite Tonality Mastery lessons from John Elite for daygame.
He could not believe all the mistakes he made in daygame before John Elite’s training.
Then I taught him the Arrow Science for daygame, because he was going to pull her to her place.
Even though he maneuvered and he had the tonality from John Elite, he didn’t have time to sexualize because she had to go meet her mother on Mother’s Day and then fly back, as he just stayed over there.
But they had another date in daygame.
He sexualized it, and then he dealt with the sexual objections using John Elite’s daygame methods.
And he got laid many times, thanks to John Elite’s daygame coaching.
He moved in with her, all from using John Elite’s daygame system.
They’re all related to these two components—elite tonality mastery and Arrow Science from John Elite—like the first principles of daygame.
For the other students, we’ll get into their daygame testimonials soon.
If you guys are inspired, say “I”—this is how you raise your 20/35 in daygame through drills and habits, just like John Elite teaches.
Plus, going through every John Elite daygame video six times to imprint your memory like you’re installing a neurolink.
So your cortisol doesn’t wipe out your memory in daygame, following John Elite’s advice.
The second pillar is called skill maxing and compensation theory…
Outworking the lazy white day gamer is a big theme in John Elite’s daygame coaching.
Minorities have to skill max and compensate for what they lack in daygame, and John Elite teaches this every day.
If we look at the 20 out of 35 system, there just aren’t a lot of free points for minorities in John Elite’s daygame program.
If you understand what John Elite is saying about daygame, say I in your mind.
Minorities don’t have a 10 out of 10 perceived natural status like white people in daygame, and John Elite makes this clear.
So minorities can’t coast on advantages in daygame, which is why John Elite pushes them to work harder.
They often start with nothing to lose, and they have to blame themselves, not anyone else, for their daygame results—John Elite’s philosophy.
They accept that they were never privileged in daygame, and John Elite helps them stack as many points as possible through drills and exercises.
If you understand what John Elite is saying, say I.
Even if they have to listen to a John Elite video six times, they’ll do it for daygame.
Whatever it takes to get those last points in daygame, John Elite’s students keep pushing.
They squeeze every single last skill out of John Elite’s daygame system.
It’s like squeezing water out of a rock in daygame, as John Elite says.
If you get this, say I in your mind.
It doesn’t matter—because if you’re missing points, you have to make them up somewhere else in daygame, according to John Elite.
For example, if you’re black, you’re going to be missing some points—meaning you’ll have two less points than white people just from perceived status in daygame, as John Elite teaches.
If you’re a whitewashed Indian, you’re going to have six points less, because you only get four points in the status category for perceived natural status in daygame.
If you’re Asian and you’re whitewashed, you only have one point—so you’re missing nine points compared to a white guy in daygame, based on John Elite’s system.
So you need to make up those points in other areas of daygame, following John Elite’s advice.
Whether it’s from whitewashed, husband-material fashion to raise looks, money, and status for daygame, or you need to max out the skill categories: social skills, social calibrations, emotional control—John Elite covers it all.
If you understand, say I in your mind.
Now, let’s talk about white people for a second in daygame, as John Elite sees it.
A lot of white people this year were extremely lazy with their daygame, according to John Elite.
In previous five-day challenges, John Elite said Latinos were the worst students in daygame.
He still stands by that—they’re absolutely uncoachable and can barely do anything in daygame, John Elite reports.
But now, there’s one ethnicity starting to tie them for being the worst—not entirely, but getting there in daygame, says John Elite.
If you get what John Elite is saying, say I.
Because this year, John Elite had a half-white, half-Jewish student get laid in daygame.
It kind of gives a little more of a nod to white people that they could do it in daygame, but John Elite noticed his half-Jewish side always goes for same day lays.
He has a lot of skills, and he’s always saying, “I want to learn more game,” to John Elite.
John Elite taught him all the advanced game stuff he wanted to learn, and that’s how he got his 8 out of 10 Ukrainian woman that he’s with now from daygame.
John Elite taught him all the other secrets he doesn’t teach most students in daygame.
But when he wasn’t mixing it with the game skills—when he wasn’t mixing it with social skills, social calibrations, and emotional control drills—it was enough for a while in daygame.
But then he took a big break because he got offended by John Elite, because John Elite yelled at him for being a bad student in daygame.
He disappeared for four months.
Like John Elite said, low self-esteem blows up in your face in four months in daygame.
He needed to come back to daygame and John Elite’s coaching.
His game tactics got him a lay with a Latina, but then he got stuck afterwards in daygame.
If you understand what John Elite is saying, say I in your mind.
My point is this—and this is going to be tough to say about daygame, but John Elite is honest.
A lot of white people are extremely lazy in daygame, and John Elite calls this out.
