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the 20/35 System
1. The Mathematics Doesn’t Lie
- “Let’s break this down logically using the 20/35 system. No matter how much you optimize your looks, money, or status, if you don’t fix your emotional control, social skills, and social calibrations, you’ll always fall short. The math doesn’t work in your favor unless you address these bottlenecks.”
The Mathematics of Getting Laid in Daygame
Section 1: The Scoring System for Daygame Success
To succeed in daygame, we use a comprehensive scoring system that evaluates various attributes contributing to your overall success. Here’s how the points are distributed:
- Looks: 10 points
- Money: 5 points
- Status: 10 points
- Social Skills: 2.5 points
- Social Calibrations: 2.5 points
- Emotional Control: 2.5 points
- Game: 2.5 points
Total: 35 points
You need 20 points out of 35 to start getting laid consistently in daygame. This system ensures that you focus on improving the areas that matter most, rather than wasting time on things that won’t move the needle.tting laid consistently for daygame. Let’s do the math.
Section 2: The Five Mindsets for Success
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Beyond physical and social attributes, your mindset plays a critical role in determining your success in daygame. Here are the five key mindsets, each scored out of 10, for a total of 50 points:
- Teachable (Out of 10):
How open are you to learning and adapting? Being teachable means you’re willing to embrace new concepts, take constructive feedback, and apply what you’ve learned without resistance. - Changeable (Out of 10):
Your ability to change old habits and adopt new behaviors is crucial. This measures how adaptable you are and how quickly you can pivot when something isn’t working. - Skill Development (Out of 10):
Skill development follows the four stages of competence:- Unconscious Incompetence: You don’t know what you don’t know.
- Conscious Incompetence: You recognize what you’re doing wrong but don’t yet know how to fix it.
- Conscious Competence: You can perform the skill correctly, but it requires focus and effort.
- Unconscious Competence: The skill becomes second nature, requiring no conscious thought.
- Believability (Out of 10):
How much do you believe in yourself and the system? Confidence in your ability to succeed and trust in the process are key drivers of progress. - Manifestation (Out of 10):
This measures the alignment of your thoughts, feelings, and actions. Are you mentally and emotionally focused on achieving your goals, or are you sabotaging yourself with negative thinking?
Total: 50 points
Your mindset directly influences your ability to succeed. Even with strong physical and social attributes, a weak mindset can hold you back. Conversely, a strong mindset can compensate for deficiencies in other areas.
Section 3: GRIT – The Foundation of Resilience
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Success in daygame isn’t just about attributes and mindset—it’s also about GRIT. GRIT stands for Growth Mindset, Resilience, Instincts, and Tenacity, and it’s the glue that holds everything together.
- Growth Mindset:
The belief that you can improve through effort and learning. A growth mindset helps you overcome setbacks and stay motivated, even when progress feels slow. - Resilience:
Your ability to bounce back from rejection and failure. Resilience ensures that you don’t give up after a bad interaction and instead use it as a learning opportunity. - Instincts:
The ability to follow my instructions and instincts without trying to invent your own steps. Many students fail because they try to do things their way, which stems from low self-esteem and a lack of trust in the process. Following my instincts ensures you stay on the right path and avoid unnecessary mistakes. - Tenacity:
Your determination to keep going, no matter how difficult the journey gets. Tenacity is what separates those who succeed from those who quit too early. It’s supported by instincts, ensuring you don’t make delusional decisions along the way.
GRIT is the ultimate predictor of success. Even if you have all the attributes and mindsets in place, without GRIT, you’ll struggle to push through the challenges of daygame.
The Changing Environment: From Pandemic to Tariff
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The dating landscape has changed dramatically over the years:
- Pandemic Era (2020-2022): During this time, money wasn’t as affected, and cortisol levels were lower. People were only halfway zombie-like—still human enough to connect.
- Inflation Era (2023-2024): As inflation hit, survival value became a bigger factor. Women had more cortisol, and objections increased. People were turning more zombie-like, but they still had some memory and emotional capacity.
- Tariff Era (2025): Now, people are fully zombie-like. Women are overwhelmed with cortisol, survival value is at an all-time high, and memory is severely impacted.
In this environment, emotions are the key to success. Without emotional control, you’ll appear incongruent, stressed, and unattractive, turning women off instantly.
Why Emotional Control is the Foundation
Emotional control is the most important factor in daygame success. Without it, you’re stuck in the Loser Effect, constantly sabotaging yourself. Here’s why:
- Cortisol and Stress: Women are already stressed out and full of cortisol. If your tonality and facial expressions signal stress or nervousness, you’re just adding to their stress, and they’ll shut you down.
- Congruency: Emotional control helps you align your tonality, body language, and facial expressions, making you appear confident and attractive.
- Survival Value: In today’s zombie-like environment, women are hyper-focused on survival value. If you appear incongruent or stressed, they’ll interpret you as a threat.
This is why Elite Tonality Mastery is critical. It teaches you how to:
- Slow down your speech and eliminate awkward pauses.
- Develop a whitewashed tonality that’s calm, steady, and congruent.
- Mask your stress and project confidence, even in high-pressure situations.
Without Elite Tonality Mastery, you’re stuck. There’s no other way to fix this.
2. Blackpill: The Looks-Obsessed Mindset
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“Let’s talk about the 20/35 point system, the foundation for success in daygame. This system isn’t just a random formula—it’s a precise measurement that helps us understand what’s working, what’s missing, and why some people succeed while others fail. If you want consistent results, you need at least 20 points out of 35. Anything less? You’re going to struggle.
Now, let’s address a common misconception: the Blackpill mindset. Blackpill believers think that looks are everything. They argue that if you’re good-looking, you’ll automatically get laid. But let me break this down for you mathematically, so you can see why that belief is flawed.
Imagine you’re someone who’s had plastic surgery to achieve 9/10 looks—and let’s say you’re white, so you automatically have 10/10 status because of societal biases. That gives you 19 points right off the bat, which seems impressive. But here’s where things fall apart.
