My 2nd Worst Daygame Students 2025 Were Procrastinating Bhenchode ADHD Aspergers Indians (video)

Get me past 60 views, I would edit and post another video that day if its early enough to be done.

Late April and early May in 2025, there were two Indian students.

Both had taken my coaching before.

Both were very much alike.

These two men both had decent jobs.

Both were into daygame.

And both had learned from me.

But this year, during the 2025 tariffs, they were still very much alike.

Both were procrastinating for weeks at a time.

One was in London, and the other was in America.

Both were in Western countries.

But there was a difference.

One man had invested in my coaching in 2024 and 2023.

He emotionally invested in himself and got laid during those years.

But in 2025, he didnโ€™t reinvest.

He shot down the idea of upgrading to Elite Tonality Mastery, even though he got a discount for being an Inner Circle member.

And he got kicked out.

The other man, however, made a different choice.

In 2025, he reinvested in himself.

He upgraded to Elite Tonality Mastery and later signed up for the Mental Trauma Cure.

And this year, in late April and early May, he got a white girlfriend from daygame with my coaching.

What made the difference?

Have you ever wondered?

It isnโ€™t always about your race being Indian, or how much focus or dedication you have.

Although thatโ€™s important, it isnโ€™t that one person wants success and the other doesnโ€™t.

The difference is what each person invested in my coaching.

And how they made use of that wisdom in 2025.

Thatโ€™s why Iโ€™m making this video.

To talk about upgrading or getting the Elite Bundle Resurrections, which includes Elite Tonality Mastery.

The whole purpose of this is to give my army and audience updated knowledge.

And the hyper-focus they need to get their next lay.

Donโ€™t procrastinate like the guy who missed out.

Be the one who invests in himself and gets results.

Indian laid testimonial for daygame getting a white girlfriend. The girlfriend thing is on the right. The lay is on the left. He represense the April 5 day challenge.

Who has lower SMV, Asians or Indians? Asians has a slightly lower SMV overall, token Asian.

Letโ€™s clear something up about SMVโ€”sexual market valueโ€”because people get this wrong all the time.

Most guys, and even a lot of coaches, assume Indians have the lowest SMV.

But the reality is that Asians, especially in the West, are actually at even more of a disadvantage.

You wouldnโ€™t know it if you only listened to the mainstream dating coaches, because theyโ€™ll parade around their one โ€œtoken Asianโ€ student who got laid, like itโ€™s some kind of miracle.

They put that guy on a pedestal, use him for marketing, and act like itโ€™s the norm.

But letโ€™s be realโ€”itโ€™s not the rule, itโ€™s the exception.

Most of these coaches canโ€™t get Asians laid for daygame, period.

Look at the stats.

Look at whoโ€™s actually getting results.

Itโ€™s almost always one guy, and thatโ€™s it.

Meanwhile, my coaching consistently gets Asian students laid, and not just once.

Take my student from the second five-day challenge in Mayโ€”he actually had sex with a stripper.

Not just any girlโ€”a stripper.

And I have the video testimonial to prove it, which Iโ€™ll be releasing soon.

This isnโ€™t a fluke.

This is a system that works, even when other coaches canโ€™t deliver.

Why is it so tough for Asians in the West?

It comes down to how the market sees them.

Other coaches are still stuck using outdated methods like the Mystery Method or that RSD โ€œmass approachingโ€ nonsense.

That stuff just doesnโ€™t work for Asians, especially not with the 2024 inflation and 2025 tariffs squeezing everyoneโ€™s confidence and raising the stakes.

So what do a lot of Asians do to compensate?

They travel.

They try to boost their status by showing off high-status jobsโ€”engineers, doctorsโ€”especially when theyโ€™re abroad.

They use that third-world money status advantage and post travel pics on social media to flex on the locals, especially in places like Latin America.

They chase that โ€œexotic advantageโ€โ€”being different in a sea of sameness.

And sure, sometimes that works, but itโ€™s not a real solution.

When they come back to the U.S., all those advantages vanish.

Now theyโ€™re just another ABCโ€”low self-esteem Asianโ€”stuck in a system that doesnโ€™t work for them.

Other companies might get lucky and have one Asian student get laid in Mexico or Peru, but thatโ€™s about it.

Thatโ€™s not a system.

Thatโ€™s just luck.

Meanwhile, Iโ€™ve seen the flip side too.

Iโ€™ve seen zombie-like Asians this yearโ€”guys with literally no working memory, totally fried by cortisol and the loser effect.

Theyโ€™re stuck, they donโ€™t remember the drills, and they donโ€™t get results.