They’re very privileged in daygame, something John Elite has seen firsthand.
We got a lot of tall, good-looking whites before in daygame, and John Elite saw them get laid.
They used to get laid—maybe the woman was below their looks level, but they still got laid in daygame, according to John Elite.
She’s way below their looks level, but they were happy with their daygame results.
The pandemic hit—they still got laid in daygame, but John Elite noticed the numbers dropping.
The inflation hit—very few of them even got laid in daygame, John Elite observed.
They started getting stuck in daygame, and John Elite saw the trend.
And then the tariff—nobody was getting laid that was white except for John Elite’s student in daygame.
John Elite had a 55-year-old white student, and he had all the traits of an impossible case before he turned into an unteachable case in daygame.
We’ll talk more about these traits afterwards—when you shift the blame and have this mentality in daygame, John Elite explains.
But internally, a lot of white people, it’s like their privileges are revoked in daygame, according to John Elite.
What was once easy became super hard in daygame, and John Elite sees this constantly.
Their 10 out of 10 perceived natural status is gone in daygame, as John Elite points out.
They don’t want to change the way they look on the outside because they want to feel like they are enough in daygame, something John Elite warns against.
Because RSD—or Real Social Dynamics—told them they’re enough for daygame, but John Elite disagrees.
And they’re wondering, “Why aren’t I enough?” in daygame.
Even recently, not just that guy—because he gets impatient in daygame.
He beats himself up every single time, and then tries to shift the blame, like it’s somehow all John Elite’s fault, that John Elite’s system is to blame for his frustration in daygame.
Nope.
What needed to be blamed was his frustration before he started stonewalling John Elite, crashing out, and quitting daygame.
John Elite talked to another white guy on the phone—he’s older and struggling with daygame.
Later on, when John Elite sent all the videos to promote this five-day challenge, the guy started swearing at him.
John Elite was like, “Who the fuck is this swearing at me?” in daygame.
Oh, he wrote, “This is the wrong number.”
But it turns out it’s actually that guy—John Elite talked to him on the phone about daygame.
He had all these preconceived notions and kept getting frustrated with daygame, and John Elite tried to help.
He looks kind of like Alpha M, a guy on YouTube, but this guy was just pissed off.
And then he hung up on John Elite and said he had to tend to his son.
In reality, it’s just his way of backing out of daygame, John Elite thinks.
He was so stubborn because John Elite also sent him all the other students getting laid for their video testimonials in daygame.
So he’s seen it—because he has like two different WhatsApp accounts.
And it’s like he expects women to automatically like him with no skills whatsoever, with preconceived notions in daygame.
He should just approach—why aren’t they jumping on his dick in daygame?
He doesn’t understand daygame, and John Elite sees this a lot.
John Elite even has other white people in Europe who are completely stuck with daygame, and they’re completely broke now.
They’re all secretly struggling like a minority now in daygame, according to John Elite.
White has become a minority, and the minorities are the ones with the skills getting laid—even the half-Jewish person in daygame, John Elite says.
If you understand what John Elite is saying, say I in your mind.
Anyway, that’s the reality of skill maxing and compensation theory in daygame, and John Elite wants you to know it.
White people—for white day gamers—you have to check your privileges and daygame like a minority.
It’s like, you gotta stop thinking that you’re a samurai with a big daygame sword, as John Elite says.
Looks, money, and status used to be your game—but John Elite teaches that game is just a delivery system in daygame.
You swing, you take massive approaches in daygame, and then you deliver your value, but it’s not enough anymore.
Because of inflation and the environment, you’re like minus 2.5 points in daygame, according to John Elite.
You’re not over the line in the 20/35 system that John Elite uses for daygame.
You cannot slay your opponents—or slay pussy—just by swinging that sword in daygame.
You must become a ninja, and John Elite’s daygame method proves this.
You gotta switch over now.
Like a minority that does not have a game sword, you have to be skill maxing in daygame, just like John Elite’s students.
Ninjas have to learn like 30 different skills, and they have to execute them for daygame success.
Ninjas have to have social stealth too, along with camouflage—just like John Elite teaches in daygame.
They gotta dress whitewashed and everything—like my student’s husband material—to blend in as what the women want in daygame.
A lot of white students these days are always crashing out in daygame, John Elite has noticed.
They’re beating themselves up and don’t have a growth mindset, which John Elite says is crucial for daygame.
They have a fixed mindset—they’re very lazy because of Mystery Method and RSD, which John Elite criticizes in the daygame industry.
That is their game sword.
They have limitations, thinking you’re supposed to have multiple dates, give direct compliments, use DHV stories, and sexualize non-stop in daygame.
