Daygame vs Blackpill: Why Looks Arenโt Enough in 2025
Introduction: Wake Up, Blackpill Zombies
Introduction: Wake Up, Blackpill Zombies
You ever notice how every loser on the internet is obsessed with looks now?
Itโs always the same story: โOh, if I just had a better jawline, Iโd be banging models.โ
Bro, wake up. Thatโs the Blackpill mindset talking, and itโs killing your results before you even leave your apartment.
If youโre still thinking itโs all about looks in 2025, youโre already falling behind.
You think women are just out here scanning for the next plastic-surgery Chad?
Let me tell you, Iโve seen more โgood lookingโ guys fail than you can imagine.
Meanwhile, the so-called โuglyโ guysโguys youโd write off as invisibleโare out here pulling, left and right, because they actually have game.
Iโm not here to sugarcoat anything.
Iโm here to show you how the Blackpill is a dead end, and why my students are crushing it while youโre still complaining in Discord chats.
If youโre ready to have your excuses destroyed, keep reading.
What the Hell is Blackpill? The Looks Obsession Disease
Letโs define it for the slow learners.
Blackpill is this toxic belief that if youโre not born a male model, youโre screwed for life.
Itโs a cult of defeat.
Every forum, every comment sectionโguys whining about bone structure, height, โmuh facial thirds,โ like theyโre auditioning for Americaโs Next Top Model.
You know whatโs funny?
These same guys never get results.
They love to talk about โSMVโ and โlooksmaxxing,โ but ask them for receiptsโnothing.
Not a single testimonial, not a single lay, just endless excuses and mental masturbation.
Blackpill is just cope for people who donโt want to put in the work.
If youโre reading this and getting triggered, good. That means you need to hear it.
The 20/35 Point System: The Real Mathematics of Getting Laid
Now letโs talk about something that actually works.
The 20/35 Point System.
This isnโt some pickup artist fairy tale.
Itโs a real, measurable formula I use to break down why some guys get laid and others die alone.
You need at least 20 points out of 35 to get consistent results in daygame.
Hereโs how it works: Looks, Money, Status, Social Skills, Social Calibration, Emotional Control, and Game.
Looks out of 10
Money out of 5
Status out of 10
Social skills 2.5 points
Social Calibrations 2.5
Emotional control 2.5
Game 2.5
20/35 = automatically laid for daygame.
Anything less? Youโre just spinning your wheels.
Itโs not just about having a pretty face.
You can have 10 out of 10 looks and still fail if youโre a zombie in every other category.
Most of you reading this are way below 20, and thatโs why youโre stuck.
Debunking the Blackpill: Plastic Surgery Wonโt Save You
Letโs play out your Blackpill fantasy.
Say you drop $20k on plastic surgery and become a 9 out of 10 in looks.
Youโre white, so letโs give you a 10 out of 10 in perceived status.
Youโre thinking, โIโm set, right?โ
Wrong. Thatโs only 19 points.
Now letโs be honestโmost of you have zero social skills, zero social calibration, and your emotional control is a disaster.
You walk up to a girl, your body language screams โcreep,โ your tonality is all over the place, and you canโt hold a conversation.
Guess what? Youโre still under 20 points.
Plus you have minus 2.5 points for your tonality affected by the inflation and the recent tariffs.
You think there is going to be a recession so you act like a cunt.
Now you speak fast like an auctioneer, or a bhenchoding Indian…
Youโre not getting laid.
You just spent a fortune to be a better-looking loser.
Proof: My Students Destroy the Blackpill Every Day
Let me give you real receipts, not theory.
Iโm John Elite, and I have 665+ laid/pull testimonials for daygame.
Iโve got a 55-year-old German studentโbald, average height, not a model by any stretch.
Heโs out here banging women who are 8s, 9s, even a 10/10.
You want to see the proof? Iโve got the receipts, the photos, the testimonials.
And heโs not the only one.
Iโve gotten guys from every backgroundโAsian, Indian, Middle Eastern, Latino, you name itโlaid with women way above their โleague.โ
None of them relied on looks.
They built up their points in every category, not just one.
Thatโs how you win.
I also got this Indian guy a white girlfriend for daygame.
Why Emotional Control and Social Skills Matter More Than Your Face
Hereโs what the Blackpill never talks about:
Women arenโt just looking for a pretty face.
Theyโre evaluating how you make them feel, how you carry yourself, your vibe, your social intelligence.
If your tonality is off, if youโre stiff, if youโre nervous, they feel it instantly.
You could be a 9/10 in looks, but if you come across as anxious or weird, youโre invisible.
Social skills and emotional control are force multipliers.
You can have average looks and still get laid if you nail these.
But if you ignore them, youโll always be stuck at the bottom, no matter how many times you โlooksmaxx.โ
This is why my Elite Tonality Mastery is mandatory.
Itโs not even optional if you want to win in 2025.
Case Study: The German Student Who Obliterated the Blackpill

Letโs break down his stats.
Heโs over 50, not tall, not rich, not a model.
But he drilled my social skills flow, he hammered the tonality exercises, he worked on his fashion and body language.
He trusted my system and followed it to the letter.
He ended up with a Ukrainian girlfriend, a 21-year-old German woman, a 25-year-old Middle Eastern woman, another 21 year old, and a Megan Fox lookalike.
You want to talk about receipts?
This guyโs results would make most โnaturalsโ cry.
He didnโt complain about looks.
He stacked his points in every category.
Thatโs what separates winners from losers.
Mindset and Grit: The Real Difference Maker
Hereโs the part every Blackpill zombie missesโ
Mindset and grit are the real difference makers.
You can have average looks, average money, average status, but if you show up, put in the reps, and refuse to quit, you will outwork and outlast every โgood lookingโ guy whoโs lazy.
Most of you fail because you quit before you even start.
You want a shortcut, a magic pill, a way to skip the grind.
But thatโs not how it works.
The German student succeeded because he never made excuses.
He did the work, even when it sucked.
Thatโs how you win.
The Bottom Line: Blackpill is Dead in 2025
Letโs wrap this up.
If youโre still clinging to Blackpill beliefs, youโre just looking for a reason to quit.
Looks matter, but only as one piece of the puzzle.
If you want real results, you have to stack your pointsโsocial skills, calibration, emotional control, game, fashion, everything.
Stop coping.
Stop making excuses.
Start doing the work.
Thatโs how you cross the 20/35 barrier and start getting laid.
Blackpill is dead.
Winners adapt. Losers complain.
Ready to stop whining and start winning? Check out Elite Bundle Resurrections and see why my students are getting laid while Blackpill guys are still crying online.
-John Elite (Best Daygame Coach In The World)


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