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Why Tonality is the Key to Turning Women On and Getting Laid
You’re not getting rejected because of your looks, height, your lack of money, or your status for race. it’s your voice that’s turning her off.
Think you need a better jawline? Nah. You need better tonality mixed with body language.
Imagine holding a remote controller that determines how women see, feel, and respond to you. With the right settings, you can make her feel safe, intrigued, and aroused. She’ll lean in, intrigued by your presence, and subconsciously feel a pull toward you.
But if your settings are scrambled—if cortisol floods your system, your words rush out like an auctioneer’s, and your body language is stiff or awkward—you’re unknowingly turning her off. She feels dry, irritated, and subconsciously thinks, “This guy isn’t worth my time.”
You would show a lack of survival value and have bad genes to procreate with.
This is the power of tonality. It’s not just about what you say—it’s about how you make her feel through the energy behind your words. Women don’t consciously analyze your tone; they feel it.
If your tonality is off, you’re signaling low value, which instantly repels her. She won’t just feel indifferent—she’ll feel actively turned off, dry, and maybe even annoyed by your presence. It would raise red flags that you don’t have good genes and shouldn’t procreate with you even if you are good looking.
But when your tonality is aligned, confident, and controlled, it flips the switch. Suddenly, she’s hooked. She feels safe, intrigued, and turned on by every word you say. This is why mastering tonality is the foundation of attraction. It allows you to bypass her defenses, mask your weaknesses, and make her perceive you as someone worth her time and attention.
This is where Elite 30 and Elite Tonality Mastery come in. These two programs work together to fix the Loser Effect and build the congruency you need to turn women on instead of turning them off.
Real-Life Example: The Good looking Swedish High School Student In the US, Who had root rotting and was a high cortisol zombie.
Let me tell you about one of my students.
He was a high school student in the United States, though he was older by one year.
He was Swedish and had all the traits you’d think would make him successful with women.
After I got my hair cut, he did too, adopting the same pompadour fade hairstyle that my students use.
This haircut completely transformed his look and made him seem more polished and attractive.
He also started wearing blazers, chinos, and brown dress shoes, following the same style guidelines I recommend to all my students.
These changes made him look better to everyone around him.
He appeared more confident, more put-together, and more like “husband material.”
On top of that, he got big muscles from following a V-shaped workout plan.
He was tall too—around 6’2”.
With all these advantages, you’d think he’d dominate socially.
But despite his good looks, height, and muscles, he was completely stuck.
He had so much cortisol running through his system that it sabotaged everything.
This guy was a genius with a photographic memory.
He could remember every detail of what I taught him, but he didn’t know how to use it.
Every time I taught him something new, he looked distressed.
When he spoke, he sighed at the end of every sentence.
This sighing is a classic sign of too much cortisol.
It’s something I see often in Latinos today, especially those dealing with poverty.
But for him, this was during the pandemic, and he wasn’t poor—he just couldn’t handle the stress.
Whenever he stood next to women—or in his case, girls—he would freak out.
Even when he took a picture with a girl, he looked like he was about to be executed.
I had to photoshop his face to give him a smile.
That’s how much cortisol was controlling him.
His tonality was completely off.
Every sentence he spoke ended with a sigh, making him sound depressed.
Even if a girl initially liked him, his tonality would turn her off.
She’d go from hot to warm, and then cold, losing all interest.
His body language wasn’t helping either.
He would freeze up completely, looking stiff and unnatural.
In a way, it was like he was turning into a zombie.
This is the reality of too much cortisol.
Even if you’re good-looking, tall, and muscular, cortisol can ruin everything.
Women see these traits—sighing, stiffness, awkward tonality—as red flags.
To them, it signals bad genes, even if you’re physically attractive.
But here’s the turning point in his story.
He did eventually lose his virginity to a high school girl.
It happened outside in the bleachers area of the baseball field.
He was pretending to go for a walk or a run with his host family, but he made his move.
Before that, he had to go through an intense transformation.
He learned from many different programs, starting with Kaizen, to reduce the fear in his body language.
Kaizen helped him relax his posture, making him look less stiff and more natural.
He was also part of Elite Access, where he did a lot of drills and exercises to calm his nerves.
I gave him constant feedback on his infield analysis to refine his approach.
One of the biggest breakthroughs was hiding the sighing at the end of his sentences.
This made him sound less depressed and more confident.
If he hadn’t worked on relaxing his body language and improving his tonality, he wouldn’t have lost his virginity.
Of course, he still used the Arrow Science method I teach.
At first, he got a blowjob, which helped sexualize the interaction.
He had to deal with sexual objections, which I taught him how to handle.
He looped through the objections using win-win scenarios and disqualifications.
He maneuvered the interaction to the bleachers area, where he sexualized it again.
By dealing with the objections and staying congruent, he finally lost his virginity.
But if you listen to his voice in the testimonial, you can still hear the struggle.
It sounds very depressed, even after his success.
This shows how deep cortisol can run and why tonality is so important.
This is why Elite 30 and Elite Tonality Mastery are so important.
Together, they create the foundation for masking these flaws.