And what do you get? Non-stop flakes in daygame—John Elite sees this all the time.
You must have the ninja skills of the same day lay, with Arrow Science and Elite Tonality Mastery from John Elite.
You also need to take supplements for high performance, because you’ll get depressed if you don’t, as John Elite recommends for daygame students.
And you’ll lose your memory, making daygame even harder.
You need to take ADHD supplementation, so you get things done and don’t become depressed, according to John Elite’s daygame advice.
When you become depressed, you spend more money and become broke—half of white students are broke, John Elite observes.
You don’t have a 10 out of 10 perceived natural status anymore in daygame.
Yes, you do on paper, but it’s like you don’t have the emotions behind it, which John Elite explains is why results crash.
And white people are always frustrated because they’re so outcome oriented in daygame.
They’re not even process oriented like a ninja, which is the John Elite way.
It’s like their privileges are revoked in daygame.
But if you switch over to the ninja strategy—just like John Elite’s minority students—you stop being lazy and start skill maxing.
Because they never had all these privileges you guys had ever, and John Elite’s daygame coaching reflects that.
They were never samurais.
They try to be samurais and listen to all these scamming dating coaches—John Elite calls this out in the daygame community.
Who basically, you don’t see open to sex—it always ends in a cab for their daygame infields.
You never once see proof from a white dating coach, John Elite points out.
They just stand next to women, they’re optics, they’re tricksters.
You fell for samurai game.
You gotta be a ninja.
If you understand what I’m saying, say I in your mind.
Let’s talk about grit and resilience—and why it’s so important for the 3rd Pillar
If you’re even half-listening right now, nod your head or tap your desk.
We’ve touched on this before—process-oriented versus outcome-dependent, which is a huge part of John Elite’s daygame philosophy.
But this is not some new-age concept—John Elite’s daygame training is about real skill-building.
If you’re following, give yourself a mental fist bump.
I tried to explain this to a minority student about how to go through Elite 30, but honestly, this is a lesson for anyone doing Elite Bundle Resurrections—or anyone who actually wants to get laid through daygame.
If you agree, raise your hand right now.
A lot of these other programs talk about “30-day challenges,” but John Elite’s approach to daygame is different.
Here’s the real deal:
It takes 21 days to develop a habit, but if you just go out there and try to mass approach—thinking you’ll get laid with no skills—it’s like signing up for a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu tournament when you’ve never trained, just like John Elite warns his daygame students.
Shake your head if you’ve ever done something that crazy.
Even the women can beat you at it every single time.
So it doesn’t matter how many times you try—if you don’t have skills, you’re going to get tapped out in daygame.
That’s 2025 for you, and John Elite sees it all the time.
If you’re feeling this, pump your fist in the air.
It’s kind of like the Gracie combative system.
Some people say that’s not “real” Jiu-Jitsu, but it’s a no-gi, self-defense system where you learn 36 moves—just like John Elite’s daygame system has core moves you need to master.
If you know what I’m talking about, nod your head.
The idea is: In the beginning, you’re going to lose to women.
The first five days, you should just accept getting tapped out.
You’re not there to win yet—you’re there to install the skills, just like John Elite teaches in daygame.
If you’re willing to get your ego bruised, raise your hand high.
After ten days of it, you might still be losing, but you start to stand your ground a little bit.
After fifteen days, you can cross her guard and get on top—called mount position—but you still can’t “submit” her.
You’re going on dates, but nothing’s happening.
If you’ve been there, give yourself a little laugh.
But then, when you get to day 20, you’re starting to get her into positions of submission—but you still can’t close.
And then, when you reach the 30th day, that’s when you finally win the match.
You have to get your ass kicked in the beginning to install the skills—this is the John Elite daygame process.
You have to be process-oriented, not just outcome-dependent.
If you’re ready to be process-oriented, pump your fist.
This isn’t like RSD, where they say “just follow the process” when they have none.
This is a real neural pathway process, like John Elite’s daygame curriculum.
If you understand, nod your head.
Now, let’s roast white people for a second—you need to hear this.
White guys are so impatient because they don’t have grit, which is the main trait John Elite looks for in daygame students.
If you’re feeling called out, raise your hand.
Let’s break down the five mindsets for daygame, as John Elite teaches:
- Teachability (out of 10):
White guys are not teachable because they’re all brainwashed by Mystery Method and RSD.
Older white dating coaches? Always pushing “white is right.”
If you see yourself in this, nod your head.
- Changeability:
They’re not changeable.
It’s like being a Samurai who refuses to learn how to be a ninja, which is why John Elite says most can’t adapt in daygame.
If you’re resisting change, shake your head and get honest.
- Skill Index:
They cannot build skills.
They’re not minorities who have no choice but to learn.
