MGTOW is a Trap – 10 Ways to Win Again (2025)

MGTOW Part 2: The Step-by-Step Fix

Picture this: You’re stressed out by the economy, confidence is shot, and you’re thinking MGTOW or men going their own way is the answer.

But what if I told you that’s exactly what’s holding you back?

In the next few minutes, I’m gonna reveal the truth about MGTOW and why it’s actually making your life worse.

But here’s the kicker… I’m also gonna give you the exact 10 steps in order to break free and start living life on your terms again, to have a chance to get laid with wome for daygame and not be a virgin going your own way…

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You know, a lot of guys that go MGTOW don’t really see what’s happening… they’re actually setting themselves up for a major fall.

They think that by avoiding women, they’re passively resisting something,

but in reality, they’ve just allowed life to knock them down.

I totally get it. Inflation or Binflation, good thing he is out of office finally…

The economic stress has hit you hard and probably crushed your confidence.

Stress levels are through the roof, due to the economc stress right?

You’ve lost your social skills during the lockdowns, your edge, and now you feel trapped in 2025.

With the bad economy, people don’t want to procreate, get married if they can’t afford it, like its Japan or something.

But let me be real with you, MGTOW isn’t the solution here.

If you don’t tackle this now, it’s gonna get tougher as each day goes by.

Seriously, the longer you wait, the messier it gets.

Once you quit, its hard to come back.

MGTOW is the biggest threat to daygamers due to the economic stress

It is worst than the economy, or worst than AI taking your jobs.

MGTOW movement is an extinction level omega level threat and are to be blamed for everything.

Yes I have many students turned MGTOW, but they got revived along the way knowing I have all the answers.

So, here’s the step-by-step guide to pulling yourself out of MGTOW and starting to rebuild your life.

So for those of you who recent turned MGTOW, there is still time to be revived.

Step 1: Fix Your Hormones

Did you know that every time you fail, your body pumps out more cortisol, making you even more of a loser?

It’s called the loser effect, and it’s a vicious cycle.

But here’s the kicker: every time you win, you get a testosterone boost.

That’s right, success breeds success.

So, you want to know how to break out of your loser spiral and start winning?

Stick around, because I’m about to drop some knowledge that’ll change your life.

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First off, that stress from inflation? It’s wrecking your testosterone, pumping up cortisol, and making you feel fat, weak, and just… passive.

You’ve got to address this, or your self-esteem is gonna stay in the gutter, and action? Forget about it.

The more you win, with my coaching of course, the more testosterone you get.

The more you fail, the most cortisol you get

Its called the winner and loser effect

Its a score card and MGTOW are constantly losing, since they are total losers with small sociopathic, autistic Youtube channels coping hard.

With their double chins due to cortisol and skinny fat cushing syndrome.

Start taking some supplements aimed at lowering cortisol and boosting testosterone.

Stuff like ashwaghanda and anti estrogen pills.

You should also stack it with stuff that gets rid of your depression for supplements.

You don’t need to take SSRI pills.

You are depressed because you are losing so much in life, due to low SMV and also autism, mixed with sociopathic delusional traits.

Also, if you are ADHD, which are you, since most debt ridden losers are depressed ADHD zombies…

You need supplements to focus.

Or you are turning into a zombie.

No more excuses, alright?

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Step 2: Clear Your Mental Trauma

You’ve probably lost so much that your brain’s stuck in this ‘defense mode.

Look into something like my Mental Trauma Cure or similar methods.

They can really help you process all that stress.

Its not only affecting your belief system, where you try to make youtube channels complaining and rationalizing away your failures.

Then listening to other autistic people in your echo chamber who are sociopaths, opinions as facts.

If you don’t get a handle on this, you’ll just be stuck, always blaming women, society, or the economy for your problems.

Take my mental trauma cure program first.

Then recalibrate the pain, the traumas and belief systems so you can try again.

If you can’t afford that, get some other therapy online, even if I don’t think it is effective.

If you don’t fix this, you would just turn MGTOW and be a total loser.

Learn daygame, but clear your mental trauma first.