Elite 30 fixes your body language, helping you project confidence and alignment. Even though he took Kaizen, but still it was similar to Elite 30, but on steroids.
Elite Tonality Mastery trains your voice and emotional control, so you sound confident and relaxed.
When you combine these two programs, you can hide these red flags.
You can overcome the Loser Effect, even if cortisol is trying to sabotage you.
Here’s a video testimonial from this student.
Let’s listen to his voice and see how tonality was impacting him.
Root Rotting: From Human to Zombie
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Let’s dive deeper into why tonality is so powerful and why most men fail to use it effectively. It all comes down to what I call root rotting.
Root rotting is when unresolved emotional issues, low self-esteem, and stress eat away at your foundation. Over time, this leads to a transformation from human to half-human, half-zombie, and eventually to full zombie mode.
Here’s what that transformation looks like:
- Human (Congruent): At this stage, you’re aligned. Your facial expressions are natural and confident, your body language is relaxed and calibrated, and your tonality projects control and value. Women feel safe and drawn to you because you’re congruent. This is the result of mastering Elite 30 for body language and Elite Tonality Mastery for emotional control and tonality.
- Half-Human, Half-Zombie (Incongruent): As cortisol levels rise, your congruency starts to break down. Your facial expressions become stiff or awkward, your body language feels forced, and your tonality starts to sound rushed or monotone. Women pick up on this and feel uneasy, even if they can’t explain why.
- Zombie (Fully Incongruent): When cortisol completely takes over, you lose all congruency. Your facial expressions become blank or creepy, your body language is rigid or unnatural, and your tonality is rushed, monotone, or angry. At this stage, you’re repelling women without even realizing it.
This transformation happens because cortisol scrambles the remote controller. Instead of projecting confidence and congruency, you’re sending out signals of stress, insecurity, and low value. Women subconsciously associate these signals with bad genes and poor survival value, which is why they feel repelled.
The Remote Controller: How Congruency Works
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Congruency is the foundation of attraction. It’s like a remote controller that creates a ripple effect through your entire presence. When your facial expressions, body language, state of mind, tonality, and words are aligned, you’re in control. Here’s how it works:
- Your Emotional State Changes:
Your facial expressions and body language send signals to your brain, shifting your emotional state. For example, when you smile naturally and stand tall (skills you learn in Elite 30), your brain interprets these actions as confidence, which makes you feel more confident internally. - Your Tonality Changes:
As your emotional state improves, your tonality naturally becomes more aligned. This is where Elite Tonality Mastery comes in. It trains you to project a tone that’s deliberate, controlled, and confident. When your tone matches your intent, women feel safe, intrigued, and aroused. - Your Words Improve:
When your tonality is aligned, your words flow naturally. You stop relying on scripts or overthinking what to say because your mindset and emotions are guiding you in real time. This is the final layer of congruency, where your Elite 30 social calibrations and Elite Tonality Mastery skills combine to create a complete, confident presence.
When your remote controller is working properly, you’re projecting congruency, which women find irresistible. It’s not just about what you say—it’s about how you say it. Your tone, expressions, and body language create an emotional experience that draws her in and makes her want to be around you.
The Zombie Effect: Incongruency at Its Worst
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Now let’s look at what happens when your remote controller is scrambled by cortisol and you’re stuck in the Loser Effect:
- Facial Expressions: Your face becomes stiff, blank, or awkward. Instead of projecting confidence, you look nervous, disengaged, or even creepy. This is why Elite Tonality Mastery focuses on training your facial expressions to project confidence and alignment.
- Body Language: You forget to maintain a natural 45-degree stance, and your movements become rigid or unnatural. This lack of fluidity makes women feel uncomfortable and put off. Elite 30 teaches you how to calibrate your body language to appear relaxed and confident.
- State of Mind: Cortisol puts you in a stressed, anxious state, which makes it impossible to project confidence. Instead of feeling calm and in control, you’re stuck in fight-or-flight mode.
- Tonality: Your tone becomes rushed, monotone, or incongruent. You might sound like an auctioneer, talking too fast and overwhelming her, or like a robot, lacking emotional depth and connection. Elite Tonality Mastery helps you fix this by training you to sound deliberate, calm, and engaging.
- Words: Because your tonality is off, even the best words won’t land. Women feel the disconnect between your tone and your message, which makes you seem fake or unsure.
This is why incongruency is so damaging. Women don’t consciously analyze your tone or body language—they feel it. And when they feel that something is off, they’re turned off before you even have a chance to connect.
Why Congruency is King
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Congruency isn’t just important—it’s everything. It’s the foundation of attraction, the secret to bypassing women’s defenses, and the key to making them feel aroused. When you’re congruent:
- Women feel safe around you.
- Your tone draws them in and makes them wet.
- Your words resonate because they’re backed by confidence and intent.
But when you’re incongruent, you’re unknowingly turning women off all the time. Your facial expressions, body language, and tone betray you, signaling low value and making women feel dry and irritated.