If you have zero social skills, you lose 2.5 points because you can’t hold a conversation, can’t connect, and can’t get her to open up.
If you have zero social calibrations, you lose another 2.5 points because your body language, tonality, and overall vibe are off. You might come across as awkward, stiff, or even creepy.
And if your emotional control is negative—let’s say it’s -2.5—you’re leaking points because you’re incongruent, stressed, or giving off nervous energy that women pick up on immediately.
So let’s do the math:
You started with 19 points from looks and status.
Subtract 2.5 for social skills, 2.5 for social calibrations, and 2.5 for emotional control.
That leaves you with 17.5 points—below the 20-point threshold.
Do you see the problem here? Even with 9/10 looks and 10/10 status, you’re still failing to meet the minimum requirement for success. Looks alone won’t save you.
Now, let’s take this further. Some people think they can compensate for their lack of skills or emotional control by doubling down on their looks or status. But here’s the truth: you can’t outcompensate for fundamental weaknesses. Women aren’t just looking at your physical appearance or your perceived social standing—they’re evaluating how you make them feel.
If you can’t connect with her on an emotional level, if your body language signals discomfort or incongruence, or if your tonality is off, she’s going to feel stressed. Women are already dealing with high cortisol levels due to survival value concerns in today’s world. If you add to that stress instead of reducing it, she’ll shut you down immediately.
Case Study: The German Student’s Transformation and the Role of Mindsets and Grit
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This story of the German student in his 50s is a perfect example of how mindsets and grit can make or break your success in daygame, regardless of your fixed SMV (Looks, Money, and Status). His journey highlights the importance of adaptability, emotional control, and the ability to overcome challenges in different eras—from the pandemic to inflation, and now the tariff era.
The German Student’s Results Before the Pandemic
Before the pandemic, this student achieved remarkable results despite being older, bald, and not conventionally attractive. His success came from his high mindsets and grit, which allowed him to maximize his fixed SMV and execute daygame effectively. Here’s what he accomplished:
- A Ukrainian girlfriend. In her late 40’s.
- A 21-year-old woman (8.5 out of 10 in looks) from daygame.
- A 25-year-old Middle Eastern woman (8 out of 10 in looks).
- Another 21-year-old woman (6.5 in looks but with a great body).
- A 10 out of 10 Megan Fox-looking blonde, though this was a picture of her from 15 years ago. She was 40 years old.
At that time, his 20/35 score was likely strong because of his high social skills, social calibrations, emotional control, and game. His teachability was a perfect 10 out of 10, as he trusted and followed my instructions completely. He executed everything I taught him without question, which allowed him to achieve these impressive results.
The Pandemic Era: The Fall
When the pandemic hit, everything changed. His looks, money, and status remained the same, but his mindsets and grit fell apart, causing his 20/35 score to collapse. Here’s what happened:
Mindsets During the Pandemic
- Teachability: Dropped from 10/10 to 0.5/10. He stopped trusting my instructions and became resistant to feedback.
- Changeability: Fell to 1/10. He barely changed his approach or habits, becoming stuck in his old ways.
- Skill Development: Plummeted to 1/10. He stopped practicing and drilling, losing the skills he had developed.
- Believability: Dropped to 5/10. While he had some belief in himself due to past successes, it wasn’t enough to carry him forward.
- Manifestation (Thoughts and Feelings): He was overwhelmed by cortisol and negative thoughts, which caused him to rot away mentally.
GRIT During the Pandemic
- Growth Mindset: Non-existent. He rejected new ideas and refused to adapt.
- Resilience: Weak. While he could still approach, his performance was lackluster, and he didn’t care about improving.
- Instincts: Poor. He stopped following my instructions and tried to do things his own way, which led to failure.
- Tenacity: Completely gone. He lacked the determination to push through challenges.
This decline in mindsets and grit led to his downfall. Despite his fixed SMV, he couldn’t succeed because his emotional control was negative (-2.5), and he lacked the adaptability and resilience needed to thrive in the pandemic era.
The Comeback:
After being kicked out, he rejoined Kaizen in 2022 or something.
Mindsets After Rejoining
- Teachability: Restored to 10/10. He fully trusted my instructions and followed them without question.
- Changeability: Increased to 8/10. He became more adaptable and willing to change his habits.
- Skill Development: Improved to 6-7/10. He practiced consistently and used techniques like pinching his nipples every time he made a mistake to reinforce learning.
- Believability: Rose to 7-8/10. His belief in himself and the system was strong, which fueled his progress.
- Manifestation (Thoughts and Feelings): He eliminated negative thoughts and focused entirely on executing my instructions.
GRIT After Rejoining
- Growth Mindset: Fully restored. He embraced every idea I taught him and implemented it immediately.
- Resilience: Through the roof. He could handle rejection and setbacks without losing focus.
- Instincts: He followed my instincts entirely, saying “yes sir” to everything and executing without hesitation.
- Tenacity: Ruthless. He was determined to succeed, achieving three lays in one approach each time.
Even rejoining again a second time for Elite Access, part of the Elite Bundle Resurrections.
This transformation in mindsets and grit allowed him to achieve incredible results, including a 10 out of 10 Megan Fox-looking blonde (though she was 40 years old at the time). His success wasn’t due to an improvement in his 20/35 score—his fixed SMV remained the same. Instead, it was his mindsets and grit that made the difference.
The 50-Something-Year-Old Student’s Score
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Here’s how his score adds up based on the attributes you’ve provided:
- Status: 10/10 (Being white automatically gives him full points for status in this system.)
- Looks: 3/10 initially, but with improved fashion, it’s closer to 6/10.
- Money: 3/5 (He has some financial resources but not at the maximum level.)
- Social Skills: 1/2.5 (Not perfect, but he has some ability to hold conversations and engage.)
- Social Calibrations: 2/2.5 (He has decent body language and non-verbal communication, though not flawless.)
- Emotional Control: 1/2.5 (He’s struggling here, but he’s not completely negative.)
- Game: 2.5/2.5 (He’s fully utilizing game tactics effectively.)