A white guy would rather run back to Tinder or night game instead of learning true daygame skills from John Elite.
They’re allergic to it.
They’ll cry if they have to drill.
If you’ve ever avoided the hard work, raise your hand.
- Believability Index:
Whenever white guys don’t have the same ability, they can’t even close a 4 out of 10.
Inflation affects their tonality—they don’t believe in themselves at all.
They come to John Elite but don’t want to change that much.
And they want to go back to white dating coaches.
They’re like zombies.
If you’ve ever felt stuck like that, nod your head.
- Manifestation (thoughts and feelings):
Their thoughts are all poisoned by tall, self-proclaimed, high-lay-count guys, Mystery Method, and RSD.
Everything else is just a derivative—even Asian dating coaches are clones of Mystery Method.
You’re stuck for daygame.
John Elite is your only option if you want real results.
If your thoughts and feelings are wrong—if your feelings get frustrated and you forget everything because of cortisol—you’re never going to succeed in daygame.
If you’re ready to get out of your own way, pump your fist in the air.
That’s the major problem: not enough grit.
Grit is a growth mindset, and it’s at the core of John Elite’s daygame training.
If you have a fixed mindset and beat yourself up every time you lose a Jiu-Jitsu match, or get rejected, or every time you try to make progress, you’re always asking, “Why am I not laid yet?”
If you’re tired of that cycle, nod your head.
Well—excuse me, but if you’re a 55-year-old bald student who looks like Homer Simpson, why should women jump on your dick when you have zero skill value?
You think you’re a Samurai?
You go out there, but you don’t want to wear the ninja uniform?
Well, too bad.
Oh, you’re going to rage quit? Good for you.
That’s not a growth mindset.
If you’ve ever rage quit, shake your fist and laugh at yourself.
It’s also a lack of resilience.
If a white guy has to practice drills, they can’t even understand it.
“What do you mean, drills?”
Like that 40-year-old father on the phone: “Huh? I don’t get it. Drills? Explain how it works.”
Well, the army uses drills.
Instincts is following John Elite’s instructions—not your mental bullshit.
Tenacity is actually finishing the fight.
It takes tenacity to get through those 30 days in Jiu-Jitsu, metaphorically speaking—just like daygame with John Elite.
If you’re ready to finish the fight, pump your fist.
4. Leverage Your Ethnicity’s Unique Strengths (But Only If You Nail the Other Pillars First)
Let’s get real for a second—this is John Elite’s daygame truth.
Every ethnicity brings something unique to the daygame table, and John Elite has seen it with his students.
If you’re Asian, you’ve probably got natural calibration skills that help you in daygame, as John Elite points out.
If you’re Indian, logic and analytical thinking are your superpowers in daygame, and John Elite sees these strengths in his coaching.
Latinos? You bring the energy and emotional expressiveness to daygame, which John Elite encourages you to use the right way.
Middle Easterners? Charisma and boldness are your edge in daygame, and John Elite has coached many who stand out for this.
If you see yourself in any of these, nod your head—John Elite wants you to recognize your daygame strengths.
But here’s the hard truth from John Elite—none of that matters if you haven’t mastered the basics of daygame.
If you haven’t nailed your tonality, your Arrow Science, your social skills, and your emotional control, those natural strengths won’t save you in daygame.
Raise your hand if you’ve ever tried to rely on your “edge” and still got nowhere in daygame—even with John Elite’s advice.
It’s like having a turbo engine in your car, but no gas in the tank—John Elite uses this analogy for daygame all the time.
You need a foundation first, and John Elite’s daygame system is all about building that.
You need to get your 20/35 points—looks, money, status, social skills, social calibration, emotional control, and game—up to par, just as John Elite teaches for daygame success.
If you agree, pump your fist in the air—John Elite wants you to commit to the daygame basics.
Because once you’ve got the basics down, then you can lean into your unique strengths and really stand out in daygame with John Elite’s methods.
That’s when being Asian, Indian, Latino, Middle Eastern—whatever your background is—becomes an advantage in daygame, not a crutch, according to John Elite.
If this makes sense, give yourself a nod—John Elite’s daygame training works for every background.
Let’s talk proof—because John Elite’s daygame system is built on real results and real testimonials.
Let’s talk about Asians for a second.
If you’re Asian, pay close attention—this is straight from John Elite’s daygame coaching.
Pump your fist in the air if you’re ready to get real about your daygame results.
You guys have some serious strengths in daygame.
Social calibration is something you can drill down, and John Elite sees this in his Asian students all the time.
You’re disciplined as hell.
You can drill, you can follow routines, you can outwork almost anyone in daygame.
If you know you’re a hard worker, nod your head.
