So, I just had a phone call with a guy from Lithuania…
I won’t dox him or post his details… but this guy was a classic high-value hardcase…’
Obviously this blog post was written ahead of time and I just added a few words in the beginning.
But the structure remained the same.
He used to be good with women… had some success in the past…
But the reality is… inflation destroyed his results… and more importantly, his ego…
He couldn’t handle the fact that what used to work doesn’t work anymore…
And at the end of the call… just like I predicted… he hung up…
Now, here’s the thing…
I wrote this blog post ahead of time because I knew exactly how this was going to turn out…
I’m psychic like that… I see these patterns so clearly…
I had this post in draft mode ready to be posted. As he would likely read it.
But despite knowing it… I still wanted to give him a chance…
I always try to give people a chance to step up… to make that change…
But it was obvious from the start…
He didn’t want it badly enough…
He even made me wait an hour while he was eating lunch… instead of being serious about this call…
That alone should have told me everything…
But I gave him some solid advice… and broke the payments down into three…
I made it as easy as possible for him to succeed…
But here’s the thing… doing your own surgery doesn’t work…
He thought he could figure it out on his own… but that’s just ego talking…
And now, because he hung up and couldn’t commit…
He’s banned for life from my coaching…
It’s not about the money… it’s about the fact that he doesn’t really want to change…
He’s not in enough pain to push himself…
And that’s why I’m writing this blog…
Because it’s always the same three traits I look for in a student…
And if you don’t have them… you’re not going to succeed…
My predictions all came true and my psychic abilities are getting stronger. But I still wanted to give him a chance to see for myself and ot confirm it for myself
THIS WAS AN OLD PREDICTION BEFORE IT ALL HAPPENED.
I’m naturally a psychic, I didn’t have any formal training, i’m just a natural at it.
Trait 1: Commitment
Commitment is everything…
This guy from Lithuania… he wasn’t committed…
He couldn’t even prioritize the call… let alone the work it takes to transform…
He hung up at the end of the call because he wasn’t ready to face the reality…
Here’s the truth…
If you’re not fully committed… you’re just wasting your time…
I don’t care how good you used to be…
I don’t care what success you’ve had in the past…
If you’re not willing to commit now… in this moment… you’re going to fail…
You can’t dabble in this and expect results…
I broke down the payments into three for him…
I made it easy… but even that wasn’t enough because the real problem wasn’t money…
It was commitment…
When someone isn’t fully in… it shows in everything they do…
And if you’re not all in… you’re setting yourself up for failure…
Trait 2: Pain
Now let’s talk about pain…
If a person isn’t in enough pain…
They’re not going to change…
Period…
This guy… he had some pain… sure…
Inflation hit him hard…
His results dried up… his ego took a hit…
But it wasn’t enough pain…
Not enough to push him to make a real change…
He could still coast on his past successes…
And that’s the problem with high-value hardcases…
They’ve had success in the past…
So they think they can ride on that forever…
But the game changes…
The world changes…
And if you’re not feeling the pain of staying stuck… you won’t push yourself to change…
People are driven by two things… pain and pleasure…
And in his case… the pain wasn’t greater than his comfort…
That’s why he’d rather be eating lunch than talking to me…
Trait 3: The Desire to Get Laid
And this one’s big…
When I ask someone what results they want…
If they don’t immediately say… “I want to get laid”…
I know they’re not serious…
If they talk about building attraction… or improving confidence…
They’re missing the point…
This guy didn’t really seem to want to get laid…
Not badly enough, anyway…
If he did… he wouldn’t have been half-assing the conversation…