Total Score:
- Status (10) + Looks (6) + Money (3) + Social Skills (1) + Social Calibrations (2) + Emotional Control (1) + Game (2.5) = 25.5
This score is well above the 20-point threshold, meaning he has the foundation to succeed in daygame. His status, game, and improved looks are carrying much of the weight, while his weaker areas like emotional control and social skills are still enough to get him over the line.
The Tariff Era: The Challenge of Root Rotting
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Now, in the tariff era, people are facing even greater challenges. High cortisol levels, impaired working memory, and increased stress have caused many to become zombies—root rotting mentally and emotionally. This affects their:
- Resilience: They give up easily and lack the ability to bounce back.
- Grit: They lose their growth mindset, instincts, and tenacity, becoming stuck in a fixed mindset.
- Mindsets: Negative thoughts and feelings take over, preventing them from making progress.
Even the German student, after achieving his 10 out of 10 lay, fell into this trap. His ego inflated, his self-esteem dropped, and he became delusional, making repeated mistakes. This is a common pattern in the tariff era, where people’s mindsets and grit are under constant attack.
The Key Takeaway: Mindsets and Grit Are the Real Game-Changers
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This case study shows that while your 20/35 score (Looks, Money, Status, Social Skills, Social Calibrations, Emotional Control, and Game) is important, it’s your mindsets and grit that truly determine your success.
- Mindsets: Teachable, changeable, skill development, believability, and manifestation are the foundation for progress.
- GRIT: Growth mindset, resilience, instincts (following my instructions), and tenacity are the driving forces behind consistent results.
Without these, even the most promising students will fail. But with them, even those with average fixed SMV can achieve extraordinary results.
The 50-Something-Year-Old Student’s Score
Here’s how his score adds up based on the attributes you’ve provided:
- Status: 10/10 (Being white automatically gives him full points for status in this system.)
- Looks: 3/10 initially, but with improved fashion, it’s closer to 6/10.
- Money: 3/5 (He has some financial resources but not at the maximum level.)
- Social Skills: 1/2.5 (Not perfect, but he has some ability to hold conversations and engage.)
- Social Calibrations: 2/2.5 (He has decent body language and non-verbal communication, though not flawless.)
- Emotional Control: 1/2.5 (He’s struggling here, but he’s not completely negative.)
- Game: 2.5/2.5 (He’s fully utilizing game tactics effectively.)
Total Score:
- Status (10) + Looks (6) + Money (3) + Social Skills (1) + Social Calibrations (2) + Emotional Control (1) + Game (2.5) = 25.5
This score is well above the 20-point threshold, meaning he has the foundation to succeed in daygame. His status, game, and improved looks are carrying much of the weight, while his weaker areas like emotional control and social skills are still enough to get him over the line.
3. Redpill: The Status and Lifestyle Mindset
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The Redpill Clout Calculation (White Student with Status-Maxing)
Let’s calculate the score for a white individual who’s leveraging their perceived natural status and additional clout-maxing strategies:
Status (10/10 for being white):
Automatically, they start with 10 points due to the natural status advantage of their ethnicity.
Extra Status Points (3/4 possible):
High-Status Lifestyle (+1): They display a flashy lifestyle on Instagram, traveling and showcasing wealth.
Third-World Money Status Advantage (+1): They’re traveling to countries where their money stretches further, making them appear wealthier.
Exotic Advantage (+1): They’re in a country where their ethnicity is perceived as unique or desirable.
High-Status Job (+0): Since they’re an engineer, they don’t get this extra point for jobs like club promoter or entrepreneur.
Total for status: 10 (natural status) + 3 (extra points) = 13 points.
Looks (6/10):
They’re average in looks but have decent aesthetics, giving them 6 points.
Cumulative total so far: 13 + 6 = 19 points.
Social Skills (1/2.5):
Their social skills are limited—they can engage minimally but lack the ability to truly connect or lead conversations. This adds 1 point.
Cumulative total: 19 + 1 = 20 points.
Social Calibrations (1/2.5):
Their body language is weak—they hunch or act beta to maintain the social circle dynamic. This adds 1 point.
Cumulative total: 20 + 1 = 21 points.
Emotional Control (-2.5/2.5):
Their emotional control is poor—they’re stressed, nervous, or incongruent, which subtracts 2.5 points.
Cumulative total: 21 – 2.5 = 19.5 points.
Game (0/2.5):
They have no game tactics or strategies to spark or sustain attraction, so they get 0 points here.
Final Total: 19.5 points.
Why They Fall Short
Even with the natural 10/10 status advantage for being white and the 3 extra points from clout-maxing, this individual still falls short of the 20-point threshold for consistent success in daygame. Here’s why:
Emotional Control is the Bottleneck:
Their negative emotional control doesn’t just subtract points—it creates a ripple effect that undermines their social skills and body language. Women pick up on this stress and incongruence, which overrides any perceived status or clout.
No Game:
Without game tactics, they can’t actively create or sustain attraction. Status and clout might get them noticed, but they can’t convert that attention into meaningful results.
Weak Social Skills and Calibrations:
Their limited ability to connect and incongruent body language make their interactions feel awkward or forced, further reducing their effectiveness.
What They Need to Improve
To break past the 20-point threshold, they need to address the following areas:
Fix Emotional Control:
Enroll in Elite Tonality Mastery to learn how to control emotions, slow down speech, and project confidence through tonality and body language.
Eliminating the -2.5 emotional control penalty alone would bring them to 22 points, putting them above the threshold.
Develop Social Calibrations:
Use Elite 30 to fix body language, improve tonality, and learn how to reduce cortisol in women through congruence.
Raising social calibrations from 1 to 2.5 would add another 1.5 points, further solidifying their success.
Learn Game Tactics:
Study the Elite Playbook to add 2.5 points for game, which would allow them to actively create attraction and handle objections.
Key Takeaways
This example shows that even with natural status advantages and clout-maxing, emotional control, social calibrations, and game are critical for success. Without these, they’re stuck at 19.5 points, just shy of the threshold.