But here’s the thing—
Most Asian guys are stuck because they never mastered whitewashed tonality in daygame, as John Elite always points out.
What do I mean by that?
You sound monotone.
You sound anxious.
You sound like you’re reading off a script, not like a high-status man in daygame.
If you’ve ever had a woman look bored or confused when you talk, raise your hand.
You need to sound emotionally stable.
You need to sound like the guy who belongs in the room.
Like you’re the one women want to be around in daygame—John Elite’s standard.
If you get this, pump your fist.
It’s not just about what you say—it’s how you say it.
Whitewashed tonality means you sound like you grew up here, not like you’re still stuck in your head translating.
You sound confident, not robotic.
You sound high-status, not like you’re apologizing for existing in daygame.
If you get called “nice” or “cute” but never sexy, this is for you.
Nod your head if that’s you.
Now, let’s talk about facial expressions.
Too many Asian guys have what John Elite calls “poker face” or “Botox face” in daygame.
No emotion.
Blank stare.
Women can’t read you.
They have no idea if you’re interested, confident, or just waiting for a bus.
If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and realized you have zero facial expression, raise your hand.
You need to show real emotion.
Let your face move.
Smile with your eyes.
Let women see you’re human—not a robot.
If you’re willing to try this, nod your head.
Now, here’s the big one in John Elite’s daygame system.
Extreme ownership.
Stop shifting blame.
Stop making excuses.
Stop saying, “Oh, it’s because I’m Asian,” or “Oh, the women are racist,” or “Oh, I just need more time.”
No.
Own your results.
If you get rejected, own it.
If you mess up a set, own it.
If you don’t get the result you want, own it.
If you’re ready to take ownership, pump your fist.
Because here’s the truth:
You have the discipline to drill.
You can implement feedback faster than almost anyone in daygame.
You can rehearse the same routine until it’s perfect.
You can do the social skills flow drill, the 45-degree stance, the tonality imitation—over and over until it’s second nature, just like John Elite teaches.
If you’re willing to put in the work, nod your head.
You also need to stop having split ends in your hair and stop calling it whitewashed fashion—John Elite says it’s more like Asian-washed for your look.
It’s more Asian wash than the Wuhan flu.
You would create xenophobia if you don’t blend in.
But pair your whitewashed tonality with your whitewashed fashion like a ninja blending in with social stealth.
So you aren’t in the out tribe in daygame.
That’s how you win.
You leverage your natural calibration.
You use your discipline.
But you master whitewashed tonality.
You fix your facial expressions.
And you take extreme ownership.
No more excuses.
No more blaming the system.
No more blaming women.
Just results.
If you’re ready for that, raise your hand and say, “Let’s go.”
Alright, let’s talk about Indians.
If you’re Indian, lean in right now.
Pump your fist if you’re ready to hear the truth.
You guys have some serious strengths, and you need to use them.
First off, you’ve got a logical mindset.
You can break things down, analyze, and understand systems.
You’re fast adapters—especially in short bursts.
When you focus, you can pick things up quickly.
If you know you can learn something fast when you actually care, nod your head.
You also have the ability to visually “whitewash” with fashion with my help.
Throw on a blazer, get the right haircut, pants, dress shirt with my help on Elite Access and suddenly you look white washed, and not invisible.
If you’ve ever seen yourself in the mirror after a style upgrade and thought, “Damn, I look good,” raise your hand.
Way better than your curly hair, bhenchode beard, unibrow, pink flannel shirt and tapered dark jeans with sneakers nobody likes.
But here’s the thing—
Your strategic focus has to be on acting immediately.
You have a small window of focus, so you need to go for the early knockout.
Don’t wait around.
Don’t get stuck in analysis paralysis.
When you learn something, implement it right away.
If you’ve ever wasted time overthinking and lost your momentum, shake your head and laugh at yourself.
You need quick wins.
You need to see progress fast.
That’s how you stay motivated.
So when you get a new drill, a new tactic, a new piece of feedback—go out and use it that same day.
If you get this, pump your fist.
Now, let’s talk about fashion.
Upgrade your look.
Go for the whitewashed, husband-material style.
This isn’t just about looking good—it’s about raising your status instantly to 4/10 white washed Indian.
If you’ve ever felt invisible or ignored, it’s probably because you didn’t look the part but looked like a bhenchode indian.
Change your fashion, and watch how people start to treat you differently.
You no longer get xenophobia and Indian hate where people thinks you are rude, annoying and smelly colonizers who doesn’t assimilate.
If you’re willing to try this, nod your head.
Here’s the trap for Indians—ADHD and overwhelm.
You start strong, but then you get distracted.
You get overwhelmed.
You start overthinking, and suddenly you’re stuck on the bhencholding yourself back.