Thatโ€™s what happens when you donโ€™t have the right system and youโ€™re not managing your mindset.

But when you do?

You get results, even when the odds are stacked against you.

Thatโ€™s the truth about SMV for Asians.

Itโ€™s not about luck, or being a token, or hoping for an exotic advantage.

Itโ€™s about having the right system, the right coaching, and the right mindset.

And thatโ€™s what actually gets you laidโ€”even with a stripper, even in 2025.

Asian student got laid with a 21 year old stripper for daygame. So you have no excuses for my coaching.

How does all of this connects to the latino fuck behavior of the last video?

Letโ€™s get real about the differencesโ€”and the similaritiesโ€”between Latinos and Indians when it comes to daygame and self-improvement.

Honestly, this year, Latinos have been even worse than Indians.

I know that sounds harsh, but I have to call it like I see it.

Both groups struggle with ADHD.

Neither can focus for long.

Both are depressed, both have high egos and low self-esteem.

But the way it shows up? Thatโ€™s where things get interesting.

Latinos, man, theyโ€™re on a whole different level this year.

Their self-esteem is even lower than the Indiansโ€™.

Theyโ€™ve got what I call the five traits of โ€œLatino fuck behaviorโ€โ€”and itโ€™s like watching a slow-motion car crash, every time.

Trait one: the one-track mind.

They can only do one step at a time.

Never multiple steps.

Itโ€™s like that ship accident in New Yorkโ€”Latino crew, straight under the bridge, disaster.

Itโ€™s not just a stereotype; itโ€™s a pattern I see in my coaching every week.

Trait two: always picking the wrong path.

Itโ€™s almost sociopathic.

Whatever decision they make, it blows up in their face in four months, guaranteed.

Itโ€™s like clockwork.

Trait three: the meltdown.

When their bad decisions catch up, they mentally crash out.

They cry, they spiral, and you canโ€™t reason with them.

Theyโ€™re not even human in that momentโ€”just a zombie, full of cortisol and delusions.

Trait four: rage quitting.

After the meltdown, theyโ€™re done.

They quit, or they get kicked out.

Either way, theyโ€™re out of the game.

Trait five: resurrection.

Give it some time, and theyโ€™ll come crawling back, ready to start the cycle all over again.

It never ends.

Itโ€™s hell.

And thatโ€™s why, as a coach, I have to be brutally honestโ€”Latinos are the hardest to teach this year.

Now, Indians?

Theyโ€™re not that far gone.

If Latinos are in hell, Indians are in purgatory.

They have four traits of low self-esteem:

Delusions.

Half-assing everything.

Picking the wrong path (and yes, it still blows up in four months).

And quitting.

But Indians have something elseโ€”a set of โ€œgearsโ€ that they cycle through.

First gear: the higher self.

This is the gear they should be inโ€”altruistic, planning ahead, forward-thinking.

But honestly?

Most never get there.

Second gear: the depressed snowflake.

When theyโ€™re down, they get nice.

Theyโ€™ll do whatever it takes to get what they wantโ€”information, validation, maybe even a lay.

But itโ€™s not real change.

Third gear: the sneaky Indian.

This is the โ€œbring India to the Westโ€ gear.

Not backstabbing, but sneaky.

You see it after they get one layโ€”they start acting sly, thinking theyโ€™ve cracked the code.

Fourth gear: the backstabber.

This is when they think theyโ€™re a godโ€”multiple lays, ego through the roof.

Thatโ€™s when you have to knock them off their pedestal and reset them back to the depressed gear, or theyโ€™ll sabotage everything.

So yeah, Latinos and Indians are similar, but not the same.

Latinos are goneโ€”so deep in low self-esteem and emotional dysfunction, they canโ€™t even function.

Indians, at least, can do two steps if they have Aspergerโ€™s.

Thatโ€™s why they can make money in tech.

Latinos?

Theyโ€™re stuck with manual labor, because the minute they try to use their brains, they crash and burn.

And this isnโ€™t just theory.

I see it in my students every week.

I had an Indian student I kicked out, then let back in because he bought Elite Tonality Mastery.

But even now, heโ€™s got that massive frownโ€”the same one you see in Latino mugshots.

He didnโ€™t even realize it until I showed him the photos.

The bigger the frown, the bigger the crimeโ€”or the bigger the self-sabotage.

Latinos are worse this year, and theyโ€™re struggling even more financially.

Indians, with their Aspergerโ€™s, can at least survive in the tech world.

At least Indians are more capable of making money, while Latinos are going ot be broke or in 5 figure debt.