The solution isn’t to keep stacking clout—it’s to focus on the areas that matter most:
Emotional Control: Fix the bottleneck that’s dragging everything else down.
Social Calibrations: Improve body language and tonality to create comfort and reduce cortisol.
Game: Learn tactics to actively spark and sustain attraction.
With these improvements, they can easily surpass the 20-point threshold and achieve consistent results in daygame.
The Chinese student who got 15 lays, 1 marriage, is a father now.
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This example highlights that even for someone starting with a perceived disadvantage (lower status for being Asian), it’s possible to succeed by focusing on balance and improving the areas that matter most. By reaching 20/35, this student achieved consistent results, including:
- 15 lays,
- 5 models,
- 5 white girls,
- 2 actresses,
- And marrying one of the actresses.
This demonstrates the power of the 20/35 system in identifying and addressing weaknesses to achieve success in daygame.
Breaking Down the Asian Student’s Score
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- Looks (7/10):
- With his upgraded fashion, whitewashed aesthetic, and consistently maintained hairstyle, his looks are improved to 7/10.
- Current Total: 7 points.
- Money (3/5):
- His “husband material” fashion and overall appearance give him the perception of financial stability, adding 3 points for money.
- Cumulative Total: 7 + 3 = 10 points.
- Status (11/10 for being Asian):
- As an Asian, his natural status starts lower (typically out of 10), but it’s boosted to 11 points due to his polished appearance and perceived value.
- Cumulative Total: 10 + 1 = 11 points.
- Social Skills (1.5/2.5):
- His social skills are decent, allowing him to engage women and keep conversations flowing. This adds 1.5 points to his score.
- Cumulative Total: 11 + 1.5 = 12.5 points.
- Social Calibrations (2/2.5 or 2.5/2.5):
- His body language is strong, likely due to consistent practice and attention to detail. Let’s assume he scores 2.5 points here.
- Cumulative Total: 12.5 + 2.5 = 15 points.
- Emotional Control (2.5/2.5):
- Because he practiced all the drills consistently, his emotional control is excellent. He’s calm, confident, and congruent, earning him the full 2.5 points in this category.
- Cumulative Total: 15 + 2.5 = 17.5 points.
- Game (2.5/2.5):
- His game tactics are fully developed, allowing him to spark and sustain attraction effectively. This adds the final 2.5 points to his score.
- Cumulative Total: 17.5 + 2.5 = 20 points.
Final Score: 20/35
The breakdown confirms that this Asian student achieved exactly 20 points, which is the threshold for consistent success in daygame. Here’s the summary:
- Looks: 7
- Money: 3
- Status: 1
- Social Skills: 1.5
- Social Calibrations: 2.5
- Emotional Control: 2.5
- Game: 2.5
- Total: 20/35
Why He Succeeded
- Balanced Scoring:
- He didn’t rely on just one area to carry him. Instead, he leveraged a combination of looks, emotional control, and game to reach the threshold.
- Consistent Practice:
- His high emotional control and social calibrations are a direct result of practicing drills and refining his approach over time.
- Game Mastery:
- His ability to execute game tactics effectively ensured that he could convert interactions into results.
4. Purplepill: The Money-Obsessed Mindset
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- The Purple Pill Calculation: Why Money Alone Fails
The Purple Pill Mindset is rooted in the belief that money is the ultimate solution to success with women. People stuck in this mindset think that by earning more money or flaunting wealth, women will automatically be attracted to them. But here’s the truth: money alone doesn’t work, especially in daygame. Women aren’t going to “jump on your dick” just because you’re rich. Let’s break this down mathematically to show why.
Purple Pill Calculation
Imagine someone who’s fully committed to the Money Pill mindset. They’ve prioritized making money but neglected other areas of personal development. Here’s how their score might look: - Looks (6/10):
They’re average in looks, and while they might dress decently, they haven’t made a significant effort to optimize their aesthetics.
Score: 6 points. - Money (4/5):
They’ve worked hard to earn money and present themselves as financially successful. This gives them 4 points for money.
Cumulative Total: 6 + 4 = 10 points. - Status (10/10 for being white):
If they’re white, they automatically get 10 points for perceived natural status. For other ethnicities, this score would be lower, but we’ll use the white advantage for this example.
Cumulative Total: 10 + 10 = 20 points. - Social Skills (0/2.5):
They’ve neglected their social skills because they rely entirely on money to attract women. They can’t hold engaging conversations or connect emotionally. This adds 0 points.
Cumulative Total: 20 + 0 = 20 points. - Social Calibrations (0/2.5):
Their body language and tonality are poor because they’ve never practiced or refined these areas. They come across as awkward or incongruent. This adds 0 points.
Cumulative Total: 20 + 0 = 20 points. - Emotional Control (-2.5/2.5):
They lack emotional control, often displaying nervousness, arrogance, or incongruence. This subtracts 2.5 points.
Cumulative Total: 20 – 2.5 = 17.5 points. - Game (0/2.5):
They haven’t developed any game tactics, so they can’t actively create or sustain attraction. This adds 0 points.
Final Total: 17.5 points.
Why the Purple Pill Fails
Even with 4/5 for money and the 10/10 status advantage for being white, the Purple Pill mindset still leaves them at 17.5 points, far below the 20-point threshold needed for consistent success in daygame. Here’s why this approach fails: - Money is a Passive Attractor:
Money might make women notice you, but it doesn’t actively create attraction. Women don’t care about how much money you have if you can’t make them feel something. Without social skills, calibrations, and game, money alone won’t convert attention into results. - Women Care About Perceived Wealth, Not Actual Wealth:
Many of my students don’t have much money, but they dress like they do. By adopting husband-material whitewashed fashion, they create the perception of financial stability without needing to actually be rich. This shows that perception matters more than reality when it comes to money in daygame. - No Skills, No Results:
The Purple Pill mindset ignores the importance of active skills like social skills, calibrations, and game. Without these, interactions feel shallow or forced, and women quickly lose interest. - Emotional Control is a Bottleneck:
Negative emotional control doesn’t just subtract points—it creates a ripple effect that undermines everything else. Women sense nervousness, incongruence, or arrogance, which kills attraction immediately. - Daygame is About Connection, Not Transactions:
Unlike nightgame or Tinder, where superficial attributes like money might play a bigger role, daygame is all about connection and skill. If you can’t connect emotionally or lead interactions effectively, money won’t help you.