The good news is, you have control over this. With the right training—Elite 30 for body language and social calibrations, and Elite Tonality Mastery for emotional control and tonality—you can fix the root issues, mask the Loser Effect, and start turning women on instead of turning them off.
How Tonality Transforms You from Loser to Winner
The Loser Effect: How Cortisol Destroys Your Tonality
Cortisol, the stress hormone, is your worst enemy when it comes to tonality.
It affects your voice, your facial expressions, and even your hormones, making you stressed out.
This stress causes you to talk faster, ruining your chances, even if you look like a model.
When you have tonal issues, women subconsciously see it as a sign of bad genes.
Here’s how the Loser Effect shows up in your tonality:
Rushed, Fast Speech:
You sound like an auctioneer, trying to spit out words before you lose your nerve.
Most low-value men believe they need to speak faster to avoid being interrupted.
They think if they don’t get the words in quickly, she’ll cut them off, and they’ll lose control.
But in reality, the opposite is true.
Speaking faster makes you seem anxious, desperate, and low value.
Monotone Delivery:
Your voice lacks emotional depth, which makes women feel bored and disconnected.
This monotone pattern is common among men with Asperger’s Syndrome.
They are emotionally disconnected, and this carries over into their tonality.
Excessive Pauses:
Overthinking causes awkward pauses in your speech.
These pauses happen because your left brain and right brain are struggling to communicate.
In people with Asperger’s, the corpus callosum—the bridge between the two sides of the brain—is weak.
This weak signal causes a delay, making you pause awkwardly and seem slow.
Sighing at the End of Sentences:
This is a sign of depression and low survival value.
It’s common among men impacted by the economy, tariffs, or financial stress.
Many Latino students exhibit this issue, often without realizing it.
They’ll tell you they can’t feel or hear the mistake because they are delusional.
Incongruence Between Words and Tone:
When your tone doesn’t match your words, you come across as fake or unsure.
For example, your facial expressions might be super fake, with a teary-eyed look.
This is common in people with alexithymia, or emotional blindness.
They don’t know how to move their face naturally, so they compensate with a fake smile.
The result is a mismatch that women feel instantly, and they’re turned off.
Angry or Stressed Tones:
These tones reveal mental trauma and a lot of anger in your genes.
Men with these tonalities often don’t realize they have a temper.
This creates a negative, aggressive vibe that repels women.
It’s also a sign of cortisol or adrenaline taking over your system.
Instead of confidence, you’re stuck in fight mode, which goes against the remote controller concept of being calm and positive.
With training, you can overcome all these tonal issues.
The Elite Bundle Resurrections includes drills to fix these problems one by one.
- The Winner Effect: How Tonality Builds Attraction
Let me tell you about one of my students.
He was German, 55 year old 5’7”, ugly, fat and bald. Don’t worry, he doesn’t mind me saying that because it is true.
This is one of those students who shits all over black pill for looks.
He had all the effects of the Loser Effect: fast speech, monotone delivery, excessive pauses, and more.
But over time, he transformed into the Winner Effect by fixing his tonality and body language.
When he trained with me in Kaizen, his transformation began.
Kaizen is like the body language training in Elite 30, but on steroids.
It focuses on social calibrations, helping students project confidence through their posture and movements.
At first, his speech was rushed and chaotic, especially in German.
He spoke so fast, rolling his syllables everywhere, that it sounded like an auctioneer times two.
He had to learn to slow down and speak more deliberately.
When he practiced in English, he was able to slow his speech and sound more controlled.
But when he switched back to German, the fast speech came back, and he struggled again.
Over time, with consistent practice, he developed a whitewashed tonality—calm, steady, and emotionally engaging.
This tonality replaced the monotone delivery that made him seem disconnected.
He also worked on removing pauses from his speech.
Because of his Asperger’s, his brain would pause too often, making him seem slow.
Through drills and feedback, he learned to eliminate these pauses and speak smoothly.
His facial expressions became more congruent as well.
He learned to match his tone with his words, projecting confidence and authenticity.
This transformation made him appear much more attractive, even though he was only a 3 out of 10 in looks.
- The Results: From Zombie to Winner
During the second day of his training challenge as I was writing this script, he shared a picture of one of the women he slept with on May the 2nd 2025.
She was a 10 out of 10 in his opinion, though I’d say she was more like a 9 out of 10.
Most likely more attractive than any woman anyone in Germany has slept with.
Even dating coaches.
This was last year in 2024 when he rejoined my coaching after failing with another white coach going direct.
Direct game won’t work with a low SMV bald ugly german who is short.
Of course he wears my fashion of all my students and the same watch so of course it works.
She had blonde hair and looked like a younger version of Megan Fox.
Even though she was in her 40s, she was incredibly attractive and out of his league.
He also slept with a 21-year-old, a 25-year-old, and another 21-year-old a few years back from there.
One of these women was Middle Eastern and looked like a Latina—an 8 out of 10.
At first she didn’t sleep with him, he pulled her home after I kicked him out of another program.
He bought Elite Playbook and I said he can only use the Skypes if he pulled a woman home.
He did with her.
You see, game alone isn’t enough for a 5’7 bald german.
