The Ultimate Daygame FAQ: Every Question You’ve Ever Had Answered About My Coaching

70 views gets you a new video. 50 views gets you nothing… I put 8 hours editing this, so you better watch it to clear your objections or lack of clarity…

If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or confused about daygame, you’re not alone.
Daygame is a skill that requires precision, strategy, and constant improvement. But here’s the problem:
Most guys don’t even know what questions to ask, let alone where to find the answers.

That’s why I created The Ultimate Daygame FAQ—to give you the most comprehensive resource for everything you’ve ever wanted to know about daygame.


Why Answering Questions Is So Important

When it comes to daygame, unanswered questions are what hold most guys back.
You might be wondering:

  • “Why am I getting rejected so often?”
  • “How do I fix my tonality and body language?”
  • “What’s the best way to approach women without coming off as creepy?”

These questions aren’t just random thoughts—they’re the mental blocks keeping you from success.
And here’s the truth:
If you don’t get these questions answered, you’ll stay stuck.

That’s why I spent over 8 hours recording this FAQ video—to address every single question you’ve ever had about daygame.
It’s the most comprehensive resource I’ve ever created, and it’s designed to give you the clarity and confidence you need to dominate daygame in 2025.

But I’ll be honest with you…
Creating this video took everything out of me. I was so burned out that I couldn’t even film another video today.
I’m only human.

This blog post is a little late, but I wanted to make sure it was done right—because answering your questions is that important to me.


What You’ll Learn in the Ultimate Daygame FAQ

In the video, I go deep into the most common questions I’ve been asked over the years as the world’s best daygame coach with 661 laid/pull testimonials.
Here’s a sneak peek of what’s covered:

1. Why Most Guys Fail at Daygame

  • The truth about why rejection happens—and how to fix it.
  • How your mental filters are sabotaging your success without you even realizing it.
  • Why tonality and body language are more important than the words you say.

2. The Secret to Consistent Results

  • How to structure your daygame sessions for maximum efficiency.
  • Why long-term consistency beats short-term intensity every time.
  • The role of social calibration in building attraction and trust.

3. How to Overcome Approach Anxiety

  • Practical strategies to eliminate fear and hesitation when approaching women.
  • The mindset shifts that make rejection irrelevant.
  • How to build momentum so approaching becomes second nature.

4. Advanced Tactics for Pulling and Escalating

  • The step-by-step process for turning an interaction into a pull.
  • How to escalate smoothly without triggering resistance.
  • The importance of reading her micro-expressions and adjusting your approach.

5. How to Afford Elite Bundle Resurrections

  • Why investing in yourself is the fastest way to success.
  • Practical tips for saving money and budgeting to join the program.
  • How the Elite Bundle Resurrections transforms your results faster than anything else.

Why You Need to Watch This Video

I’m not just answering random questions—I’m answering the questions that matter.
The ones that will actually transform your results.

Here’s the thing…
Most of the daygame industry is filled with misleading advice and fake gurus who care more about their subscriber count than your success.
They’ll sell you gimmicks, canned lines, and short-term tricks that don’t work in the real world.

But I’m different.
I’ve got 661 laid/pull testimonials—more than any other coach combined.
My system is proven, scientific, and designed to get you real results.

If you’re serious about daygame, you owe it to yourself to watch this video.


Some of My Favorite Questions (Reposted)

Here are a few of the most common questions I’ve answered in the FAQ:

I better shorten it because they are quite long and feel like a wall of text.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Yes its quite long, just scroll down to the questions you have and read only those sections.

What is in the Elite Bundle Resurections bundle?

The Elite Bundle Resurrections includes:

  • Elite 30: A 5 hour 30-day challenge for social skills and social calibration training.
  • Elite Playbook: A 15 hour game tactics guide to take women from open to pull.
  • Elite Tonality Mastery: A 21-day challenge and 10-15 hour deluxe course teaching secret techniques to fix tonality issues caused by stress, inflation, and tariffs that lead to auto-rejection.
  •   Elite Access: 10 minutes of advice consulting, rehearsed drills, quick analysis of drills and short infields per day.
  • 10 Skype Sessions: One-hour personalized coaching calls.
  • Daygame Motivation Album: Exclusive for the first 10 buyers.