The Key Takeaway: Skills Over Money
The Purple Pill mindset is fundamentally flawed because it overestimates the importance of money and underestimates the power of skills. Even if someone maxes out their money score, they still need to develop the following to succeed in daygame: - Social Skills:
Learn how to engage women, build rapport, and create emotional spikes. This is where Elite 30 comes in, teaching you how to hold meaningful conversations and connect on a deeper level. - Social Calibrations:
Fix your body language, tonality, and overall presence. These non-verbal cues are critical for reducing cortisol and making women feel comfortable around you. - Emotional Control:
Without emotional control, even high money and status won’t save you. Programs like Elite Tonality Mastery teach you how to stay calm, confident, and congruent in all interactions. - Game:
Develop the tactics needed to spark and sustain attraction. The Elite Playbook provides a structured approach to mastering game and handling objections effectively.
Why My Students Succeed Without Money
Many of my students don’t have much money, but they still achieve incredible results because they focus on perception and skills. By dressing like husband material and mastering social skills, calibrations, and game, they overcome their financial limitations and consistently get laid.
For example: - A student with low money but strong emotional control and game can easily outperform someone with high money but no skills.
Perceived wealth through fashion and grooming is often enough to create attraction, especially when combined with strong calibrations and emotional control.
Latino Student’s Score
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Now, let’s calculate the score for a Latino student based on your example. Since most latinos are poor, in debt, broke or without any money, or their ethnicity status score lowered down to 5 points:
- Status: 5/10 (Lower on the ethnicity scale due to societal biases.)
- Looks: 7/10 (Higher than average, but lacks the boost white students often get.)
- Money: 3/5 (Good fashion sense, but doesn’t look as rich as the white student.)
- Social Skills: 1/2.5 (Limited due to a one-track mind and inability to adapt.)
- Social Calibrations: 2/2.5 (Decent body language and tonality.)
- Emotional Control: 2/2.5 (Before inflation, their emotions were stable, adding points here.)
- Game: 2.5/2.5 (Strong game tactics, especially for same-day lays.)
Total Score:
- Status (5) + Looks (7) + Money (3) + Social Skills (1) + Social Calibrations (2) + Emotional Control (2) + Game (2.5) = 22.5 points.
This score is also above the 20-point threshold, meaning the Latino student can succeed in daygame. However, their status disadvantage requires them to compensate by excelling in looks, emotional control, and game tactics.
Impact of Emotional Control
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Now, let’s examine what happens if the Latino student’s emotional control drops due to stress, cortisol, or the inability to adapt during inflation or the tariff era.
If their emotional control drops to 0 or -2.5, here’s how it affects the score:
- Emotional Control: -2.5 (Instead of 2)
- Adjusted Total: 22.5 – 2.5 = 20 points (Just barely meeting the threshold.)
When emotional control is negative, it doesn’t just subtract points—it also impacts social skills and social calibrations. For example:
- Social Skills: May drop from 1 to 0 because they can’t think clearly or adapt in real time.
- Social Calibrations: May drop from 2 to 1 because their body language and tonality become incongruent due to stress.
Revised Total Score with Negative Emotional Control:
- Status (5) + Looks (7) + Money (3) + Social Skills (0) + Social Calibrations (1) + Emotional Control (-2.5) + Game (2.5) = 17 points.
Now, the Latino student falls below the threshold of 20 points, making it much harder for them to succeed. This demonstrates how critical emotional control is—not just as a standalone factor, but because it influences other areas like social skills and calibrations.
5. Ethnicity and Status: Why It’s Even Harder for Some Groups
- “Now let’s talk about status based on ethnicity. White men might start at 10/10 for status, but Asians are at 1/10, Indians are at 2/10, whitewashed Indians are at 4/10, Latinos are at 5/10, and confident Black men might be at 8/10. Even if you’re a confident, whitewashed Black man, the math still doesn’t work without emotional control, social skills, and social calibrations.”
6. The Emotional Bottleneck: Why You Can’t Ignore It
- “The real bottleneck is emotional control. This is the only category in the 20/35 system that can go negative, and it’s why so many guys fail. If your emotional control is at -2.5, you’re starting at a disadvantage. Even if you max out your looks, money, and status, you’ll still fall short.”
- “Elite Tonality Mastery, part of the Elite Bundle Resurrections, is the solution to this problem. It helps you go from -2.5 to +2.5, giving you a 5-point swing and putting you above the 20-point threshold.”
The PUA Pill Mindset: The Game-Only Trap
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The PUA Pill is the belief that game alone is enough to succeed with women. Pickup artists who follow this mindset think that if they can learn enough lines, routines, and tactics, they don’t need to focus on other areas like looks, money, status, or emotional control. On the surface, this might seem logical—after all, game is an active skill that can spark attraction. But in reality, the PUA Pill is deeply flawed because game alone isn’t enough, especially in 2025, where optics, social proof, and emotional control play a much bigger role.
Let’s break down the math for a typical PUA Pill follower and see why they fall short.
PUA Pill Calculation
Here’s the breakdown for a white PUA follower who relies almost entirely on game but neglects other critical areas:
- Looks (8/10):
- He’s decent-looking, with a good face, average height, and no major flaws. This gives him 8 points for looks.
- Cumulative Total: 8 points.
- Money (0/5):
- He dresses terribly, doesn’t signal wealth, and doesn’t present himself as financially stable. This gives him 0 points for money.
- Cumulative Total: 8 + 0 = 8 points.
- Status (10/10 for being white):
- As a white individual, he automatically gets 10 points for perceived natural status.
- Cumulative Total: 8 + 10 = 18 points.