He later asked if he can train in Kaizen again even if he thought I would say no.
In the first week he had sex with a 21 year old 8.5/10 german woman.
This one was 6 weeks into the program, and he had sex with another, which was this woman again who was middle eastern.
She was super attracted to him the second time with his new updated training, despite his low SMV (sexual market value).
During his second lay, the 25-year-old woman noticed how much he had changed.
She told him, “You talk slower than before,” as if it was disconcerting to her.
He tried to prove me wrong, saying, “See, she found it weird.”
I told him, “Did she fuck you?”
He paused and realized that yes, she did have sex with him.
That’s when he said, “Yes, sir,” like a soldier acknowledging his mistake.
This shows that even though he wasn’t good-looking, his tonality and body language made all the difference.
By correcting these issues, he was able to attract women who were much more attractive than him.
This German student’s transformation proves that tonality and body language are the keys to success.
Even if you’re not tall, rich, or good-looking, fixing these issues can make you appear high value.
The Elite Bundle Resurrections gives you the tools to fix your tonality, body language, and congruency.
With consistent practice, you can go from the Loser Effect to the Winner Effect, just like this student did.
This raises your 20/35, which social calibrations is 2.5 points
Emotional control is also 2.5 points.
He wasn’t perfect with the social skills flow drill. Which as 1 point at best.
But every point matters as he was able to mask his aspergers.
Tonality as a Remote Controller
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Your tonality is more than just the sound of your voice—it’s a remote controller that influences your emotional state, your mindset, and ultimately, how women perceive you.
When used correctly, it creates the Winner Effect, allowing you to bypass women’s defenses and project confidence, even if you don’t feel it yet.
Here’s how it works:
Facial Expressions and State of Mind
Your facial expressions directly impact your state of mind, which in turn affects your tonality and the words you use.
Think of your facial expressions as the “outside-in” approach to changing your emotional state.
If your face looks stiff, depressed, or fake—like a Botox-like mask—it sends signals to your brain that you’re not confident.
This creates a ripple effect: your tonality becomes flat, monotone, or rushed, and your words lose their impact.
For example, many men with alexithymia (emotional blindness) struggle with this.
They don’t know how to move their faces naturally, so they compensate with fake smiles and teary-eyed looks, which are incongruent with their tone.
When they flirt, their facial expressions don’t match their words, making them seem disingenuous or awkward.
Women pick up on this instantly, and it turns them off, even if they can’t pinpoint why.
Elite Tonality Mastery fixes this by teaching you to hold your facial expressions long enough to feel a different state of mind.
By exaggerating your expressions naturally, you reset your emotional state, which reprograms your tonality and aligns it with your intent.
This isn’t about faking—it’s about creating a new baseline for how you present yourself.
Emotional Adaptation Through Tonality
Your tonality doesn’t just reflect your emotional state—it actively shapes it.
Most men operate in a default state of nervousness, depression, or anger without even realizing it.
They talk too fast, their voices carry emotional baggage, and they end every sentence with a sigh or a tone of frustration.
When you speak, every sentence ends with an emotional “bubble” at the period.
If that bubble contains depression, anger, or nervousness, it signals low survival value to women.
This is why many men unknowingly turn women off the more they talk.
Their tone, facial expressions, and words are misaligned, creating a sense of incongruence that women feel immediately.
Elite Tonality Mastery teaches you to control these emotional bubbles.
By aligning your tone, facial expressions, and words, you project a consistent, high-value presence.
This doesn’t just mask your flaws—it reprograms your emotional state so that confidence becomes your default.
Eliminating Awkward Pauses and Behavioral Game
Awkward pauses are another major giveaway of the Loser Effect.
They happen because your brain is overthinking, trying to process emotions it doesn’t understand.
For men with Asperger’s or autism, this is often due to a weak corpus callosum, the part of the brain that connects the left and right hemispheres.
The left brain struggles to communicate with the right, causing delays that result in excessive pauses.
To fix this, you need to steamroll over the pauses.
This doesn’t mean rushing your speech—it means eliminating the signals that reveal low value.
When you remove these pauses, you hide the “bad genes” that women subconsciously associate with low survival value.
This becomes a behavioral game, where every aspect of your tonality, facial expressions, and words is calibrated to bypass women’s defenses.
Aligning Tone, Words, and Expressions
Alignment is the key to creating the Winner Effect.
Your tone, words, and facial expressions must work together to project confidence and congruence.
When these elements are misaligned, it creates confusion and discomfort for women.
For example, if you’re flirting with a woman but your tone is monotone and your facial expressions are stiff, she won’t believe you’re flirting.
If you smile but your eyes look teary or depressed, it sends mixed signals that make you seem fake.
Many men with alexithymia fail at this because they don’t understand the difference between emotions.
They can’t tell when their tone is off or when their expressions don’t match their words.
This is why their interactions feel robotic or forced, even when they’re trying their best.
Elite Tonality Mastery helps you reprogram these elements so they align naturally.
Through drills and feedback, you learn to:
- Match your tone to your words, so you sound authentic and confident.