He wouldn’t have hung up…
He would’ve taken this opportunity and run with it…
The guys who get results are the ones who are laser-focused on getting laid…
They’re not interested in dabbling…
They’re not looking for half-measures…
They’re all in…
Why This Happened Before
This isn’t the first time I’ve seen this…
And it won’t be the last…
I predicted this outcome from the beginning…
Guys like him… but were not high-value hardcases…
They often think they don’t need help…
Or that they can figure it out on their own…
But that’s like trying to do your own surgery…
It doesn’t work…
I know what works…
I have more students laid than anyone else in this game…
And when someone ghosts me… or hangs up…
It’s because they’re not ready to face the truth…
The truth that what they’ve been doing isn’t working anymore…
The Reality of Change
Change is hard…
It’s uncomfortable…
But if you’re not feeling enough pain to push yourself out of your comfort zone…
You’re not going to change…
And here’s the thing…
I don’t waste my time with people who aren’t committed…
If you’re not ready to step up… to make real change…
You’re not going to succeed…
And that’s fine… but it means I won’t waste any more of my time on you…
This guy had every opportunity…
I made it easy for him…
But in the end, he wasn’t committed… he wasn’t in enough pain…
And he didn’t want it badly enough…
So now, he’s banned for life from my coaching…
Recap
So to recap…
The three traits I look for in a student are:
- Commitment… if you’re not all in, you won’t succeed…
- Pain… if you’re not feeling enough pain, you won’t push yourself to change…
- The Desire to Get Laid… if that’s not your goal, you’re not serious…
I knew how this call would turn out…
2 other students did the same thing, a short Indian guy and a guy in Dubai.
These types are often contaminated with brainwashing from other daygame coaches.
But I still wanted to give him a chance…
And in the end, he chose to stay where he is…
That’s fine…
But for those of you reading this…
Don’t be that guy…
If you want to get laid… if you want to change your life…
Then step up…
Make the decision…
And don’t let the opportunity pass you by…
IF THERE ARE MORE TRAITS ON THE PHONE WHEN I TALK TO PEOPLE… THAT I KNOW THEY WON’T BE GOOD STUDENTS
- THEY OFTEN WILL WORSHIP OTHER WHITE DATING COACHES. ASIAN OR WHITE,
- THEY ARE COMPLETELY DELUSIONAL TO THE MAX, HAS NO IDEA WHY THEY ARE STUCK. EVEN IF YOU GIVE THEM CLARITY.
- THEY HAVE ACCEPTED THEIR FATE. IF THEY CAN’T TRAIN WITH ME, THEY WOULD JUST GIVE UP IN APATHY.
- SKILL BUILDING SCARES THEM.
- THEY WANT TO TRY IT FOR ONE MONTH AND SEE IF THEIR LACK OF COMMITMENT WANTS TO CONTINUE WHILE YOU KILL YOURSELF TEACHING THEM. THESE PEOPLE I SHOULD JUST HANG UP WHEN I HEAR THAT IN THE FUTURE.
The choice is yours…
I didn’t make him join a more expensive program.
I said Elite Bundle 2 was perfect for him and he can use a financing plan.
The inflation is destroying peoples dating lives when my students kept getting laid every month…
I mean why bother with any other coach
None has consistent student lays.
I got more laid testimonials to post, not a problem.
I got like over 38 more or something.
You seen 4 more with the recent video right? thats unreleased.
I would of transformed his entire life
But maybe he is experiencing learned helplessness.
But doing more mass numbers game self amusing isn’t going to work.
I let you guys all know, I didn’t pitch him a higher priced product or service like Elite 60.
I told him what he needed the most.
A BIG CONTRAST TO ANOTHER ASIAN PERSON I SPOKE TO ON THE PHONE
- He was so ugly he looked like the president of Nvidia but calls himself 10/10. No this white guy is actually good looking. The worst fashion ever.
- He told me if I won’t train him in 3MP, he would just focus on power lifting instead.
- Both were delusional and have no idea about their problem. Its harder to teach those more delusional.
- Both were apathetic, they both were ready to give up or keep doing it their way. The Asian guy was Asian masculinity washed. All muscles, or MGTOW.