- Social Skills (0/2.5):
- His social skills are nonexistent because he relies on the zombie flow drill—a flawed approach where he makes statements, asks questions, and gets short answers without creating investment or emotional engagement. This adds 0 points.
- Cumulative Total: 18 + 0 = 18 points.
- Social Calibrations (1/2.5):
- His body language is deteriorating due to stress, cortisol, and poor posture. While he has some basic awareness, it’s not enough to create comfort or reduce women’s cortisol. This adds 1 point.
- Cumulative Total: 18 + 1 = 19 points.
- Emotional Control (-2.5/2.5):
- His emotional control is poor, likely due to frustration, stress, and lack of tonality mastery. He’s unconfident, his tonality is weak, and his words lack conviction. This subtracts 2.5 points.
- Cumulative Total: 19 – 2.5 = 16.5 points.
- Game (1/2.5):
- While he has some basic game tactics, they’re not enough to overcome his lack of social skills, calibrations, and emotional control. This adds 1 point.
- Final Total: 16.5 points.
Why the PUA Pill Fails
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Even with a decent starting point (8 for looks and 10 for status), the PUA Pill follower still falls far below the 20-point threshold, ending with 16.5 points. Here’s why this mindset fails:
- Game Alone Isn’t Enough:
- Game is only worth 2.5 points in the 20/35 system. Even if you max out your game score, it won’t compensate for weaknesses in other areas like emotional control, social skills, and calibrations.
- No Emotional Control = No Results:
- Emotional control is the foundation for everything else. Without it, even strong looks and status won’t save you. Women pick up on nervousness, incongruence, or arrogance immediately, which kills attraction.
- Zombie Flow Drill is Ineffective:
- The zombie flow drill is a flawed approach that leads to short, dead-end conversations. Without a proper social skills flow drill, he can’t create investment or emotional engagement, making his interactions feel robotic and forced.
- Social Calibrations are Critical:
- Poor body language, weak tonality, and incongruent behavior create discomfort and raise women’s cortisol. Without strong social calibrations, even good looks and status are wasted.
- Optics Don’t Equal Results:
- Many PUA coaches rely on optics—standing next to women, taking photos, and creating the appearance of success. But optics don’t translate to real results. Most PUA coaches can’t take women from open to sex consistently, especially in daygame.
Why Other Pills Score Slightly Higher
You mentioned that other pills (like Redpill or Purple Pill) might score 1-2 points higher than PUA Pill followers. This makes sense because those mindsets at least focus on status or money, which can passively boost their score. However, they still fail to reach the 20-point threshold because they neglect critical skills like emotional control, social calibrations, and game.
For example:
- A Purple Pill follower might score 17.5 points because they max out their money score but lack skills.
- A Redpill follower might score 19.5 points by leveraging clout and status-maxing but still fall short without emotional control or game.
The PUA Pill, however, scores even lower because it relies entirely on game, which is only worth 2.5 points at most.
The Solution: Elite Tonality Mastery
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As you mentioned, the only way to stop the bleeding is to fix the bottleneck: emotional control. Without emotional control, it’s impossible to develop strong social skills, calibrations, or game. Programs like Elite Tonality Mastery teach students how to:
- Control their emotions and project confidence through tonality.
- Improve their body language and reduce women’s cortisol.
- Speak with conviction and congruence, creating attraction naturally.
By fixing emotional control, even a PUA Pill follower can start to climb out of the 16.5-point range and build a more balanced skill set.
Closing Thoughts
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The PUA Pill mindset is deeply flawed because it overestimates the importance of game while neglecting other critical areas like emotional control, social skills, and calibrations. Even with strong looks and status, a PUA Pill follower will fall far below the 20-point threshold, as shown in the calculation above.
Here’s the harsh reality: If even a white person, with their natural 10/10 status advantage, struggles with the PUA Pill mindset, then as an Asian or Indian, your challenges are even greater. Without developing the critical skill set of social skills, social calibrations, and emotional control, you’re doomed to fall well below the threshold.
To succeed, you must raise these areas by at least 7.5 points. Combine this with the whitewashed husband material fashion, which enhances your perceived value without needing actual wealth. This combination is not optional—it’s essential. Without it, you have no chance of breaking past the 20/35 threshold and achieving consistent results in daygame.
Programs like Elite Tonality Mastery and Elite 30 are specifically designed to help you develop emotional control, social calibrations, and social skills—the core areas that will transform your results. And, of course, both of these programs are included in the Elite Bundle Resurrections, which is the ultimate solution for those serious about succeeding in daygame.
In fact, someone has already upgraded to Elite Bundle Resurrections, and you can too—just pay the difference from whatever program you had before. A Canadian student is about to upgrade as soon as possible, and a London student has already gotten laid thanks to the last five-day challenge. Why waste time struggling with outdated mindsets when the solution is right in front of you?
If you’re serious about transforming your results, stop relying on flawed ideologies like the PUA Pill and start building the skills that truly matter. Because at the end of the day, success in daygame isn’t about playing a numbers game or relying on optics—it’s about mastering the skills that make you genuinely attractive.
The Jewish White Student: A Case Study in Mastering Daygame
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This example perfectly illustrates why skills trump passive attributes like looks, height, or race, and why outdated methods from other dating coaches simply don’t work for daygame. His journey demonstrates how mastering social skills, social calibrations, and emotional control through my bootcamp can lead to unparalleled success.
The Problem with Other Dating Coaches
My Jewish white student initially attended a white dating coach’s bootcamp that focused on night game. While he managed to close during night game (where the threshold is only 15/35), he struggled with daygame, which requires a much higher threshold of 20/35. Here’s why the other coach’s methods failed him:
- Direct Compliments Don’t Work in Daygame:
Direct compliments reveal your intentions immediately, forcing women to judge you purely on your appearance. If they don’t find you attractive enough, they’ll reject you on the spot. This approach also raises women’s cortisol levels because it feels uncalibrated and unnatural in a daytime setting. - Number Collecting Leads to Flakes:
Collecting phone numbers without creating emotional investment or connection is ineffective. Numbers mean nothing if the interaction wasn’t strong enough to make her want to meet you again. - Outdated Mystery Method Tactics:
Techniques like DHV (Demonstrating Higher Value) stories, 10-hour watch times, and multi-date strategies are inefficient and outdated. They rely on gimmicks rather than genuine connection and active skills. - No Focus on Core Skills:
The white dating coach didn’t teach him the critical skills of social skills, social calibrations, and emotional control. Without these, he couldn’t navigate the nuanced and dynamic nature of daygame.