- Use subtle facial expressions that enhance your message instead of contradicting it.
- Eliminate the emotional “bubbles” of depression, anger, or nervousness at the end of your sentences.
When your tone, words, and expressions align, women feel a sense of authenticity and trust.
This is what allows you to bypass their defenses and create attraction, even if your SMV is low.
Masking vs. Faking
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Masking isn’t about faking it until you make it.
It’s about reprogramming your behavior so that confidence becomes your default.
Many white dating coaches preach the importance of being “congruent,” but they fail to address a crucial point:
If you’re congruent with your zombie behavior, you’ll still fail.
For men with low SMV, congruence alone isn’t enough.
You need to rebuild your tonality, facial expressions, and body language so that they project a 2.0 version of yourself.
This upgraded version is still you—just a more pure, genuine version that hides your flaws.
When you master this, women’s brains can’t see the difference.
They don’t analyze your tone or expressions logically—they feel them emotionally.
This is why so many of my students with Asperger’s or autism have been able to succeed.
By masking their tonal issues, they bypass women’s defenses and create attraction on an emotional level.
The Importance of Reprogramming
Reprogramming isn’t about pretending to be someone you’re not.
It’s about aligning your external behaviors with the best version of yourself.
When you master tonality, you don’t just sound confident—you feel confident.
This creates a feedback loop where your tone improves your mindset, and your mindset improves your tone.
With Elite Tonality Mastery, you’ll learn to:
- Reset your emotional state through facial expressions and tonality.
- Eliminate the traits of the Loser Effect, like rushed speech and awkward pauses.
- Project confidence, congruence, and control in every interaction.
This isn’t about playing a numbers game or relying on luck.
It’s about becoming the upgraded version of yourself that women can’t resist.
When you master tonality, you unlock the remote controller for attraction and take control of your results.
The Power of Congruency: The 5’8” Italian Student’s Transformation
Let me tell you about one of my students, a 5’8” Italian man, referred to me by another student—an Asian student who had 15 lays, including 5 models, 5 white girls, and 2 actresses.
That Asian student even married one of the actresses, became a father, and referred several friends to me, all of whom ended up getting laid as well.
But this story is about the Italian student, who came to me with significant challenges holding him back.
When I first talked to him, I could barely understand what he was saying.
His speech was rushed, his words were mumbled, and his tonality was all over the place.
He looked visibly upset, carrying the weight of mental trauma from years of being mistreated at work.
I had to ask him repeatedly to slow down, pronounce his words clearly, and speak in a way that was easier to follow.
Before training with me, he had taken UMP coaching and managed to get a few lays—but they were all 4 out of 10 in looks.
He believed he was ugly, which only added to his low self-esteem.
But in reality, he wasn’t ugly at all. He was decently good-looking, with a solid musculature for his 5’8” frame.
The real issue was the mental trauma written all over his face.
His expressions were stiff, angry, and Botox-like, which made him seem closed off and unapproachable.
Even though he had achieved some success before, it took him months of mass approaching—hundreds, if not thousands, of painful rejections—to get a single lay.
This process created even more trauma, which showed up in his facial expressions and made his vibe worse.
Breaking the Cycle of Trauma
One of the key turning points in his transformation was taking the Mental Trauma Cure program.
This program isn’t part of the Elite Bundle Resurrections, but it was crucial for addressing the deep-seated trauma that was holding him back.
The trauma in his face was a major issue.
Every wrong facial expression—anger, frustration, or sadness—was like a signal to women that he wasn’t high value.
Through the Mental Trauma Cure, he learned to reduce and eventually eliminate these negative expressions.
This wasn’t about masking in a fake way—it was about removing bad habits and replacing them with natural, confident expressions.
Another student, who achieved 20 lays last year, also took the Mental Trauma Cure and saw similar results.
Both of these students proved that success leaves clues:
It’s not just about building new habits—it’s about reducing the bad ones that are sabotaging your results.
From Struggle to Success
During his training in the Inner Circle, where he had access to the Elite Bundle Resurrections, we focused heavily on tonality and facial expressions.
When I critiqued his facial expressions during one of the exercises, I noticed something alarming: his face barely moved.
It was stiff, almost like it was frozen.
At first, he didn’t believe me. He thought I was exaggerating.
To prove my point, I took 10 random screenshots from his video critique.
Every single screenshot looked exactly the same—his facial expressions hadn’t moved even half a centimeter.
That’s when he realized the problem.
His expressions were so stiff and emotionless that they resembled traits often seen in people with Asperger’s Syndrome.
Fixing this was the first step in his transformation.
He had to learn how to move his face naturally, hold expressions longer, and connect those expressions to his emotional state.
This wasn’t easy for him, as he was a very logical thinker with a job that required a lot of analytical skills.
But once he started practicing, the results were undeniable.
He also learned how to slow down his speech and develop a whitewashed tonality that was calm, steady, and emotionally engaging.
This tonality replaced the rushed, nervous tone that had been sabotaging him before.
Results Speak for Themselves
Once he fixed these issues, the results were staggering.
He started getting laid consistently, racking up 8 lays in a row, all from just 1 to 6 approaches each.
