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What a Crappy Birthday
It’s My Birthday: Random Thoughts of March 16th, 2025
What a Crappy Birthday
Today is my birthday, and honestly, I wish I could feel good about it.
Birthdays are supposed to be a time for reflection, celebration, and gratitude, but this year feels different.
I don’t feel like celebrating.
Instead, I feel a little disappointed, maybe even a little depressed.
It’s not just about getting older—it’s about looking back on the past year and realizing how much has changed, and not in the ways I’d hoped.
This year has been one of the worst I’ve experienced, and it’s hard to ignore that on a day like today.
I’ve worked harder than ever, but the results haven’t matched the effort.
I’ve posted 660 laid and pulled testimonials, the most in the world for daygame, and yet, it feels like no one cares.
The more I prove myself, the more indifference I get.
It’s like people are blind to what really matters: merit.
Instead, they’re distracted by the shiny, hollow optics of other so-called coaches.
I’ve seen others succeed with less proof, less value, and less authenticity, and it’s frustrating.
It makes me question whether the world rewards hard work anymore or if it’s just about DEI—diversity, exclusivity, and inclusion.
Where merit doesn’t matter.
Where it’s not about what you’ve achieved but about how you look, how tall you are, or how well you can fake it.
I’ve been reflecting a lot today, and I can’t help but feel like the deck is stacked against people like me.
People who don’t rely on fake optics or flashy gimmicks.
People who actually deliver real results but don’t get the recognition they deserve.
It’s hard not to feel a little bitter about it.
But at the same time, I know I can’t let that bitterness consume me.
I’ve built something real, something valuable, and something that changes lives.
And even if the world doesn’t recognize it right now, I know it matters.
Still, it’s hard to shake the feeling that this birthday is more of a reminder of the struggles than a celebration of the wins.
The Halo Effect and the Problem with Optics
There’s this one Asian dating coach I’ve been seeing lately, and honestly, it’s been making me reflect on the state of the industry.
$100,000* this year, and somehow, he’s already up to $42,000.
Now, I’m not saying I’m not happy for him—good for him if he’s finding success. But here’s the thing: he didn’t earn it.
This isn’t merit.
This is the halo effect at work.
He has maybe two laid testimonials, and that’s it. Two.
Of course it might not be daygame, it could easily be a side hustle like affilate marketing or something else.
But its sad if its daygame because Asians are sheeps worshipping muscles and height.
He’s got a rectangular face, and he stood next to women in just two pictures. That’s all it took for people to believe in him.
Who knows where those women even came from? People just assume they’re legitimate. It could all be optics, nothing more than DSLR cameras and a little bit of posing.
And you know what? People fall for it.
They don’t ask for proof. They don’t question the results. They just see a guy who looks the part, and they throw their money at him.
It’s depressing—not because I’m envious, but because it shows how little people value merit anymore.
Why Asians Are the Worst for This
What makes it worse is that Asians are the most susceptible to this nonsense.
They don’t care about merit.
They don’t care about proof.
They care about muscles and height.
They’re sheep, plain and simple. They’ll follow anyone who looks the part, even if that person has no real results to back it up.
And because of this mindset, they’ve given up on daygame entirely.
They don’t believe in themselves anymore.
They’ve stopped trying, stopped investing in real skills, and instead, they worship these fake gurus who sell them nothing but optics.
It’s frustrating because I’ve worked so hard to build something real.
I’ve got 660 laid and pulled testimonials, the most in the world for daygame.
But instead of valuing that, people are drawn to someone who just stood next to women in two pictures.
It’s not about results anymore—it’s about appearance.
The Problem with the Halo Effect
This is the halo effect in action.
If you’re tall, muscular, or have a certain look, people assume you’re successful.
You don’t need proof.
You don’t need testimonials.
You just need to look the part, and people will believe in you.
It’s all about plausibility, not merit.
And that’s what’s broken about this industry—and society as a whole.
People don’t want to put in the work. They just want to believe in the illusion.
But here’s the truth: optics don’t get you laid.
Real results come from real skills, real effort, and a real system.
And that’s what I’ve built with Elite Bundle 2.
Why This Depresses Me
What makes me feel a little depressed isn’t that this guy is making money.