Why He Succeeded in My Elite Bundle 2 Training.
When he joined my bootcamp, everything changed. He went from struggling in daygame to becoming one of my most successful students, achieving 20 lays, including 5 lays in 5 days, and eventually transitioning into a meaningful relationship with a Ukrainian woman. Here’s why my system worked:
1. Drills and Repetition
He did more drills than any other student in 2024, allowing him to internalize the skills and execute them effortlessly.
- Body Language Drills: He mastered the 45-degree angle positioning to reduce women’s cortisol and create comfort.
- Whitewashed Tonality: He perfected his tonality by slowing it down, making it more congruent and attractive.
- Social Skills Flow Drill: He learned how to create emotional investment and engagement on the fly, avoiding the zombie flow drill of statements and questions that lead to short answers.
2. Arrow Science
My Arrow Science system taught him how to:
- Maneuver: Lead interactions effectively and stay on the line.
- Sexualize: Create sexual tension without being creepy or uncalibrated.
- Objection Looping: Handle resistance and objections seamlessly.
These techniques allowed him to consistently achieve same-day lays, something most white dating coaches claim is impossible unless you’re in low-value countries like Colombia.
3. Mastering the First Principles
He focused on the core fundamentals of daygame:
- Social Skills: He could engage women effortlessly, creating emotional spikes and investment.
- Social Calibrations: His body language and tonality were on point, making women feel comfortable and attracted.
- Emotional Control: He stayed calm and congruent in all interactions, eliminating the signals that turn women off.
These skills gave him an additional 7.5 points, pushing him well over the 20-point threshold.
4. Rejecting Outdated Methods
He avoided direct compliments, DHV stories, and other ineffective tactics. Instead, he used my hybrid opener and focused on creating genuine connections.
This allowed him to stand out and achieve results that white dating coaches simply can’t replicate.
The Importance of Consistency
One of the key lessons from his journey is the importance of consistent practice. When he stopped practicing for four months, his skills deteriorated, and his results dropped significantly. He got three residual lays from his previous training, but after that, he couldn’t get laid until he returned to refine his skills. This proves that:
- Daygame is a skill-based activity.
- Without consistent practice, even the best-trained students will see their results decline.
Why Other Coaches Fail
Most white dating coaches rely on optics to market their programs. They stand next to women, take photos, and create the illusion of success. But as I’ve pointed out, they can’t take women from open to sex in daygame. Their interactions usually end in a cab or fizzle out entirely because they lack the skills to close. Optics might sell bootcamps, but they don’t produce real results for students.
Key Lessons from My Jewish Student
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- Skills Beat Passive Attributes:
Even though he’s tall and white, his success didn’t come from his appearance. It came from mastering the first principles of social skills, calibrations, and emotional control. - Daygame Requires a Higher Threshold:
Unlike night game (15/35) or Tinder (12/35), daygame requires a 20/35 score to succeed. This means you can’t rely on looks or status alone—you need skills to bridge the gap. - The Hybrid Opener and Arrow Science Work:
My system of maneuvering, sexualizing, and objection looping is far superior to outdated methods like direct compliments or number collecting. - Consistency is Key:
Daygame is a skill that requires ongoing practice. Even the best students will lose their edge if they stop training.
Closing Thoughts
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This example proves that success in daygame isn’t about passive attributes like looks, height, or race—it’s about skills. Even someone with natural advantages, like my Jewish white student, couldn’t succeed in daygame until he mastered the first principles of social skills, calibrations, and emotional control through my bootcamp.
If you’re serious about transforming your results, programs like Elite Tonality Mastery and Elite 30 are designed to help you build these critical skills. And, of course, both of these programs are included in the Elite Bundle Resurrections, which is the ultimate solution for daygame success.
In fact, students are already upgrading to Elite Bundle Resurrections—just pay the difference from your previous program. A Canadian student is upgrading as soon as possible, and a London student recently got laid thanks to the last five-day challenge. Why waste time struggling with outdated methods when my bootcamp and programs are right here?
Because at the end of the day, success in daygame isn’t about playing a numbers game or relying on optics—it’s about mastering the skills that make you genuinely attractive.
The Emotional Bottleneck: Why There’s No Way Around It
We’ve already gone over all the variables, boiled them down to first principles, and analyzed the math. Let’s be real—there’s no way to consistently succeed in daygame without mastering the first principles of social skills, social calibrations, and emotional control. Without these, you’re relying entirely on luck or a mass numbers game, which only leads to flakey numbers or unattractive women at best.
The First Principles and Why Luck Isn’t a Strategy
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- Looks, Money, and Status Aren’t Enough:
Even if you max out your looks, money, and status, the math still doesn’t work. Why? Because emotional control is the only category in the 20/35 system that can go negative. Without fixing it, it drags down every other category. You’ll come off as nervous, incongruent, or stressed, raising women’s cortisol and killing attraction instantly. - The Direct Approach Fails in Daygame:
Going direct might work for unattractive women or in low-value countries, but in a high-pressure environment like daygame, it’s a losing strategy. Direct compliments reveal your intentions too early, forcing women to judge you solely on your appearance. If you don’t meet their standards, you’re instantly rejected. - Numbers Games Are Ineffective:
Collecting numbers without emotional investment or connection is pointless. Most of those numbers will flake because the interaction wasn’t strong enough to make her want to meet you again. This is why relying on sheer volume doesn’t work—it’s inefficient and demoralizing. - Outdated Methods Don’t Address the Real Problem:
Methods like the Mystery Method or RSD rely on gimmicks like DHV stories or routines, which don’t hold up in today’s environment. These tactics don’t fix the core issues of emotional control, social skills, or calibrations—they’re just distractions that waste your time.