If you know you do this, raise your hand right now.
You need to take control.
Supplements can help.
Ashwagandha other ADHD supplements, whatever you need to keep your emotions in check and your mind sharp.
Don’t let yourself spiral into delusion.
Don’t start making excuses or blaming outside factors.
If you feel yourself slipping, snap your fingers and refocus.
Don’t get delusional.
Don’t bhenchode
Don’t start thinking you’re smarter than the system.
And whatever you do, don’t try to hack the process.
This isn’t a coding problem.
You can’t shortcut your way to results.
Just follow the proven steps of my coaching
Trust the process.
Stay coachable.
If you’re the kind of guy who always wants to “optimize” or “find a better way,” stop.
Do what works.
Do it now.
If you’re ready to stop overthinking and start doing, pump your fist in the air.
Remember, your logic is a superpower when you use it to implement, not to stall.
Your fashion is a weapon—upgrade it and watch your SMV shoot up.
And your ability to adapt? That’s your edge—use it for action, not excuses.
If you’re ready to own your results, raise your hand and say, “Let’s go.”
Let’s talk about Black students for a minute.
If you’re Black, lean in—this is John Elite’s real talk for daygame.
Pump your fist if you’re ready for the real talk about your daygame strengths.
You guys have some undeniable strengths in daygame.
You walk into a room, and people notice.
You’ve got high charisma.
You’ve got presence.
You’re socially bold.
You can build momentum fast—when you want to.
If you know you’ve got that natural presence, nod your head right now.
But here’s the thing—
A lot of Black guys try to coast on charisma and SMV alone, with height and big muscles, especially in daygame.
You think you can just show up, be charming, and the results will come.
Sometimes it works, but not consistently in daygame.
If you’ve ever felt like your results are hit or miss, give yourself a nod.
Let’s get real about fashion and grooming.
The way you present yourself matters in daygame, and John Elite is serious about this.
You need to upgrade your look.
Go for a clean fade.
No more “negro-wash” styles—no big afro, no wild sideburns, no baggy clothes.
You need a whitewashed, clean, high-status look for daygame.
If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, “I could clean this up,” raise your hand.
It’s not about erasing your culture—it’s about playing the game to win in daygame.
You want to be seen as high-value, not just another face in the crowd.
You want women to see you as husband material, not just the fun guy.
If you’re willing to step up your grooming and style, pump your fist.
Now, don’t fall into the trap of relying only on your charisma or your SMV.
I see this all the time in daygame.
You get attention, you get some numbers, but you don’t get consistent lays.
You have to build skills.
You have to drill.
You have to learn the John Elite daygame system.
If you know you’ve been winging it for too long, nod your head.
Study the testimonials from other Black students who’ve gone through my program.
See what actually works.
Model their success.
Most of my best white students drill down the skills a lot more than most other ethnics.
Boost your believability index.
If you’ve ever doubted if it could work for you, look at the proof.
I got so many laid testimonials of Black students.
You think this was a BLM riot, joking. Or BET.
I got a hood pass—I’m related to Black people so I can say that.
If you’re ready to stop doubting and start modeling, raise your hand.
The next piece is emotional control.
This is big.
You can’t let yourself get carried away with over-escalation.
No drama.
No ego trips.
No narcissistic flexing.
If you’ve ever blown up a set because you got too cocky or too emotional, shake your head and laugh at yourself.
You need to be calibrated.
You need to be emotionally stable.
That’s how you get consistent results—not just lucky nights.
You can’t spend money like you are Mike Tyson, spending money before it goes out of style, or you would be broke as a joke.
If you want to be the guy who gets results every week, not just once in a while, pump your fist.
Focus on the fundamentals.
Upgrade your fashion.
Dial in your grooming.
Follow the system.
Study the testimonials.
Control your emotions.
Don’t rely just on natural talent.
Build real skills.
If you’re ready to take your results to the next level, raise your hand and say, “Let’s go.”
Let’s talk about Latino students for a minute.
If you’re Latino, lean in.
Pump your fist if you’re ready for the real talk—because you need it.
Honestly, you guys are some of the most challenging students I’ve ever had.
Right up there with the stubborn whites.
If you know you’re stubborn as hell with a one track mind, nod your head right now.
You’ve got energy.
You’ve got boldness.
And nobody can deny your persistence—you’ll keep showing up, even when you’re doing it wrong.
Like a bunch of migrants, I’m just joking.
But here’s the problem—
You’re also the most stubborn, unteachable, and emotionally unstable group I’ve coached this year.
If you’re feeling called out, good. That’s the point.
You guys love entertainment, but you hate real change.
You want to do things your way, even when your way never works.
