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Why Your Daygame Approaches Are Falling Flat
Attention all daygamers…
If you’re tired of girls vanishing right after your opener, this is for you…
I’m about to expose the hidden reasons why your approaches aren’t working…
And trust me, it’s not what you’ve been told before…
Stick around, because I’ll reveal the game-changing techniques that will keep her hooked…
From the moment you open your mouth, you’ll know exactly what to do…
Ready to stop the disappearing act and start making lasting impressions…?
Let’s dive in…
The Frustration of Losing Her After the Opener
In daygame, one of the most frustrating moments is when she leaves right after the opener…
You muster up the courage to approach, only to watch her walk away…
Leaving you wondering, “What went wrong…?”
This isn’t just random—it happens for specific reasons…
And understanding these reasons is the key to improving your success rate…
Common Mistakes That Push Her Away
Imagine this…
You approach her with a direct compliment, and her eyes glaze over…
She politely excuses herself, and you’re left standing there…
Or you talk too fast, trying to fill the silence…
Only to realize she’s already lost interest…
These mistakes are all too common…
And they happen when you haven’t mastered the nuances of daygame…
The frustration builds as you see others succeed while you’re stuck…
But here’s the truth—these mistakes are avoidable…
The Shift You Need to Make
Avoiding these pitfalls requires a shift in both strategy and mindset…
It’s not just about what you say—it’s about how you say it…
Your tonality, body language, and timing all play a role…
When you get these elements right, everything changes…
You’ll keep her engaged, curious, and wanting more…
How to Transform Your Approach
In this video, I’ll guide you step-by-step through the common pitfalls…
You’ll learn why women leave after the opener and how to stop it from happening…
By understanding these dynamics, you’ll transform your approach…
And keep her engaged from the very start…
1. The Pitfall of Direct Openers
Direct openers often lead to instant judgment based on appearance…
When you approach with a direct compliment, she immediately assesses your looks…
And decides if she’s interested before you’ve even had a chance to showcase your personality…
This can be a deal-breaker, especially if you’re not presenting yourself in the best light…
Direct game tends to filter out women below your looks level…
Leaving you with options that are often less desirable…
This approach might work if you’re exceptionally good-looking in a Latin third-world country…
But for most people, it results in attracting women who are 4/10 or less…
Instead of relying on direct openers, consider a more nuanced approach…
One that allows you to build rapport and showcase your personality before she makes up her mind…
2. The Speed Trap
Talking too fast can be a major turn-off…
It signals that you’re used to being interrupted and that you’re not confident in your presence…
In social hierarchies, the alpha male takes his time…
He speaks deliberately and commands attention…
By slowing down your speech and being mindful of your delivery, you project confidence and authority…
This makes her more likely to stay engaged in the conversation…
When you speak slowly and with intention, you demonstrate comfort in your own skin…
You position yourself as a high-status individual who doesn’t need to rush or prove himself…
This simple shift in communication style can drastically change how you’re perceived…
And make you more attractive and intriguing…
3. The Fashion Faux Pas
Fashion plays a crucial role in first impressions…
Dressing in a Gen Z style—curly hair, big beards, plaid shirts, dark jeans, and white sneakers—can send the wrong message…
With 63% of Gen Z being single, this look isn’t necessarily appealing or effective in daygame…
Indians often dress similarly, which can unintentionally reinforce certain stereotypes…
Instead, aim for a “white-washed husband material” frame…
This means polished attire like blazers, chinos, brown dress shoes, and a stylish watch…
Avoid the “fobby fresh off the boat” look completely, as it lowers perceived social market value (SMV)…
Aligning your fashion with the right frame significantly increases your chances of keeping her interested…
There are six frames to consider: fuckboi, boyfriend/girlfriend, friendzone, husband material, sugar daddy, and high status…
The husband material and high status frames are the most effective for success in daygame…
When you dress to fit these frames, you project stability, maturity, and desirability…
This strategic choice in fashion doesn’t just elevate your appearance—it transforms how women perceive your value…
In fact, the husband material frame has been proven to improve approach-to-date conversion rates dramatically…
With the right drills and rehearsals, this image can help you achieve success in as few as 1 to 6 approaches…
By dressing the part, you stand out in a crowded field and position yourself as a high-value individual…
Why Daygame Feels Harder in 2025
I made a video about this a while ago, before the five-day challenge…
But these days, there’s a better way to think about why daygame feels harder…
It’s not just that the game itself has changed—it’s that people are rotting away…
The Root Rot Effect
Think of people like plants…
When they’re exposed to too much stress—like the tariffs and economic chaos—they start to rot…
This “root rot” makes them less human…
They lose their ability to think clearly, their memory weakens, and they procrastinate more…
They become literal zombies…
Unteachable cases faster than ever…
This is what we’re working with now…
Women Have Changed Too
It’s not just people who are struggling—women have changed too…
They’re more cautious, like cats…
If you’re too dominant or aggressive, they’ll run away…
This means you need to adjust your approach…
You need statements of empathy to make her feel understood…
And you need to balance relaxed confidence with strong body language…
It’s like a 50/50 mix now—dominance alone doesn’t work anymore…
The Winner-Loser Effect
This shift isn’t random—it’s the winner-loser effect in action…
When people feel like they’re losing, their cortisol levels spike…
Stress takes over, and they spiral into a state of defeat…
With 85% of Canadians living paycheck to paycheck, it’s no wonder people feel stuck…
They’re broke as a joke, and it’s affecting their mindset and performance…
The New Reality
This is the reality we’re facing in 2025…
Daygame isn’t just harder—it’s different…
The old rules no longer apply…
And I’m the only one willing to talk about it…
If you want to succeed, you need to adapt to these changes…
It’s not impossible, but it requires a new mindset, new skills, and a willingness to evolve…
Understanding Why Girls Leave After the Opener
Understanding why girls leave right after the opener is the first step to improving your daygame success…
By avoiding direct openers, you eliminate the risk of instant judgment based on appearance…
Slowing down your speech projects confidence and high status, keeping her engaged in the interaction…
And dressing appropriately, aligned with the husband material frame, creates a strong first impression…
These small but powerful adjustments can drastically change how women perceive you…
Take Your Daygame to the Next Level
If you’re ready to transform your daygame approach and stop losing women after the opener…
The Elite Bundle Resurrections program is the solution you’ve been searching for…
This program equips you with the skills, strategies, and mindset needed to excel in daygame…
Join the ranks of my successful students who have mastered the art of approach…
And transformed their dating lives with proven techniques…
Click the link below to learn more and take the first step towards genuine confidence and success…
Your journey to becoming a high-value man starts here, and I’m excited to guide you every step of the way…
Let’s make it happen…
-John Elite
World's BEST Daygame Coach with 672 Laid/Pull Testimonials. More Than Every Daygame Coach In The World Combined 