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Alright, everyone… let’s really get into it…
We’ve all got these things that hold us back… whether it’s the weather, the economy, or maybe just a lack of oxygen in the tank, right?
But what I’m going to show you is that none of those excuses have to stop you.
Think about it… Rain, cold, inflation, recently a hurricane even your own doubts.
Yes i’m going to make tips on how to daygame during a hurricane at the beginning of this video as a joke.
I’m here to show you how to turn every single one of those barriers into stepping stones for success.
Because here’s the thing… those excuses are never as big as they feel in the moment.
And by the end of this talk, you’ll see how you can actually use those obstacles to make you even stronger, even more confident.
Don’t forget, a lot of my students got laid during Dec last year, so there is no excuses.
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So let’s break it down.
The Real Problem – Excuses are a Slow Poison to Your Progress
Now, I want you to think about this carefully…
Every single day we wake up, we have a choice… whether we’re going to get up, go out there, and take action…
or whether we’re going to let these little, seemingly “innocent” excuses stack up and hold us back.
You know what I mean… it’s easy to say, “Oh, it’s too cold today”… or “It’s raining”… or even “Ah, the economy’s not doing great, so maybe I should wait.”
I get it… it’s comfortable… it feels safe to stay in that zone.
But here’s what’s really happening… Every time you let those excuses get the best of you… you’re reinforcing a mindset of passivity… of sitting on the sidelines… of missing out.
Now, imagine… just picture this for a second… you see this stunning girl… she’s right there, and the only thing stopping you from talking to her is a few raindrops or a chilly wind.
You look at her… you think of the approach… but you let yourself say, “Nah… not today.”
And what’s the cost of that? It’s not just one missed opportunity… it’s the reinforcement of a habit.
Every single time you choose the excuse over the action, you’re teaching yourself to stay stuck… and that habit? It becomes a wall.
Now… I don’t want any of you building walls around yourselves.
Think of the guys who’ve come to me… just like you, they had every reason to stay home, to walk away, to tell themselves it wasn’t the right time…
But they didn’t… they pushed through.
They came to me because they wanted results… and that’s exactly what they got because they stopped letting the little stuff hold them back.
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Or censoring you from seeing my student results because they don’t want to tell you that their stuff no longer works past 2021 and they think you are too ignorant and easily brainwashed…
Letting Excuses Win is Costing You Big Time
So let’s get real here…
You know… every time you let an excuse win… every time you choose comfort over action… you’re creating a cycle.
It’s not just one small choice… it’s a pattern you’re feeding… and this pattern eats away at your potential, one excuse at a time.
Imagine… you see the opportunity… you see the girl… but maybe it’s raining, maybe it’s cold, and you’re already thinking, “Not worth it.”
You tell yourself it’s just a one-off decision…
But let me tell you… that’s not how the brain works.
You’re forming a habit of avoidance… of backing down… of letting yourself off the hook.
And next time? Maybe the sun is shining, but you’ll find something else… you’ll find another reason to hold back.
It’s like a mental reflex… but it’s built out of all these little “not today” moments.
Now think about it…
I have students who came to me because they were fed up with living like that…
They were done letting those little discomforts dictate their lives.
And you know what? They pushed through.
They learned how to be resilient, how to adapt, and that’s why they’re getting results… even in the rain, even in the cold.
That’s the difference between the guy who “might” do it and the guy who actually does it.
And if they can do it, you can too.
How to Make Every Condition an Advantage, Not an Excuse
Alright, so now let’s talk about the “how”…
how you can actually use these challenges to your advantage.
Because, yes… with the right strategy… even the rain, the snow, or a cold economy can work for you.
This one already had 100 views. I might expand on the video to add more than 30 students, briefly mention the american students who flew here for bootcamps even if I don’t teach bootcamps nowdays. But still a huge waiting list when the ecomomy gets better to teach existing students who opted in a for 10 day bootcamp.
1. Start Indoors – The Power of the Instadate
This is where we kick things off…
When the weather’s less than ideal… you don’t need to push through just for the sake of it. Instead, start where you’re comfortable… start indoors.
Now… I call this approach the instadate…
It’s not some formal, high-pressure setup. It’s quick… casual… but still powerful.
Imagine this… you see her, and you make a strong first impression… instead of throwing out some future plan like, “Hey, let’s grab a drink sometime”…
you go for the now.
You’re not asking her for some “real date” that’s formal and intimidating.
You’re just suggesting a quick coffee… something easy, something that doesn’t feel forced.
That’s the magic of the instadate.
It’s organic… it flows… and it builds momentum fast.
When you’re sitting there, in a cozy corner of a coffee shop or a quiet spot in the mall…
you’ve already elevated the interaction from a simple “hello” to something more… something memorable.
And that’s key.
You’re not rushing… you’re not stressing… you’re just two people… sitting, talking, connecting.
This foundation? It’s the start of something strong.
And when it’s done right… it sets the stage for everything else.
This is the power of the instadate… making every moment count without the pressure.
2. Showcase Your Social Skills – Let Her See the Real You
So now you’re indoors… out of the cold, out of the rain… and this is where you shine.