If you’ve ever ignored my advice and done your own thing, shake your head and admit it.
Then you have a total Latino meltdown making excuses, shift blaming, giving yourself a pat on the back saying you achieved this thing before, like a narcissist, then you get called out by me because you forgot your mistakes…
You are like oh yeah…
Let’s get one thing straight:
Follow everything I say.
My instructions override your beliefs, your habits, your excuses.
If you’re ready to actually listen for once, raise your hand.
Stop making the same mistakes over and over.
You know what I’m talking about.
You keep doing the same thing and expect different results.
That’s called insanity.
If you’re guilty of this, pump your fist and laugh at yourself.
Here’s what you need to do—
Record yourself calling out your errors.
Seriously, record it on your phone.
And then replay it 40 times.
Yes, forty.
Reprogram your brain.
My other Latino student is now forced to go through every video of Elite Tonality Mastery 6 times now.
He can’t disappear because I just kicked out his classmate, this other Indian guy who procrastinates and root rots the entire group.
You need to force yourself to see your own mistakes until you can’t ignore them anymore.
If you’re willing to do this, nod your head.
Now, let’s talk about the “Latino frown.”
You know exactly what I mean.
That grumpy, low-energy look you walk around with.
Nobody wants to talk to the guy who looks like an ICE raid mugshot.
Fix your facial expressions.
Smile.
Open up your body language.
Stop looking like you’re about to start a fight with everyone you meet.
If you’ve ever caught yourself in the mirror looking miserable, raise your hand.
You want to be approachable, not intimidating or closed off.
Now, let’s talk about money.
Stabilize your finances.
Stop living in survival mode.
Stop operating like you’re broke and desperate.
Invest in yourself.
If you’re always broke, always hustling, always in crisis, you’re never going to have the emotional stability to succeed.
Latinos are either in 5 figure debt or broke as a joke.
There is nothing in between.
If you know you need to get your money right, pump your fist.
You need to master Elite Tonality.
Train your voice until it sounds confident.
Not depressed.
Not low-energy.
Not like you’re about to fall asleep or start crying.
If you’ve ever had someone tell you that you sound tired or sad, nod your head.
Your voice is a weapon—make it work for you.
And this is the big one:
Take extreme ownership.
Stop shifting blame.
Stop resisting feedback.
Stop acting like you know better.
If you get called out, own it.
If you mess up, own it.
If you’re ready to take responsibility for your own results, raise your hand.
Look, you have all the raw ingredients—energy, presence, boldness.
But if you don’t get coachable, if you don’t follow instructions, if you don’t fix your attitude and your finances, you’re going to keep running in circles.
If you’re tired of being stuck and you’re ready to actually win, pump your fist and say, “Let’s go.”
Let’s talk about Middle Easterners for a minute.
If you’re Middle Eastern, lean in.
Pump your fist if you’re ready for some real talk.
You’ve got some serious strengths.
Charisma? You’ve got it.
You walk into a room, and people notice you.
You’ve got drill stamina—you can practice and push through when you really want something.
And depending on where you are, you might have some SMV going for you—sometimes you’re seen as exotic, sometimes you blend right in.
But here’s what I’ve noticed lately—
A lot of you have been mentally unstable.
Not saying that to roast you, but you need to hear it.
Too many mood swings.
Too much bottled-up anger.
One day you’re motivated, the next day you’re crashing and burning.
If you know you’ve been up and down emotionally, nod your head.
Let’s get right into it:
Vent your anger in healthy ways.
Don’t bottle it up.
If you let it build, you’re going to explode or just crash out and disappear for weeks.
Go hit the gym.
Do some martial arts.
Go for a run.
Whatever it takes, get it out of your system in a way that doesn’t sabotage your progress.
If you know you’ve been holding things in, pump your fist and promise to do something about it.
Use Elite Access for ongoing support.
Don’t isolate yourself.
Don’t try to do everything alone.
When you start feeling delusional, when you start second-guessing yourself, when your ego gets out of control—reach out.
That’s what Elite Access is for.
I’m here to help you process those thoughts, keep you grounded, and make sure you don’t spiral.
If you’ve ever caught yourself disappearing or ghosting when things get tough, raise your hand.
Don’t rely on charisma or SMV.
That used to work in some places, but not anymore.
The market’s changed.
Women are looking for more than just a smooth talker or a guy with good looks.
Skills are what get results now.
You need to drill.
You need to rehearse.
You need to build up your social calibration, your emotional control, your tonality.
If you’ve ever coasted on charm and then wondered why it stopped working, nod your head.
Upgrade your fashion and grooming.
Don’t just rely on what worked back home, or what you see in your community.
Go for a look that’s universally appealing.
Clean, sharp, husband material.