Why is your coaching different than other dating coaches?

I focus on long-term consistency over short-term intensity. Unlike other coaches who push memorized tactics or bootcamps that burn you out, my system uses consistent drills to rebuild your neural pathways. This ensures you can adapt in the field like a trained soldier, instead of relying on zombie-like mass-approaching tactics that fail in today’s economy.

In 2025, many people struggle with working memory due to the winner and loser effect. The more you lose financially, the more cortisol builds up, causing weight gain, hair loss, a double chin, and poor memory.

My coaching addresses this by having students record their mistakes in a video addressed to themselves, pin it on WhatsApp, and listen to it 40 times in a row. This repetition reinforces correct habits, helping them adapt quickly and pass in just one attempt. Without this process, cortisol’s destructive impact on memory would cause them to forget what they learned by the next day.

What is Arrow Science?

My students uses the arrow science. For the 3 point arrow tip, it is Maneuver for instadates, sexualize it the max in bedroom, objections looping of the sexual objections only.

Its backfilled with flirts with when talks more. Tease when she is off the line.

To build the arrow body, to make it longer, it is social skills, social calibrations, emotional control.

To make it fly better the feather is the V shaped body and the white washed husband material fashion.

To aim it without shaking, its important you aren’t broke and in survival mode stressing you out. So budgeting and taking supplements to reduce cortisol is a must this year.

You currently have 661 laid and pulled testimonials for daygame. Are they all real? How do you count it?

Every testimonial is verified through screenshots, lay pics, or videos. Unlike other white coaches, I don’t inflate numbers with unverifiable claims like positive YouTube comments or vague reviews. It’s all about real results.

I don’t count Tinder as a lay since its a body count. You are swiping with A.I images, but not picking up. Even women can just show up and get laid 100 times in two months. Is that a laycount? No. Or other assistants can swipe for you and get the phone number and forward to your whatsapp to collect the lay. This doesn’t count.

Other Asian dating coaches have never achieved same-day lays in-field from open to sex for daygame. They rely on optics, halo effects that they are tall strong or handsome, you assume they must be good. They are only pulling women home without proof of actual results. Or standing next to women posing, as club promoters in 3rd world countries. They rarely post laid testimonials for daygame, they only have one in the last few years of the inflation or two at most. Mostly 0.

None of it is AI videos, or actors for my testimonials. I have posted video testimonials since 2016 before the age of AI. I also interview the students occasionally on Youtube Live and they talk the same, verifying their classmates in the inner circle. I Have a track record and other dating coaches are super jealous because they can’t get students laid like I do.

What is the first Principles Of Daygame, the 20/35 system?

The 20/35 system is the benchmark for success in daygame, often referred to as the “line of fuckability.” It evaluates key traits out of a total of 35 points:

  • Looks: 10 points
  • Money: 5 points
  • Status: 10 points
  • Social Skills: 2.5 points
  • Social Calibrations: 2.5 points
  • Emotional Control: 2.5 points
  • Game: 2.5 points

To succeed in daygame, you need to score 20 or higher. Women’s evolutionary psychology and subconscious brain calculate your score almost instantly. It’s like a lock to her legs. Once you cross that 20-point threshold, the lock opens, and attraction is triggered. It doesn’t matter how the points are distributed; whether it’s your looks, status, tonality, or social skills, as long as you hit 20 or higher, you’ll get results.

Attraction isn’t based on individual preferences. It’s a subconscious system hardwired into her evolutionary psychology. That’s why my students achieve a wide range of outcomes: from same-day lays and casual hookups to building relationships with fuck buddies and girlfriends, even multiple girlfriends. Many have even gone on to get married and start families. The key is to compensate for weaker areas and leverage your strengths to cross the line and unlock success in daygame. Attraction is not a choice.