Let’s talk about social skills.
A lot of guys think social skills mean “talking”… or saying something impressive… maybe even tossing in a few clever lines.
But here’s the reality… social skills are about connecting.
It’s about making her feel like she’s right there with you in that moment.
Now, I see a lot of guys get this wrong… they go into “performance mode,” thinking they need to impress her…
But that’s not what this is about.
When you’re showing her the real you… the authentic side of you that’s calm… confident… and present…
that’s when the magic happens.
So you make her laugh… but it’s not forced… it’s natural.
You’re interested in what she has to say… you’re engaged…
You’re not just talking about yourself… you’re letting her be part of the conversation.
You’re there… genuinely… in that moment with her.
And when you do that… she’ll feel it.
This isn’t about selling yourself… it’s about creating a moment together.
A lot of guys overlook this, thinking they need to impress, or “prove” something…
But what she’s really looking for is a guy who’s right there… comfortable… confident…
When she feels that connection… she’ll open up more… she’ll be much more invested.
And that? That’s powerful.
This is the essence of real social skills… it’s what keeps her interested and intrigued.
3. Transition Smoothly – The Art of the Venue Change
Now that you’ve got that connection going… let’s talk about the next step… changing locations.
Once she’s comfortable… once she’s intrigued…
Don’t just stay rooted in one spot.
The venue change is subtle… but it’s powerful.
When you sense the vibe is right… suggest moving to a new spot.
It doesn’t have to be far… maybe just another part of the mall… or a cozier spot nearby.
But that shift? It keeps things fresh.
It creates a mini adventure… and shows her that you’re not just a guy “winging it.”
You’re someone with a plan… someone who’s in control… and that? It’s attractive.
Women respect that… they’re drawn to a guy who’s not afraid to lead.
Think about it… the venue change isn’t just a change in scenery… it’s a progression in the interaction.
It keeps her intrigued… adds a layer of excitement… and shows her that you’re the kind of guy who’s got a plan…
Someone who’s prepared and knows how to keep things interesting.
This part… it’s key.
So don’t sit back and hope things will go smoothly… lead her through the experience… show her you’re the guy who can make things happen.
4. Dress Smart – Be Prepared for Whatever the Weather Throws at You
Let’s talk about your look…
Rain, snow, whatever it is… you’ve got to show up ready… prepared.
It’s not just about looking good… it’s about looking the part… looking like you belong in control.
Now, I’m a big fan of the blazer and a small, compact umbrella…
The blazer says you’re put together… you’re not someone who’s going to be swayed by a bit of bad weather.
And the umbrella? It’s small, it’s easy to carry… and it’s practical.
Trust me… when a woman sees that you’re prepared… that you’ve put thought into every detail… she notices.
And she’ll see you differently.
She’ll see that you’re not just out here reacting to things…
You’re someone who’s in control… who’s put-together… who’s thinking ahead.
And that? It’s magnetic.
Women pick up on these small cues… they see when a guy’s taken the time to look his best, to be prepared for whatever might come.
And that? That sets you apart from the average guy.
So, don’t skip this step… show up ready… show up as the guy who’s in control… no matter the weather.
5. Handling Objections with Confidence – Staying Calm When She’s Unsure
Now, this is crucial… let’s talk about something that really throws a lot of guys off… objections.
At some point… she may hesitate… she might question moving to the next step… or even going to a new spot.
This is where most guys stumble… they get flustered… they start tripping over their words…
And when you do that? You’re losing control of the frame.
You need to stay calm… you need to handle objections with confidence.
Think about it… she’s testing to see if you’re steady, if you’re a guy who can handle a little resistance.
And if you get flustered, if you start acting unsure… she’ll pick up on that… and she’ll lose trust in you.
This is where preparation makes all the difference.
My students? They don’t just “hope” things go smoothly… they know how to handle objections naturally.
They’re equipped with strategies, techniques… and they know how to keep things flowing.
For those looking to really master this… I’ve got the Elite Bundle 2.
It’s not just a course… it’s a toolkit… a set of skills that goes beyond “winging it”…
It puts you in control of the interaction… it shows her that you’re someone she can trust to lead.
When you’ve got these skills… objections don’t throw you off… they become part of the interaction… a chance to show her you’re the real deal.
Why This Works: Turning Challenges into Opportunities
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Alright… here’s the big picture…
Each of these steps… each of these moves…
They’re not just techniques… they’re a mindset shift.
They’re a way of taking obstacles… and turning them into opportunities.
When you approach daygame like this… when you let go of excuses and step into resilience…
You’re setting yourself apart.
You’re becoming the kind of guy who isn’t fazed by a little rain or a cold day…
You’re showing up as someone who’s adaptable, confident, ready for anything.
And that? That’s magnetic.
So next time an excuse starts creeping in… ask yourself…
Is it the weather holding you back? Or are you holding yourself back?
Because once you learn to push past these little discomforts…
Once you’re able to adapt to any environment…
Nothing can stop you… not even the toughest weather.
So go out there… make it happen… show yourself what you’re really capable of…
And remember… resilience beats excuses, every single time.
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