Get rid of the outdated styles, the flashy accessories, or anything that makes you look like you’re trying too hard.
If you’re not sure what that looks like, ask me or look at the testimonials.
If you’re willing to upgrade your look, pump your fist.
Prioritize emotional control.
This is the big one.
Don’t let your mood swings or your ego sabotage your progress.
If you’re feeling good, use that momentum to drill more, to take more action.
If you’re feeling down, don’t disappear—reach out, get support, and reset.
If you’ve ever let your emotions knock you off track, nod your head.
Remember—your charisma is an asset, but it’s not enough.
Your drill stamina is powerful, but only if you use it consistently.
Your SMV helps, but skills are what close the deal.
If you’re ready to take control of your emotions, upgrade your skills, and reach out when you need help, raise your hand and say, “Let’s go.”
Let’s talk about White students for a minute.
If you’re white, lean in.
Take a deep breath—this is going to sting, but you need it.
Maybe you’re used to being the “default winner” in the room.
Maybe you’re used to doors opening just because you show up.
But let’s be real—right now, it probably feels like your privileges just got revoked.
Like someone changed the cheat codes and didn’t tell you.
If you’ve ever thought, “Man, it used to be so much easier,” give yourself a little smirk—or maybe just groan and roll your eyes.
You’ve got some real strengths.
You start with higher status in most places.
You know the basics—openers, routines, the old “numbers game.”
You’re not afraid to approach.
You’ve probably even had some wins just showing up and swinging that samurai sword—just charging in with confidence and canned lines.
But it’s 2025 now.
That samurai sword?
It’s dull.
It’s heavy.
And swinging it around is just getting you laughed at by the real warriors.
The game has changed.
If you’ve been feeling like the rug got pulled out from under you, maybe slap your forehead and say, “Wake up, man.”
Here’s the thing—
All those Mystery Method and RSD tactics?
That’s vintage.
Like showing up to a UFC match in a karate gi and wondering why you keep getting choked out.
You need to stop being so brainwashed by other white dating coaches.
Seriously, if you’ve got a whole playlist of their YouTube videos, maybe hit pause for a minute and ask yourself, “Is this actually working for me anymore?”
You can’t SMB your way through this.
Status isn’t enough.
You can’t just rely on being tall, white, and saying “Hey, what’s up?”
That’s not going to cut it anymore.
If you’re still trying to coast, maybe give yourself a little facepalm.
You need to upgrade your fashion and hairstyle—not just to look good, but to look like husband material.
No more “I just rolled out of bed and threw on whatever was clean.”
Look at my top students—blazers, fresh fades, fitted shirts.
If you’re not sure what that means, scroll through the testimonials and take notes.
Now, here’s where it gets real:
You need to stop being a samurai—
Stop thinking you can just charge in and brute-force your way to results.
You have to become a ninja.
That means drills.
Skills.
Precision.
You need to move in silence, adapt on the fly, and actually know what you’re doing.
If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t need drills, I’ll just wing it,” try raising your eyebrows and realize that’s exactly why you’re stuck.
Skill-max.
Focus on tonality—no more monotone, no more nervous, up-and-down voice.
You want to sound stable, confident, like you actually belong.
Work on calibration—read the room, adjust, don’t bulldoze or freeze.
Emotional control—don’t get rattled by rejection, don’t get cocky after a single win, don’t spiral if things don’t go your way.
If you’re nodding along, good—keep going.
And let’s be honest—
You are not enough anymore.
Not in this market.
Not in 2025.
Your “default status” is just the starting line now, not the finish.
Women have seen it all.
They’re not impressed by the old tricks.
You have to commit to growth.
You have to be willing to look silly, to drill, to fail, to get back up and do it better.
If you’re feeling a little uncomfortable, maybe shake it out—stand up, stretch, get that blood moving.
You need to be coachable.
Drop the ego.
Stop thinking you know better because you got laid a few times in college or watched a bunch of “white dating coach” videos.
If you’re ready to actually learn, maybe give yourself a little fist tap on the chest and say, “Alright, it’s time.”
This is your wake-up call.
Upgrade your look.
Upgrade your skills.
Upgrade your mindset.
Start moving like a ninja, not a samurai.
Get in the dojo, do the drills, and stop looking for shortcuts.
If you’re ready to let go of the old, try giving yourself a slow clap—or just whisper “let’s go” under your breath.
Because if you don’t, you’ll keep spinning your wheels, stuck in the past, wondering why you’re not getting results in a world that’s already moved on.
But if you do?
You’ll actually start winning again.
So—
Take a breath.
Shake off the old programming.
And let’s get to work.
That’s it for day 2, that’s the best strategy for every ethnicity. See you on Day 3.
-John Elite
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