These weren’t average women—they were stunners, 9 out of 10 in looks, with some being 8.5.
The women kept piling up, one after another, as he mastered the art of congruency.
Each lay recharged his emotional state, allowing him to shine that positive energy back at the next woman.
This created a springboard effect, where every success built momentum for the next one.
In the end, this 5’8” Italian student went from struggling with low-quality lays to consistently dating and sleeping with women who were 8.5 to 9 out of 10 in looks.
His success wasn’t due to luck or looks—it was the result of mastering congruency and masking his flaws effectively.
Why Congruency is King
This transformation highlights the power of congruency.
It’s not about playing a mass numbers game, as many white dating coaches preach.
Their advice often leads to months or even years of mass approaching, with hundreds or thousands of painful rejections.
That’s exactly what this student experienced during his UMP training—it took him months to get a single lay, and the quality was low.
But with Elite Tonality Mastery and the Elite Bundle Resurrections, he learned how to mask his flaws and align his tonality, facial expressions, and body language.
This wasn’t just about faking confidence—it was about reprogramming his behavior to project the best version of himself.
This story proves that congruency is king.
It’s not about being perfect—it’s about aligning your tonality, facial expressions, and body language to create the best version of yourself.
When you do this, women can’t see your flaws.
They only see the confidence, congruence, and value you project.
Practical Tonality Training: How to Hear and Fix Your Mistakes
Fixing your tonality isn’t just about learning techniques—it’s about overcoming the mental blocks that keep you blind to your mistakes.
Most students don’t realize that their mental filters are completely scrambled by delusions, ADHD, and cortisol.
These issues distort how they hear themselves, making it nearly impossible for them to identify what’s holding them back.
This is where I come in.
With my mental filter, I can hear every single detail of your mistakes—the ones you can’t figure out yourself.
I don’t have delusions clouding my perception, so I can pinpoint exactly what’s wrong with your tonality, facial expressions, and delivery.
This is why Elite Bundle Resurrections is so effective—it’s not just about giving you tools; it’s about me helping you fix what you’re blind to.
How Delusions Scramble Your Mental Filter
Delusions are the biggest reason why students fail.
When your mental filter is broken, it’s like wearing a VR headset that distorts everything you see and hear.
You think you’re doing great, but in reality, you’re rushing your words, sighing at the end of sentences, or sounding completely fake.
Here are the four traits of delusions that keep students stuck:
- Delusional Thinking:
You convince yourself you’re doing well, even when you’re failing.
You roll your words, talk too fast, and sound like an auctioneer—but to you, it feels “normal.” - Half-Assing It:
You get lazy, skipping steps and doing things halfway, like a zombie.
Instead of committing fully, you cut corners, which only reinforces failure. - The Wrong Path:
You make poor decisions, focusing on shortcuts that backfire.
These decisions might seem logical at the time, but they lead to failure in the long run. - Quitting:
When things get tough, you give up entirely, convincing yourself it’s impossible to succeed.
This is the final stage of delusion, where you stop trying and start blaming everything else.
These traits act like parasites in your mind, feeding off your low self-esteem and keeping you stuck in the Loser Effect.
The Roger Technique: A Solution to Delusions
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So, how do you break free from this cycle?
The first step is to record yourself and listen back. But here’s the trick: don’t think of the recording as “you.”
I call this the Roger Technique.
Here’s how it works:
- Record yourself speaking.
- Name the recording after a cousin or friend—someone who isn’t you.
- When you listen back, imagine it’s them speaking, not you.
For example, one of my students named his recording after his cousin, Roger.
Even though the recording looked and sounded like him, he told himself, “This is Roger.”
This detachment allowed him to hear his mistakes without the emotional baggage of ego.
He realized he was rushing his words, sighing at the end of sentences, and sounding completely incongruent.
By using the Roger Technique, he was able to identify and fix these issues, transforming his tonality and results.
How My Mental Filter Helps You
Most students can’t fix these issues on their own because they’re blind to their mistakes.
Even when they listen to their recordings, they can’t hear what’s wrong.
That’s where my mental filter makes the difference.
I can hear every single mistake you’re making, from rushed speech to incongruent tonality, because I don’t have delusions clouding my perception.
I don’t just tell you what’s wrong—I show you how to fix it, step by step, so you can reprogram your tonality and project confidence naturally.
For example, I’ve had students who were so far gone that they couldn’t hear anything wrong with their tonality.
One student, who was half-white and half-Latino, thought I was gaslighting him when I pointed out his angry tone.
Even when another student confirmed it sounded angry, he refused to believe it.
When you’re that delusional—when your mental filter is completely rotten—it’s game over.
At that point, no amount of coaching can help you because you’re too far gone to accept feedback.
But for everyone else—those who are still partially human and partially zombie—there’s hope.
If you’re willing to confront your delusions and train your tonality with my guidance, you can break free from the Loser Effect.
What to Watch For in Your Recordings
Once you’ve detached emotionally using the Roger Technique, it’s time to analyze your tonality.