It’s that people are so quick to believe in someone who hasn’t earned it.
It’s not about being bitter—it’s about being disappointed.
I’ve worked harder than anyone else in this industry.
I’ve built a system with 660 laid and pulled testimonials, and I’ve helped countless students transform their lives.
But instead of valuing that, people are drawn to someone who just stood next to women in two pictures.
It’s like merit doesn’t matter anymore.
And that’s what’s so frustrating.
If people keep worshipping these fake optics, they’re never going to get the results they want.
They’re just going to keep wasting their time and money on illusions.
And that’s the saddest part of all.
Why 660 Testimonials Aren’t Enough
I beaten every single daygame dating coach for pickup. More than the whole industry combined. But I realized that they can ignore you and dismiss you easily. I know it sound crazy, but they really can like you don’t exist and the world doesn’t exist out of the global game platformed scammers.
I have 660 laid and pulled testimonials, and that number is only going to grow.
Let me say that again: 660 testimonials.
This isn’t just a number—it’s the most in the world for daygame.
It’s a testament to the lives I’ve changed, the transformations I’ve facilitated, and the undeniable results my system delivers.
But here’s the problem: merit doesn’t matter anymore.
We’re living in a world where delusional zombies care more about optics and plausibility than real results.
It’s the halo effect that dominates now.
If you’re tall, good-looking, or have the right “optics,” people assume you’re successful.
You don’t need proof.
You don’t need 660 testimonials.
You just need to look the part, and people will throw money at you.
Meanwhile, I’ve posted real proof—660 testimonials of students getting laid or pulling—and it feels like no one cares.
It’s infuriating.
These fake coaches don’t even need to show a single laid testimonial.
They just need to stand next to women in a photo or post a fake infield video where the interaction conveniently cuts off before anything meaningful happens.
And the zombies eat it up.
They don’t question it.
They don’t ask for proof.
They just assume that if the coach looks the part, they must be legit.
But here’s the thing: optics don’t get you laid.
My 660 testimonials aren’t just numbers—they’re stories of transformation.
They’re proof that my system works, even in the toughest environments.
And yet, the world seems to reward those who fake it.
It’s disheartening, but it’s also motivating.
Because at the end of the day, I know the truth.
I know that my system delivers real results, and no amount of fake clout can take that away from me.
The Halo Effect and the Zombie Mindset
The halo effect is a powerful thing.
It’s the reason why tall, good-looking coaches can succeed without proof.
People see their height, their looks, or their flashy optics, and they assume they’re successful.
It’s not about what they’ve actually achieved—it’s about what they look like they’ve achieved.
And that’s the problem.
The zombies don’t care about merit.
They don’t care about 660 testimonials or real, measurable results.
They just want to believe in the illusion.
It’s easier for them to worship fake clout than to face the reality that real success takes hard work, grit, and perseverance.
But here’s the thing: the halo effect is just an illusion.
It doesn’t last.
Eventually, the truth comes out.
And when it does, the zombies will realize they’ve been wasting their time and money on fake coaches who never delivered real results.
Why My System Is Different
My system isn’t about optics.
It’s about results.
It’s about transforming your mental filters, improving your social skills, and building the resilience to succeed in any environment.
I’ve spent years refining my system, and the proof is in the numbers: 660 laid and pulled testimonials.
No other coach in the world can match that.
And yet, the zombies overlook it.
They’d rather worship fake clout than invest in a system that actually works.
But that’s not my problem.
I’m not here to convince the zombies.
I’m here to help the people who are ready to take action, invest in themselves, and achieve real success.
Because at the end of the day, the only thing that matters is results.
And that’s what my system delivers.
The Five Ones Strategy
So far I think the strategy is bullshit, but I am determined to make it work.
The Five Ones Strategy is supposed to simplify and scale your business, but it’s been a challenge to implement.
Here’s how it works:
- One Core Offer: Focus on selling one main product or service. For me, that’s Elite Bundle 2.
- One Audience: Target one specific type of customer. For me, that’s men who want to master daygame.
- One Platform: Choose one platform to focus your efforts on. For me, that’s YouTube.
- One Conversion Tool: Use one method to convert leads into customers. For me, that’s consultations.