What if I think it’s all about looks or Blackpill ideology?

The 20/35 System Proves Looks Alone Aren’t Enough

The 20/35 system shows that relying solely on looks won’t guarantee consistent success. Let’s break it down:

Even with 9/10 looks (achieved through surgery) and 10/10 natural status (being white), that gives you 19 points. But here’s where things fall apart:

  • Social Skills (0): If you can’t use proper social flow (e.g., statements or questions) and she gives short answers, you lose points.
  • Social Calibrations (1): Poor body language or tonality adds stress, barely giving you 1 point.
  • Emotional Control (-2.5): This is the only category that can go negative. Stress or nervousness caused by financial troubles (tariffs) or the winner and loser effect (testosterone for winning vs. cortisol for losing or being broke) leaks 2.5 points.

Final Math
17.5 points, below the 20-point threshold needed to get laid..

Does it work for every ethnicity of Students?

Yes, the system works for every ethnicity, including Asians, Indians, Black students, Latinos, Italians, and more. This is proven by my video and screenshot testimonials. While each ethnicity may require a slightly tailored approach in 2025, the 20/35 system is universal. Once you cross the line of fuckability, you’ll get laid, regardless of your background.

For example, white students naturally score higher in perceived status which is 10/10, tall white-washed Black students score around 8/10, Middle Eastern students 7/10, Latinos 5/10, white-washed Indians 4/10, negative stereotype Indians 2/10, and Asians 1/10 or 0 if they’re Asian-washed. The system adjusts for these factors, ensuring success for every student.

Does your game work on every type of women? not just white women?

Yes, this system works for every type of woman, including Asians, Black women, Latinas, Italians, and more. Even hoodrats, for those of you asking. The 20/35 system is universal because it focuses on improving traits that are attractive across all cultures, such as social skills, social calibrations, and emotional control. While some adjustments may be made for cultural nuances, the overall framework remains the same. This system has been proven to work for women all around the world, regardless of their background or environment.

How Has The New Elite Tonality Mastery Course Adapted for 2025?

Elite Tonality Mastery is a 21-day challenge and a 10 to 15-hour deluxe digital course designed to transform your vocal tonality into that of a natural. It eliminates monotoned, cortisol-induced, angry, or depressed tones, helping you reduce rejections and bypass women’s defenses. By mastering tonality, you mask cortisol stress in your voice, ensuring you get your foot in the door.

Even with the challenges of 2025 tariffs and the winner and loser effect. The more you lose, or the more broke you are, the higher your cortisol levels rise. It’s not just about having a deeper voice to indicate testosterone. It’s about projecting confidence, emotional control, and high status white washed tonality through precise tonality.

In the 20/35 system, tonality is worth 2.5 points, but if not mastered, it can drop you by minus 2.5 points, leeching from other areas like social skills and emotional control. This makes mastering tonality critical for projecting confidence, sounding white-washed like a natural to reduce women’s stress, and ultimately getting laid in daygame in 2025. Without precision in your tonality, even the best strategies will fail to compensate for the negative signals your voice projects.


Looking for More Students Not Less

I’m always looking for more students who are ready to take their daygame to the next level.
But let me be clear—this isn’t for everyone.

I’m looking for guys who are:

  • Financially stable and ready to invest in themselves.
  • Willing to put in the work and follow my system.
  • Committed to long-term consistency over short-term intensity.

If that sounds like you, don’t wait.
This is your chance to work with the world’s best daygame coach and transform your results.


Final Thoughts

The Ultimate Daygame FAQ isn’t just another video—it’s the most comprehensive resource ever created for daygame success.
I poured over 8 hours into making this video because I know how important it is to have your questions answered.

If you’re serious about getting laid, building a rotation, or finding a girlfriend through daygame, this is the guide you’ve been waiting for.

Stop making excuses.
Click the link, watch the video, and start transforming your results today.

-John Elite