Here are the key traits of the Loser Effect to look for:
- Rushed Speech: Are you talking too fast, like an auctioneer, because you’re nervous?
- Awkward Pauses: Are you overthinking, causing unnatural gaps in your speech?
- Sighing at the End of Sentences: Does your tone trail off with frustration, anger, or depression?
- Incongruence: Does your tone match your words, or does it sound fake and mismatched?
These are the signals that women pick up on, and they’re all fixable with the right training.
Breaking Free from the Loser Effect
The students who’ve followed this process have seen incredible results.
One student, after using the Roger Technique and training with me, went from being stuck in the Loser Effect to consistently pulling women who were 8.5 to 9 out of 10 in looks.
This transformation wasn’t about luck or looks—it was about reprogramming his tonality, facial expressions, and body language to project confidence naturally.
If you’re ready to take control of your remote controller and start projecting confidence, Elite Bundle Resurrections is your roadmap.
Why Emotional Control is the Make-or-Break Factor
In today’s world, emotional control isn’t just important—it’s everything.
With rising levels of cortisol, economic stress, and people turning more into zombies, daygame is harder—not because the system has changed, but because people have.
Women are dealing with their own survival value, battling stress, and navigating a world that’s constantly triggering their defenses.
If you can’t mask your own stress or incongruence, you won’t even get your foot in the door.
Here’s why Elite Tonality Mastery is the solution:
Looks: Enhancing Your Perceived Attractiveness
Your tonality and facial expressions directly affect how women perceive your looks.
When your facial expressions are incongruent, stiff, or monotone, it lowers your perceived attractiveness—even if you’re objectively good-looking.
But when your tonality is aligned with confident, natural facial expressions, it enhances your looks.
You appear more relaxed, more approachable, and more attractive.
It’s not about changing your physical appearance—it’s about changing how your appearance is perceived.
Status: Projecting High Social Value
Status isn’t just about wealth or fame—it’s about how you carry yourself.
Your tonality, body language, and facial expressions all signal your social value.
When these elements are aligned, you look like someone who belongs in social situations, someone who can navigate conversations effortlessly.
This raises your perceived status and makes women more open to interacting with you.
But if your tonality is rushed, flat, or incongruent, it signals low value and nervous energy.
Women will subconsciously pick up on this and lose interest before you even start.
Social Skills and Calibration: Making All the Pieces Fit
Tonality is the glue that holds your social skills and social calibrations together.
Without it, even the best conversational techniques will fall flat.
For example:
- If your tonality is monotone, it doesn’t matter how good your words are—she’ll lose interest.
- If your tone doesn’t match your intent, it creates confusion and makes you seem inauthentic.
- If your tonality is rushed or nervous, it shuts down the conversation before it even begins.
When your tonality is calibrated, it encourages women to talk more, engage with you, and feel comfortable.
It’s not just about what you say—it’s about how you make her feel.
The Impact of Emotional Control on Daygame
Emotional control is the foundation of everything.
It’s what allows you to stay calm, composed, and congruent, even in high-pressure situations.
But when your emotional control is negative—when you’re stressed, anxious, or incongruent—it doesn’t just cancel out your advantages.
It actively leeches from other areas like your looks, status, and social skills.
Here’s the reality:
- Women are already stressed out and full of cortisol themselves.
- If your tonality and facial expressions signal stress, frustration, or nervousness, you’re just adding to their stress.
- When that happens, you won’t last long in the interaction—she’ll shut you down before you even get a chance to connect.
This is why Elite Tonality Mastery is a make-or-break factor.
It teaches you how to mask your stress, project confidence, and align your tonality with your intent.
This isn’t about faking—it’s about reprogramming your behavior to create a calm, confident, and attractive presence.
Why Emotional Control is Key to the 20/35 System
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In the 20/35 system, emotional control is worth 2.5 points.
But here’s the catch: if your emotional control is negative, it doesn’t just cancel out those 2.5 points—it starts pulling down your other scores.
- Black Pill Mindset: Even with maxed-out looks, you won’t reach the 20/35 threshold without emotional control.
- Red Pill Mindset: Boosting your status by a few points won’t matter if emotional instability is dragging you back.
- Purple Pill Mindset: Money alone won’t save you if your vibe and tonality are incongruent.
Without emotional control, you’re stuck in the Loser Effect, constantly sabotaging yourself.
It’s like trying to fill a bucket with holes in it—no matter how much you pour in, it’ll never be enough.
A Quick Note About the 20/35 System
We’ll dive deeper into the 20/35 system in the next five-day challenge, but here’s what you need to know for now:
Emotional control isn’t just another category—it’s the glue that holds everything else together.
Without it, your looks, status, and social skills won’t matter.
If you’re serious about breaking free from the Loser Effect and reaching the 20/35 threshold, mastering your tonality is the first step.
Elite Bundle Resurrections: Your Ultimate Daygame Transformation Program
If you’re ready to stop struggling and start achieving consistent success in daygame, the Elite Bundle Resurrections is the solution you’ve been waiting for. This isn’t just a course—it’s a complete system designed to improve your social calibrations, social skills, emotional control, and game, so you can get laid faster and more consistently.