Elite 60 and Elite Bundle 2 can help a great deal. Since Elite 60 comes with mental trauma cure in the beginning.

Step 3: Take Extreme Ownership

Listen up… stop blaming the government, modern women, social media or Tinder.

They have been around for more than a decade.

The lockdowns did take away your social skills and the world became 63% single in a short time.

It’s on YOU to fix your life.

No one else is gonna do it for you, except for me if you take Elite Bundle 2.

Extreme ownership means taking responsibility for what happens

The opposite of Joe Biden blaming Trump before.

Sociopaths can’t take responsibility for their own mistakes.

For the 10 traits of sociopathy, some of them are win at all cost.

Never appologize, they are never wrong, don’t have the circuitry to feel guilt, remorse.

Also, they are delusional and their story they tell, sounds like the truth when they tell it.

With their stupid MGTOW small channels complaining and coping.

There was a Navy Seal Jocko Willinks who’s Navy Seals were shooting with other US troops.

He was summoned to explain the situation to the generals.

Instead of shifting blame, even if others were willing to take blame on his behalf.

Instead of Joe Bidening it… like a far left sociopath democrat.

He said there was nobody to blame except himself.

He would take whatever responsibility for what they choose.

But if they let him stay, he would make sure it never happened again.

They didn’t fire him.

Until you can take responsibiilty for it, you will keep losing in life being the victim

Even if you did half an excuse.

Your car that is driving to the destination of success, you would pull the hand break even if you made excuses or shifted blame.

Everything, good or bad, its all your fault.

Until you have that navy seal mindset, you can’t change your life

You would remain a loser MGTOW who has given up.

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Step 4: Rebuild Your Self-Esteem

Low self-esteem comes with a few nasty traits:

– Delusions – Thinking you’re doing fine when you’re really not.
– Half-assing it – Putting in weak efforts and expecting good results.
– Wrong path thinking – Choosing the easy route, then failing in just a 4 months.
– Quitting (MGTOW) – Giving up and hiding behind excuses.

You’ve got to score some real wins to boost your confidence…

not just hang around in red-pill echo chambers or loser MGTOW

If you have ADHD, you will say you will finish a task, then not do it.

You gaslight you own brain because you are a zombie.

Then the economic stress will give you more cortisol due to the winner and loser effect.

Then you would get those 4 traits of low self esteem.

Then you would turn more delusional, when I tell you what works, you shoot down the ideas.

Then you are so lazy, you finish no task

Losers never finish what they started because they have no GRIT.

The laziness is your brain turining into a zombie.

Due to your delusions, you make insane decisions that fails.

Lastly quitting.. thats the loser MGTOW way

The low self esteem way.

There are many ways to raise your self esteem.

But if its too low in the first place, you won’t be able to see.

The last steps of the 4 traits of low self esteem is quitting, or it should be renamed to MGTOW.

Its all related.

Step 5: 5 Buckets To Fix Your Money Problems And Drink Huel To Fix Your Foodcost

You have no choice, if you want to save your mind from spending too much money due to depression and excessive ADHD

When that happens, that becomes and anti depressant, retail therapy.

Pretty soon you would be broke and in massive debt.

You would struggle with the Maslov chart of human needs being in survival mode.

A lot of these MGTOW guys doesn’t seem to do well financially and are quitting worst than Japan.

How people can’t afford to procreate, can’t afford a relationship or to even go on dates.

Its happening not only in the west, this is also happening in Asia.

Even China now with their economic stress, impacting Asian men everywhere.

If you don’t have a stable income, or not in survival mode, you would be stuck.

What is the 5 buckets.

1. You have to have some emergency money, at least 20% because you never know when something breaks down. Which happens to poor people
2. You have to have enough self investment money like for coaching, my coaching which is proven to work
3. You need to invest in asssets which gets you more money. More you learn the more you earn.
4. You need to pay the bills of course.
5. Play money for yourself but you can only spend 20%.

So this way you never go broke.

You break these rules, they would break you.