- One Year of Focus: Commit to this strategy for at least one year without distractions.
On paper, it sounds simple.
But in reality, it’s been anything but.
I used to have multiple products and upsells, like Elite 30 and Elite Playbook.
But they weren’t selling as much as they used to.
So, I decided to focus entirely on Elite Bundle 2.
I poured all my energy into refining the offer, improving the content, and making it the best program on the market.
But even with all that effort, sales have been slower than expected.
Why?
Because the economy is in shambles.
The tariffs and economic fears have hit people hard.
Even the threat of tariffs has made people scared.
They’re holding onto their money, afraid of a recession, and it’s affecting everything.
It’s been a tough adjustment, but I’m sticking to the Five Ones Strategy because I know it works.
It’s just a matter of time before the results catch up to the effort.
Plantaform: My Birthday Gift To Myself
Looks like giant UAP egg shaped thing. Its way bigger in person than it looks. Its so damn big I tried to bring it upstars when my roomates saw it. Then called my landlord who told me I wasn’t allowed to grow vedgetables in my room. I wanted to because they said I can’t grow it downstairs as it would attract sewer rats back into the property. But they saw it and said put it back downstairs. It is so big I can’t even fit it into a picture taking it on my phone.
If I Can Invest in Myself, So Can You
For my birthday, I decided to make a smart investment in myself.
I bought Plantaform, a fogponic system that uses fog to grow vegetables. Originally developed by NASA to grow food in space, it was later abandoned and picked up by a Canadian company. During these tariff-heavy times, they say, “Buy Canadian,” so I did.
It wasn’t cheap—it costs the same as Elite Bundle 2. But I didn’t see it as an expense. I saw it as an investment in my health, my budget, and my future.
In just 45 days, I’ll have a full harvest of lettuce, and it will keep producing for up to 100 days. This means I’ll lower my food bills while enjoying fresh, homegrown vegetables.
This decision reflects the 5 Buckets Strategy I live by:
- Emergency Bucket: Always set aside money for unexpected situations.
- Self-Education Bucket: Invest in learning and skills that improve your life, like Elite Bundle 2.
- Investments Bucket: Spend on things that grow in value, like Plantaform or coaching programs.
- Paying the Bills Bucket: Cover your necessary expenses, like rent and utilities.
- Play Money Bucket: Enjoy life, but only after the other buckets are taken care of.
Elite Bundle 2 fits squarely into the Self-Education and Investments buckets. It’s not just another course—it’s a transformational program that saves you money and time.
Here’s why:
$10,000 or more*, and you only get a weekend of rushed training. Elite Bundle 2 costs far less access to a proven system with 660 laid and pulled testimonials.
- It Saves You Time: Instead of wasting years trying to figure out daygame on your own, Elite Bundle 2 gives you a clear, step-by-step roadmap to success.
If I can make a decision to invest in myself, so can you. Stop seeing Elite Bundle 2 as a cost—it’s an investment in your future.
Thats mine on the right. I’m going to name this pod, UAP.
Blasting the Zombies
Let’s talk about the zombies—people who’ve mentally checked out and stopped trying.
Who turned into zombies first?
In 2022 and 2023, it was the Asians who quit.
They started dropping off and following these Ninja Turtle-looking guys.
These guys stood next to tall, squatting coaches who got in trouble in Brazil.
Their students were pulling underage girls at a party.
Ridiculous.
These ABCs of low self-esteem Asians brag about muscles, but they can’t even get results in daygame.
Their student results are meager, mostly in Latin countries.
They pull women from night game, but nothing happens.
They censor the women’s faces in their videos and never admit it wasn’t a lay.
It’s just a poke.
Congratulations, but you didn’t get your dip wet.
Bhenchoding Indians
The next group to fall was the Indians in 2023.
They procrastinate, disappear for weeks, and don’t follow instructions.
I call it bhenchoding
It’s my version of the Hindi word for sister fucker.
They just keep bhenchoding, wasting time, and making excuses.
Latinos: The Final Zombies
By 2024, the Latinos started showing signs of instability.
By 2025, they’ve completely lost their minds.
The ICE raids and economic pressures have broken them.
They do the opposite of what they’re told, procrastinate, and make terrible decisions.