For this 5-Day Challenge, you can get the Elite Bundle Resurrections for just $935—a $65 discount off the regular price of $1,000. After the challenge ends, the price will go back up, but you can secure your future with the Golden Ticket. More on that later.
What’s Inside the Elite Bundle Resurrections?
The Elite Bundle Resurrections combines three powerful courses, WhatsApp consulting, and Skype coaching, all designed to give you the tools, strategies, and feedback you need to succeed. Here’s what you’ll get:
1. Elite 30: From Hardcase to Hero
This course is the foundation of your transformation, focusing on social calibrations and body language.
- What You’ll Learn:
- How to fix your body language so you appear confident and approachable.
- The Social Skills Flow Drill, which helps you maintain engaging conversations and get her talking more.
- A 30-day challenge designed to accelerate your results.
- Why It Matters:
The faster you improve your social calibrations and body language, the faster you’ll start seeing results. This course has already produced countless laid testimonials.
2. Elite Playbook
The Elite Playbook focuses on game tactics, teaching you how to date properly, conduct dates, and pull women back home.
- What You’ll Learn:
- How to maneuver through interactions and sexualize them effectively.
- How to handle and overcome sexual objections.
- How to backfill with flirts when she talks more and tease her when she’s off the line.
- Why It Matters:
This course ensures that every move you make is strategic and calibrated, helping you get consistent results without relying on gimmicks or outdated methods.
3. Elite Access (1 Year)
With Elite Access, you’ll have direct access to me for an entire year through WhatsApp consulting.
- What It Includes:
- Daily Support: Get 10-15 minutes of personalized feedback and advice every day.
- Real Progress: Fix your tonality, refine your social calibrations, and improve your results with ongoing guidance.
- Why It Matters:
This isn’t just a course—it’s a mentorship program. Having consistent access to me ensures that you’re always on track and making progress.
4. 10 Skype Coaching Sessions
These one-hour sessions are where the real breakthroughs happen.
- What You’ll Learn:
- How to maintain engaging conversations and get her talking more, so she evaluates your social calibrations and gets turned on.
- How to refine your tonality and emotional control to eliminate the signals that turn women off.
- How to fix your mistakes with my mental filter, which allows me to hear and spot every detail you’re missing.
- Why It Matters:
These sessions are tailored to your unique challenges, ensuring that every aspect of your game is optimized for success. My mental filter ensures that nothing slips through the cracks, helping you correct issues you didn’t even know existed.
Why Emotional Control is Critical
One of the biggest reasons men fail in daygame is their lack of emotional control. Women are already stressed out and full of cortisol, dealing with their own survival value. If your tonality and facial expressions signal stress, frustration, or nervousness, you’re just adding to their stress—and they’ll shut you down instantly.
Elite Tonality Mastery, included in the Elite Bundle Resurrections, teaches you how to:
- Talk slower and reduce awkward pauses.
- Develop a whitewashed tonality that’s calm, steady, and congruent.
- Align your tonality with your body language and intent to project confidence.
This isn’t about faking it—it’s about reprogramming your behavior so you naturally eliminate the signals that turn women off. When you master your tonality, you’ll appear more attractive, more confident, and more in control.
Golden Ticket: Your One-Time Opportunity to Secure Savings
The Golden Ticket isn’t a separate offer—it’s a way to lock in future discounts on the Elite Bundle Resurrections and show that you’re serious about your success.
How It Works
- During the 5-Day Challenge:
- Get the Elite Bundle Resurrections for $935.
- If you need a payment plan, split the cost into three payments of $311.
- Future Discounts:
- If the price increases to $950 during the next challenge, the Golden Ticket will bring it back down to $935.
- When the price rises to $1,200, the Golden Ticket will bring it down to $1,000—saving you $200.
- When the price rises to $1,400, the Golden Ticket will bring it down to $1,100—saving you $300.
Bonus Materials
To sweeten the deal, you’ll also receive one of the following bonuses:
- Elite Daygame First Steps: Perfect for those struggling with approaching anxiety. This booklet will help you make your first approaches with confidence.
- Elite Focus for Daygamers: Ideal for those dealing with money problems. This guide provides advanced insights to help you refine your skills and approach with confidence.
These bonuses are not standalone courses—they’re simply my way of adding extra value and showing appreciation for your commitment.
Why This Isn’t “Multiple Offers”
Let me be clear: I’m not creating new products or trying to sell you something different. The Elite Bundle Resurrections is still the core program, and these bonuses are just that—bonuses.
The Golden Ticket is simply a way for you to secure savings and show that you’re serious about your success. It’s like raising your hand and saying, “I’m ready to take action.”
I follow the 5-1 strategy:
- One Market: Daygamers who are ready to take action.
- One Product: The Elite Bundle Resurrections.
- One Channel: All program materials are hosted on Google Drive.
- One Conversion Tool: My sales letter.
- One Year: A focused effort to deliver results over the next 12 months.
This strategy ensures that I’m fully committed to helping you succeed, without distractions or unnecessary gimmicks.
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