- Both were poor who should of invested
- Both worshipped white dating coaches, one didn’t listen to RSD, the other doubled down on it for the Asian.
I SHOULD TALK ABOUT HIGH VALUE HARDCASES, REMINDS ME OF THE GUY FROM GERMANY.
- He was narcissistic. This guy is more vulnerable narcisism, self defeating. The other guy from Germany decent looking, looks iike the current batman, but had ugly women he called 10/10, but my students rated her a 6/10
- In his delusions, he said he was picky, but it ended up delusional.
- He didn’t even know what the issues were to fix either.
- They just want you to listen, but his situation is apethic
- There seems to be a real lack of skills and playing a huge numbers game is no longer working for them. They are getting massive PTSD from rejections.
- This now bleeding over to tall good looking white guys now. Not just the minorities.
- I could still get all of them laid so easily, but they self sabotate.
All I can say is this phenomenon, when I started talking about the high value hardcase and I am doubling down on it.
Yes it actually exist.
Now I realized, you can’t save them from their own massive ego.
Must be devestating to have everything on easy mode. Just be white, approach
To now knowing what it feels like to be a minority, below the 20/35 line of fuckability…
I can’t save everyone, only those who will swim towards the recue helicoptor.
The only people who are still not in survival mode are the bootcamp junkies engineer types.
They don’t even know there is an inflation, or pretend they do.
They are the ones who takes bootcamps while the rest are left in the dust.
I WISH THIS PERSON WOULD RECONSIDER AND HAVE A LEAP OF FAITH.
I think it maybe a waste of time talking about high value hardcases as they have the same hardware issues as a lower SMV harcase. Socopaths, narcissist, delusional
Except one will go in an upward spiral
The other will go in a downward spiral
But what if those who gone in an upward spiral now goes in a downward spiral?
YOU BEAT EVERY COACH, TALL SELF PROCLAIMED HIGH LAYCOUNTS GUYS… STUPID TINDER TESTIMONIALS, NOT EVEN PICKUP. JUST SWIPING, YOU CAN HIRE AND INDIAN TO DO THAT FROM INDIA, THEN THEY SEND HER THE WHATAPP NUMBER AND YOU CONTINUE FROM THERE. YOU CAN OUTSOURCE THE APPROACHES WITH DAYGAME.. WTF…
YOU BEAT ABCS OF LOW SELF ESTEEM, THEY HAVE 1 DAYGAME LAID TESTIMONIALS IN THE INFLATION IN THE LAST 2 YEARS. SAME AS TALL SELF PROCLAIMED COACHES, WITH 1, MYSTERY METHOD, MISERY METHOD
RSD ZOMBIES, GETS NO RESULTS.
OTHER COACHES ARE POSTING 2021 STUFF DURING THE PANDEMIC, TELLING OTHERS THEY ARE THE BEST? AT WHAT? I MEAN… LOL NO 2024 AND 2023 STUFF.. WHY NOT? OH RIGHT GAME EXPIRED FOR THEM. ALCOHOL CRUTCHES FAILED.
UFO, UMP, WHAT THE FUCK. NOTHING BUT INDIANS AND MIDDLE EASTERNS NOW? WITH THEIR FAKE ISLAM CONVERSION? THIS IS A NEW STRATEGY FOR OTHER RED PILL AND PEOPLE TO MAKE MORE MONEY HAVING A MIDDLE EASTERN AUDIENCE. NO MIDDLE EASTERN OR INDIAN LAID TESTIMONIALS? LIKE 8 IN TOTAL, TESTIMONIALS STUFFFING PAGE? JUST BE WHITE, AUTO TRUST, PULL TO A CAB INFIELD AT BEST.
MYSTERY 0 DAYGAME LAID TESTIMONIALS, SAME WITH ROSS JEFFERIES. BUT THEY ARE OG’S YET I STARTED IN 2001… SO I’M TECHNICALLY 2 YEARS THEIR SENIOR.
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