It’s like they’re stuck in a loop of bad choices that blow up in their faces.
They brag about past results, claiming they used to have multiple girlfriends.
But now, their SMV has dropped to 5 out of 10.
They’re forced to rely on skills, and most of them don’t have any.
97% of Latinos work with their hands.
Their brains are like old Pentium One processors—slow, with low RAM.
They get overwhelmed easily and can’t focus.
It’s like their minds are full of viruses and malware.
Even the mindset playlist can’t help them.
A Birthday Feast and Global Disappointment
Here was the sushi I got. Family brought it over. They will leave soon. They are watching T.V with my roomates and talking to them. At least someone cared enough to buy me food. Let me tell you, it was the best tempura I ever had. Sushi is good too. Resturant sushi taste different than chinese supermarket sushi. It has a savory warm, delishious quality about it.
So today, my family is bringing over a tiramisu cake for my birthday. I think it’s Italian… or maybe French? Honestly, I’m not even sure.
Along with that, they’re bringing some sushi, which is a nice treat.
I haven’t seen my family in a long time.
I didn’t even go to my grandmothers funeral either.
She wasn’t so nice to me.
But let me be real with you—there have been days where I’ve skipped meals. This is what it feels like to be Canadian these days.
Money doesn’t stretch far here anymore.
Most Canadians are eating like one meat a week, and the rest of their meals are just vegetables or random filler foods.
You guys are punishing me for being the best daygame coach in the world.
Good job, you succeed because you are poor, you look at me like i’m crazy when I post more video testimonials
Thats why I dub over it with my commentary becuase you are super poor.
I thought I won, but instead I win to lose?
Great, now I have a double chin, not yet, but my head looks bigger with all the cortisol.
It’s sad, but it’s the reality. Thanks to the tariffs from the United States, life in Canada has become ridiculously expensive.
And honestly, Canada brought this upon itself with all its woke policies.
So far I had a Mcdonalds breakfast, but it was cold.
I have an air fryer, so it tasted good.
They had to drive down for hours to get here.
They would get me some sushi later on.
Sushimi, however you spell it…
Also some tempura or many different types.
I’m a good cook, so I can cook anything.
Even make tempura shrimp if necessary.
However, one of my weaknesses is making sushi.
The fucking thing bhenchodes and falls apart.
This is one thing I am not good at yet.
Europeans, What’s Your Excuse?
Now let’s talk about the Europeans, because I don’t get what’s going on with you guys either.
You have a lower cost of living. You have more beautiful women. And, let’s be real, dating is easier for you than in most places.
So what’s the problem?
Why are you acting broke? Why do you lack the mental resilience to step up and invest in yourself?
You’re sitting there reading my site, probably even copying my material, but when it comes time to actually take action, you fall apart.
It’s ridiculous. You have all the tools in front of you, yet you’re acting like a bunch of sewer rats.
Australians and Your Inner Game Issues
And now, let’s talk about the Australians.
You guys seem interested in coaching, but every time, it’s the same story: inner game issues.
You’re scared of your own women.
Australian women are attractive, especially the white ones. Even in Melbourne, where there’s a mix of ethnicities, you’re still intimidated.
And I don’t get it.
You live in a country with giant spiders, snakes, and kangaroos that could rip your stomach open.
You’re afraid of women, but not the wildlife that could literally kill you? Come on now.
It’s disappointing because Australians could be great students. But instead, you let your mental issues hold you back.
Why the U.S. Dominates
Here’s the truth: most of my students are from the United States.
Why? Because Americans are resilient. They don’t make excuses. They take action.
And yes, I’m still working on that YouTube series about the U.S., but the point is, they step up.
If you’re from Canada, Europe, or Australia, stop acting like a victim. You have the resources to succeed, but you’re wasting them.
It’s not about your circumstances—it’s about your mindset.
IF YOU WANT TO STOP WORSHIPPING OPTICS, WHICH IS GETTING OTHER PLATFORMED SCAMMERS 6 FIGURES A MONTH NOW, AS CRAZY AS THAT SOUNDS. JOIN ELITE BUNDLE 2. WHERE YOU DON’T NEED TO WORSHIP OPTICS. BUT HAS MERIT.
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