The Harsh Truth: There’s No Workable Calculation Without Emotional Control
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We’ve broken down every possible scenario, and the conclusion is clear: there’s no workable calculation for consistent daygame success unless you master emotional control. Without it, even the best looks, money, or status won’t save you. Emotional control is the foundation—it’s what allows you to:
- Slow down your speech and project calm confidence.
- Mask anxiety, nervousness, or root-rotting behavior.
- Reduce women’s cortisol and make them feel comfortable around you.
Without emotional control, you’re stuck in a cycle of rejection, frustration, and wasted effort. And the only way to master it is through Elite Tonality Mastery, which is included in the Elite Bundle Resurrections.
How Elite Tonality Mastery Fixes the Bottleneck
- “Elite Tonality Mastery, part of the Elite Bundle Resurrections, is the solution to this problem. It takes you from -2.5 to +2.5, giving you a 5-point swing. Without this, you have no chance.”
7. Social Calibration: Why Elite 30 is Essential
- “Once you’ve fixed your emotional control, the next step is social calibration. This is where Elite 30 comes in. It’s a 30-day challenge designed to fix your body language, eye contact, and non-verbal communication.”
- “For example, standing at a 45-degree angle reduces cortisol and makes women feel more comfortable. Squaring off creates tension and turns daygame into a numbers game.”
- “Social calibration is worth 2.5 points, and without it, you’ll be stuck.”
8. Social Skills: Why You Need the Flow Drill
- “The final piece is social skills. This is what allows you to flow naturally in conversations, build rapport, and create attraction. Without this, you’ll come across as robotic or awkward.”
- “The flow drill, part of Elite Access, teaches you how to structure interactions to get women talking more. It’s not about making random statements or asking short-answer questions. It’s about creating a natural flow that keeps the conversation alive.”
9. Call to Action: Stop the Bleeding and Fix Your Emotions
- “If you want to stop the bleeding and fix your emotions, Elite Tonality Mastery is the foundation. It’s a 21-day challenge that teaches you how to slow down your speech, eliminate pauses, and adopt a whitewashed tonality that reduces xenophobia and fear in women.”
- “Once you’ve mastered emotional control, Elite 30 and the flow drill will help you build social calibration and social skills. These are the building blocks of success in daygame.”
10. The Elite Bundle Resurrections and Golden Ticket
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Elite Bundle Resurrections – Stop the Bleeding Before It’s Too Late
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This is your chance to join Elite Bundle Resurrections, the most comprehensive and proven daygame system ever created, backed by 661 laid and pulled testimonials. For today only, you can get the entire bundle for just $935—a price you will never see again. In the future, the price will go up significantly, reaching $1,200 or even $1,400.
If you don’t take action now, you’re setting yourself up for failure. The summer is coming, and if you don’t start approaching now, you’re going to experience more cortisol buildup. That cortisol will create an accumulative effect, leaving you stuck in a downward spiral. The longer you wait, the harder it will be to come back. You’ll rot further, stop approaching altogether, and eventually turn into another MGTOW statistic.
This is your moment to stop the bleeding and break free from the cycle of inaction.
Why Elite Bundle Resurrections is the Only Solution
- The Most Comprehensive Daygame System:
- Elite Bundle Resurrections includes everything you need to master the first principles of daygame: social skills, social calibrations, and emotional control. These are the skills that unlock consistent results, no matter your looks, money, or status.
- Elite Tonality Mastery:
- Fix the emotional bottleneck that holds most men back. Learn how to slow down your speech, project confidence, and bypass women’s defenses. Without this, the math doesn’t work—you’re stuck relying on luck or playing a losing numbers game.
- Proven Success:
- With 661 testimonials, this isn’t just theory—it’s a system that has already transformed lives. Students who follow the system see results, including same-day lays, building rotations, and finding high-value girlfriends.
- Today’s Price is Temporary:
- At $935, this is the lowest price you’ll see for Elite Bundle Resurrections. The price will always go up in the future, and I might even remove the Golden Ticket entirely. If you wait, you’ll pay more—if it’s even still available.
The Golden Ticket: A $5 Opportunity for the Resilient
If you can’t afford the full Elite Bundle Resurrections today, I’m offering the Golden Ticket as a last resort. For just $5, you’ll:
- Receive a choice between the Elite Daygame: First Steps booklet or a budgeting guide to help you prepare.
- Lock in a future discount for Elite Bundle Resurrections, even when the price rises to $1,200 or $1,400.
Let me be clear: If you don’t have the Golden Ticket, you’ll pay full price in the future.
Why You Need to Act Now
- The Summer is Here:
- If you don’t start approaching now, the cortisol buildup will rot you further. The longer you wait, the harder it becomes to come back. You’ll stop approaching, and eventually, you’ll quit entirely, turning into a MGTOW statistic.
- $935 is Temporary:
- This price is for today only. After this, the price goes up, and you’ll never see it this low again.
- The Future Price Will Be Higher:
- The price for Elite Bundle Resurrections will rise to $1,200 or $1,400 soon. Without the Golden Ticket, you’ll pay full price.
- No More Excuses:
- If you’re not rotting and have the resilience to approach, this is your chance to join. Whether you invest in the full bundle today or start with the Golden Ticket, you’re taking a step toward transforming your results.
The Final Call
Elite Bundle Resurrections is your solution to mastering daygame, achieving consistent success, and building the life you want. For $935, you’re getting the most comprehensive system on the market, and this price won’t last.
If you can’t afford the full bundle today, the Golden Ticket is your way in for just $5. It’s a small investment that locks in future savings and ensures you’ll never pay full price.
Don’t wait until the price skyrockets or the opportunity disappears. Act now. This is your moment to take control of your future.
Click below to secure your spot or grab your Golden Ticket. The choice is yours—but time is running out.
-John Elite
World's BEST Daygame Coach with 672 Laid/Pull Testimonials. More Than Every Daygame Coach In The World Combined 