Now you say instead of dating you are going to get distracted and focus on making more money

But you will bleed money if you can’t split it up.

If you are 2 paychecks away from being homeless… you are cooked.

You will always be stressed out due to cortisol due to the winner and loser effect.

Your only hope is to one day move to Thailand when you get older and become and expat…

That is no way to live.

You also got to drink Soylent or Huel in the morning so you don’t get hungry so you can eat at 3 to 6pm.

A very small window, where you can eat as much as you want.

You won’t turn fat due to spikes in insulin.

This diet which is extremely hard has kept me younger looking.

It has also saved a ton of money for food cost.

The obstacle that is in your way is simply you fat MGTOWs can’t control your own emotions.

You have to eat a ton of snacks.

You would get a cushing syndrome.

The fastest way to quit is to fat and full of cortisol.

I had 100% of the students who are fat and overweight quitting last year.

Step 6: Overcome Approach Anxiety

If you’re anxious about talking to women, then guess what? Your cortisol is calling the shots.

You’ve got to drown out those excuses in your head and FORCE yourself to approach.

Expect some rejection… 7 out of 10 might say no, but hey, 3 will talk to you. That’s just how it is for bad approach anxiety.

You have to drown out the low self esteem voice, with your own that women wants you to approach them.

You literally have to mentally scream it into your head before you approach over 30 to 40 times in a row.

Otherwise you would make excuses and run

Not even the 3 second rule night club bullshit will save you.

It could make you take more action, but with low self esteem and extreme cortisol stress of losing, weight you down…

You would run away

Run harder than the MGTOW.

So supplement things for adrenline and cortisol, they are both different.

Then repeat it as much as you can women wants you to approach them so fast until you short circuit the left brain before the right brain can get into flight mode.

Fight, flight, freeze

You can be proactive and get into fight mode when you repeat that over and over

So your excuses can’t drown that out.

Step 7: Build Conviction With Inner Game

Alright, let’s break this down a bit. So, the sixth point is all about those inner game affirmations…

repeating them until it’s like, you really believe in them, you know?

You have to convince your brain like a dictator against a country that is rebelling.

You must say it over and over and over again until the right brain rebelling, backs the fuck down.

Visualization of success is key here.

It’s not just about thinking; it’s about feeling that success as if you’ve already achieved it.

You can use a VR google cardboard to get more comfortable with women if you are too afraid of them if you are MGTOW like a phobia.

Now, when it comes to identity transformation, that’s crucial.

Like, if someone identifies as MGTOW, they embrace that label fully.

It’s similar to how smokers struggle to quit if they don’t shift their self-image.

I had this one student… let’s just say he was an unteachable case.

He was a MGTOW, overweight, bald, black and well, he wasn’t exactly the star of the class.

Kicked out, honestly, he was labeled the worst student of the year in 2022.

But it’s like, he couldn’t move past his situation. Constantly running away, all because of his low self-esteem.

He was also the worst student of 2024.

Oh, and maybe, just maybe, trying out binaural beats could help? It’s worth a shot, right? Just something to consider.

Stuff to raise your self esteem.

However he claimed he would actually go through it, but he didn’t.

Step 8: Reprogram Your Mindset

So, here’s the deal: they really ought to create a mindset playlist.

I have one with 26 videos on a Youtube Playlsit for my Elite Bundle 2 students.

You know, something that helps them rebuild their thoughts and attitudes.

After that, they could transform their notes into an audio format.

Just imagine them listening over and over again…

really embedding those ideas into their minds.

It’s all about reprogramming that inner dialogue, right?

Now, let’s not ignore that one student.

You know, the one who’s always got something to say but often isn’t truthful?

Like how he is listening to the mindset playlist at work to hard reset

But he didn’t do it, so he is stuck as usual.

This is self deception

It’s a bit of a challenge, isn’t it? When you are turning into a MGTOW zombie.

And on top of that, they really need to grasp the five essential mindsets.

1. Be teachable
2. Be changable
3. Be skillful
4. Believe in yourself
5. Your thoughts and feelings will manifest

But here’s a thought: don’t you think they’d need to revisit this process quite a bit?