But both groups are stuck in cyclesโ€”of low self-esteem, of quitting before they get results, of sabotaging themselves and blaming everyone else.

And thatโ€™s why, as a coach, I have to be ruthless about who I let into my program and who I keep out.

Iโ€™m not here to save zombies.

Iโ€™m here to get results for the people who are ready to break the cycleโ€”no matter what their background is.

I posted a preview of his lay testimonial and nobody seems to care. Thats my worst fear, but it was in the last video. He got laid on May 17th, 2025 for the 2nd 5 day challenge.

Technically it was not night game, he didn’t go into the club.

It was street game, meaning it was outside of a night club or outside of a bar or anywhere at night is street game or daygame.

21 years old gets his first lay.

What is your excuse?

He is so happy, you can see his smile beaming through the video testimonial.

Summer is not the time to MGTOW, its the time to double down On Daygame because Tonality is Destiny.

If youโ€™re thinking about going MGTOW this summer, youโ€™re missing the entire point…

Summer is when the opportunities explode…

This is not the season to retreat, to go zombie, or to start making excuses about why you canโ€™t approach or why โ€œwomen arenโ€™t worth itโ€…

If you do that, youโ€™re just root rottingโ€”turning from human, to half-zombie, to full zombie, infecting everyone around you with that loser mentality…

I see it all the time…

Guys who used to be sharp, now moving like the walking dead…

And Iโ€™ve been split-testing everything to break that cycle…

Thatโ€™s where the 6-40 rule comes in…

If youโ€™re half-zombie, half-humanโ€”still somewhat coachable, still hanging on to a bit of gritโ€”this is the baseline…

You go through the Elite Tonality Mastery course six times…

Six full runs…

You drill it in until itโ€™s second nature…

But thatโ€™s not all…

You have to listen to the audio you madeโ€”where I list out all your mistakes, and you call yourself out by nameโ€”forty times…

Forty…

Not just once or twice, but over and over, until the lessons are burned in…

Thatโ€™s what it takes to start rewiring your brain and shaking off the zombie traits…

But what about the fully zombified?…

The ones whoโ€™ve let themselves slide all the way downโ€”no working memory, no awareness, just pure root rot?…

For them, 6-40 isnโ€™t enough…

They need the 6-60 rule…

Six times through the course…

Sixty times listening to their own audio, calling themselves out, facing every single mistake…

It might sound insane, but this is what finally breaks through that thick wall of delusion and self-sabotage…

Anything less, and the changes just donโ€™t stick…

And hereโ€™s the thingโ€”even after they get laid, memory starts to fade…

Bad habits creep back in…

Thatโ€™s why the โ€œ6โ€ part of the rule isnโ€™t static…

It needs to be increased over time…

Maybe itโ€™s 7-40, then 8-40, then 9-40…

You keep leveling up…

You keep refreshingโ€”once a month, every few weeks, whatever it takes to keep the skills sharp and the zombie at bay…

Because the moment you stop, you start sliding back…

This isnโ€™t a one-and-done transformation…

Itโ€™s a continuous process…


Tonality is Destinyโ€”It Masks the Zombie Traits

Hereโ€™s what most guys donโ€™t get…

Tonality is destiny…

When you lose your tonality, you start leaking cortisol…

You sound monotone…

You talk too fast…

You pause too much because your brain canโ€™t keep up…

Your facial expressions go flat…

Your body language sags…

You start giving off that depressed sigh at the end of every sentence…

Women sense this instantly…

They see the zombie, not the man…

Latinos are especially bad for this, with that massive frown and alexithymiaโ€”no emotions, just dead eyes…

And the worst part?…

Theyโ€™ll argue with you, swear their voice is fine, accuse you of gaslighting, even when everyone else can hear it…

Thatโ€™s when you know someoneโ€™s too far gone…

No awareness, no hope…

And then you get the ones who cling to their one past winโ€”

โ€œI got a girlfriend before,โ€

or

โ€œI made this much moneyโ€…

But dig a little deeper, and you see the truth:

They blew all their cash, or that one win was just luck…

Itโ€™s ego protection, nothing more…

Indians are similar, hyper-focused on one thing because of Aspergerโ€™s, but can they repeat it? Rarely…


Why Tonality Mastery Changes Everything

The reason the Elite Tonality Mastery course works is because it masks all those negative facial expressions that ruin your tonality…

Your body language and facial expressions set your state of mind…

Change your posture, change your face, and you literally change your brain chemistry…

Once your state changes, your tonality shifts…

Once your tonality is right, your words follow…

Itโ€™s a domino effectโ€”get the first piece right, and everything else falls into place…

When youโ€™re stuck in zombie mode, youโ€™re leaking pointsโ€”minus 2.5 in the emotions category, dragging down your whole game, even your looks…

But when you master tonality, you flip it: plus 2.5 points…

Add in body language and social skills flow, and now youโ€™re at 7.5 points, even if your game isnโ€™t perfect…

Thatโ€™s why my students can pull off same-day laysโ€”they donโ€™t need to be perfect, they just need to mask the zombie and stack enough points to sexualize and loop objections…


Stop Being a Window Shopperโ€”Invest in Yourself

Europeans, I see you reading my blog, watching my videos, but never buying…

Youโ€™re like window shoppers, or as Iโ€™ve said beforeโ€”sewer rats (yeah, I apologized, but letโ€™s be real)…

Your money is more valuable than Canadiansโ€™, but look at themโ€”theyโ€™re investing, theyโ€™re getting results…

Whatโ€™s your excuse?…

Stop acting like youโ€™re broke when youโ€™re not…

Summer is slipping away, and youโ€™re still on the sidelines…

You know what my worst fear is? That I post all these recent laid testimonials for daygame.

Even 56 laid and pulled last year aloneโ€”and people just scroll past and ignore them.

Seriously, think about that.

I even tried to sneak in some preview laid testimonials and lots are looking at the Elite Bundle Resurrections sales letter.

But you hear the sound of silence and excuses.

Itโ€™s May 20th.

Weโ€™re right in the middle of summer.

June is around the corner.

What are you going to do?

Sit on your ass and do nothing?

Are you insane?

This is the time to move.

Right now, itโ€™s like shooting fish in a barrelโ€”metaphorically speakingโ€”if you actually have the right skills.

Thatโ€™s what Elite Tonality Mastery does.

It raises your points.

It masks your zombie traits.

It gives you the edge so you stand out instead of blending in with all the other mass-approachers out there.

And letโ€™s be realโ€”

Europeans, Canadians, Americansโ€”

I see you all out there, just mass approaching, hoping for a miracle, trying to cheap your way to success.

But Iโ€™m the only daygame coach whoโ€™s actually cleaning house.

Even if I donโ€™t have as many students as a few years ago,

I still had 56 laid and pulled testimonials last year.

Thatโ€™s more than the entire industry combined.

And what happened?

Nobody cared.

People looked at me like I was crazy.

I made less money, but got more students actual results.

Now, itโ€™s time to give a fuck.

Because now you have a real solution.

A new opportunity.

Unless you mask your zombie traits,

you have zero chance.

All these things can be fixedโ€”

if you add the missing piece.

Elite 30.

The social skills flow drill.

Social calibrations.

It all works together.

Aero science becomes easier.

You need less of it to get laid.

This is the big missing piece for 2025.

The adjustments are being made right now.

Now is the time to get students inโ€”

and then get them laid.

But hereโ€™s the truth:

Unless I get more students,

I canโ€™t get more guys laid.

If youโ€™re a total zombieโ€”

root rotting, no memory,

a loser, a procrastinator,

chubby with a double chin from cortisol,

no real victories,

no awareness of your mistakesโ€”

this isnโ€™t the place for you.

If you still donโ€™t get why drills matter,

if youโ€™re making excuses,

if youโ€™re stuck in zombie mode,

go back to Tinder or night game.

Youโ€™re not ready for this.

But if you actually want to do daygameโ€”

if you want to make it a priorityโ€”

now is the time to double down.

And letโ€™s talk about the price for a second.

Youโ€™re not even paying that much.

You think $1,000 is a lot?

Other people charge $5,000 to $10,000 for a bootcamp

and give you nothing but hype and wasted weekends.

This is $1,000.

Itโ€™s affordable.

I do this because I want more students to get laidโ€”

not just fill my pockets.

If youโ€™re broke, living on $200,

super ADHD, and you know youโ€™re a loserโ€”

this isnโ€™t for you.

But if youโ€™re willing to invest,

if youโ€™re ready to emotionally investโ€”

thatโ€™s the difference.

Those are the guys who get results.

Those are the guys who become testimonials.

Those are the guys who actually change their lives.

So the question isโ€”

which one are you?

Are you going to keep scrolling,

keep making excuses,

and let another summer slip away?

Or are you going to step up,

mask your zombie traits,

invest in yourself,

and finally get the results you want?

The choice is yours.

-John Elite (Best daygame coach in the world)

P.S where are the europeans? Train here. I mean besides London. Or Germany. Where are the Europeans?

I got new laid testimonials all the time. I don’t repost old stuff over and over from the pandemic era.