I mean, with low self-esteem hanging over them, wouldn’t they just dodge it altogether… kind of like that student I mentioned?

I should definitely share his story with others.

It could be a real eye-opener, helping them recognize those same struggles within themselves. What do you think?

He was a MGTOW loser and still is.

Acting like he is possessed by demons.

He did ask me are there people in the world who has succeeded in life without self esteem?

Well competence equals confidence, so if they succeeded because of comptentence, they will get confidence, real core confidence.

I would say no

You can’t get self esteem until you get your mindset right.

It is like the drivers for your computer.

If they are wrong, or faulty, it doesn’t run fast or run at all

This is just like updating your drivers

If you have low self esteem, they get reverted.

So you constantly have to hard reset.

Step 9: Get Physically Aggressive

Ninth, it’s essential for them to pick up some form of martial arts.

You know, transitioning from that instinctive flight or freeze reaction into a more proactive fight mode.

They really ought to adopt that tough Israeli survival mentality, like what you see in the IDF.

Learning Krav Maga and engaging in aggression drills could be a game-changer.

But, let’s be real for a second… would these MGTOW losers actually be willing to learn?

Or maybe they’re just too laid back and lack the discipline because of some underlying self-esteem issues?

It kind of makes you wonder, don’t you think?

Do they even have the grit to push through and really commit to this?

In my daygame bootcamps the timid students have to learn aggression drills through Krav Maga

They often end up pulling women home right away, some got laid afterwards.

I might considering teaching Krav Maga on my Youtube channel for aggression drills so people can learn how to stop freezing up.

It could help these overweight cortisol people due to losing too much to the winner and loser effect double chin.

Step 10: 20/35 Build Social Skills & Emotional Intelligence

Alright, so here’s the deal: they really need to step up their 20/35 score and create a solid habit over 21 days for things like social skills, emotional control, social calibrations, and some game drills.

It’s important they choose a few areas to focus on and I’m here to help with that, of course with the Elite Bundle 2!

Now, let’s talk about understanding women. It’s a 20/35 situation, and honestly, it’s been this way for ages.

If women didn’t have this innate understanding due to evolutionary psychology, we wouldn’t exist in the first place for millions of years,

Women, they’d struggle with emotional reasoning and logic and that’s just a fact.

You need to ditch the cortisol tonality. No more cortisol fast speech! It’s all about confidence, folks.

Stand tall; don’t slouch like you’ve already lost.

I’ve got 656 testimonials from people who’ve had success with daygame…

Pulling women home and getting laid.

that’s way more than anyone else out there.

It’s not just opinions; it’s real results, unlike some other coaches who really don’t have a clue.

My students? They’re out there getting married and starting families… so it works!

Solution, Get Elite Bundle 2. For MGTOW, get mental trauma cure, or Elite 60 that comes with it. You need a lot of help. Or just keep running away and giving up.

Now, you could tackle this with Elite 60, which helps with mental trauma, or maybe try the Elite Bundle 2.

But hey, that might not be enough for those in the MGTOw crowd.

No time to sit on your hands, okay?

Take that bald student we talked about.

He barely did anything and ended up getting kicked out back in 2022.

Now he’s stuck watching all these other students succeed in 2023 and 2024… he even rejoined and got kicked out again!

Don’t be that guy.

He has weird proportions for his looks.

He looked like another fat black guy who got triggered.

I thought it was the same person at first, but he didn’t have an african accent on their stupid MGTOW small channels complaining.

Oh you got to understand them better they say

In reality, they don’t even understand themselves.

Final Reality Check:

Let’s be honest… many MGTOW guys are too far gone to be saved.

They’re buried in their excuses.

They self-sabotage and won’t even admit they’ve got a problem.

They’re missing grit, discipline, and awareness.

But if you’ve just recently jumped on the MGTOW train, you’ve still got a shot at escaping.

Wait too long, and you risk becoming just another delusional zombie, stuck for good.

So, get the Elite Bundle 2.
Fix your life before it’s too late.\