How Tough Love Training Took Me From 0 to 646 Daygame Laid and Pulled Testimonials The Fastest Student Success in Daygame Coaching History When their stuff no longer even works during the 2024 and 2023 inflation, which has expired.
Let me tell you why I’m not a fan of this daygame industry. Most other daygame coaches wear a mask—they hide behind a polished personality to avoid triggering you, just to get you into their bootcamps. I don’t do that.
I don’t wear a mask. I tell you the truth to snap you out of your brainwashing.
Some people know me as being very aggressive, almost like Gordon Ramsay or Dan Pena when I train people. The reason is because it fucking works. Tough love works. If you’re afraid of being disciplined and you want this high vibrational energy, then listen to this video, especially the Asians who get offended by me.
If you’re looking at my facial expressions and saying John’s not smiling. What I’m trying to convey for my personality is that mental toughness is the answer. And I’ll explain why. I’ll give you three secrets. So get your thumb over your ass, press the like button for the algorithms, and pay attention.
Okay, number one. This concept is called ego destruction. You’re like, what the fuck? That’s right. So rather than working with the person, like a turtle, who just barely walks out of their fucking shell with low self esteem. Look at your shell, right? I come for you, you fucking cunt. I’m gonna come for you. No, no, I’ll kick the fucking turtle’s shell.
Not like I’m against animals or anything. I’m just saying, metaphorically speaking, if you were metaphorically a turtle, I would kick you across the finish line. Please, you gotta move. A lot of people think John creates Stockholm syndrome. Because his training is so goddamn tough, it is like the Navy SEALs.
I do not create Stockholm Syndrome. I am tough but fair. So the very first thing is that the ego needs to be destroyed. What causes this ego is low self esteem, right here. Low self esteem, and then it means high ego. In fact, I have been creating a new training program for my student on John Elite Access that they are listening to subliminal programs to raise their self esteem so it can lower their motherfucking ego.
That’s right. Their motherfucking ego. They’ll go through four traits of low self esteem. Fucking pay attention. Watch this procrastinating motherfuckers out there. When they hear the word fuck, bitch, cunt, whatever, right? I could go on, but you know, but it triggers them. So number one, they get more delusional.
You’re like, shit, that’s right. They are so delusional. Some of my students don’t even know they’re delusional. They see the world through a fucking VR glasses. Where the women are giving them positive reactions, the I.O.I’s, the Indicators of Interest. Bullshit! It’s Indicators of Compliance, because that’s something they do not have from women.
They don’t get her fucking compliance. They’re like, what the fuck? That’s right. They don’t get the fucking thing because of delusions. Number two. Procrastinator. Skillless spam approacher. What the fuck does this mean? First of all, when I say skillless spam approacher, I mean these guys have no fucking skills and they’re SMVing it.
They love to spam approach, they love to take action, but they take massive uncalibrated action. Massive spam approaching with shit fashion, baggy fucking clothes. It’s gotta go. Nowhere. Busyness, as you think you’re spam approaching, you’re doing the numbers game, which is bullshit. Busyness is a form of laziness.
I’ll say this again. Busyness is a form of laziness. You’re like shit. So lots of people like to take massive action, even in their lives. But in reality, they’re just pretending to be busy, but they’re not moving the needle forward. You can’t do that without social skills, social calibrations in the body language, which you can even rehearse at home.
You can do 70 percent practicing at home. And with elite access, you can get a feedback from me. And then afterwards, you can approach for 30 percent and close faster. That’s how a lot of my students do it. They practice. One of my students practice 16 hours a day through elite 30 and he’s already getting results.
Next one is called the wrong path. The sociopath, but for them, they’re delusional as fuck. They usually have to do it their way. They’ll wrestle the fucking control right out of my hand.
So I will rather you release the handbrake. Let’s say I’m sitting next to you. I’m teaching you through Elite Access or through some of the programs from Elite 30. What you do is you always grab the fucking steering wheel and you like to drive in the ditch with your low fucking self esteem. Because it controls you.
And you crash in the ditch. You just need to press the gas pedal, let me handle the fucking steering wheel, and release the handbrake. You’re like, what are you talking about? The handbrake is every time you resist me because of low fucking self esteem because you’re a fucking delusional know it all spam approaching piece of shit trying to do it your fucking way because you think you can use elite access and then you take the lessons and you’re like, oh, train myself.
I’ll train myself. Bullshit. If I were teaching you tennis or martial arts and you try to learn it yourself, good luck with that. You’d be fucked. Me, which is a cowardess. At some point, the students mentally shut down and they become cowards. Low self esteem. This is when their red eyes, with too much fucking ego and too low self esteem, eventually turns to black eyes.
It turns dark and their brain is completely in a delusion they cannot get out of and I can’t get through to them. I had a five foot three student in the military, but he doesn’t like it when I yell at him, but he’s been yelled at every single by other drill sergeants. He doesn’t like it when I yell at him.
Oh, no. A lot of my students are military and they’re very scared of me for some fucking reason. You don’t know how many of my students are military. That’s why they like this kind of hardcore training. But a lot of them are very, very afraid. And I’m not trying to be some hard ass drill sergeant on purpose.
This is called tough luck. It works. In fact, it works so well. Look at the other way. Compare their testimonials. To my, for Dagan, being nice, right? How many more testimonials do I have to compare them? It’s insane, it’s like so many times, even hundreds of times, over, compared to most of these coaches. For the Asian dating coaches, fuck them.
Second thing is that not all the students gets yelled at. I know a lot of people think, Oh, John’s creating Stockholm syndrome. They’re dependent on him and they’re scared to death. Bullshit. Some of the students are easy cases because they’re easy cases. They don’t resist. They don’t grab the steering wheel.
You see that? They don’t grab it and they don’t try. They release the handbrakes. That’s the only difference. Is that they’re more teachable and more adaptable. They just sort of whatever I teach them They fucking do it and they don’t take days off procrastinate and go into a low self esteem state Normal cases.
Yeah, they ask some questions here and there no big deal But eventually after a week or maybe a couple weeks they get late. These guys get laid really quick easy cases hard cases This is what the industry knows. I teach beyond hard case hard cases as student a little bit on the asperger side You know, he’s always in his head, always thinking so much, and they resist every fucking thing he say.
And it’s hard to teach them, no big deal. And the reason why you call them hard cases is they need to know where they stand so they can adapt. They know exactly when to release the motherfucking handbrake, so their car can move forward. And the next one, oh shit, it’s out. In possible cases. Now you got Asperger’s and Autism.
Oh shit! Now you got these emotional snowflake cunt procrastinating, lazy motherfuckers. Yeah, they’re lazy as fuck and they argue with everything, they grab the steering wheel, they love to drive it into the motherfucking ditch. They can’t do anything else except to drive in the fucking ditch. You’re like, shit, really?
Really? Really? And now there’s another type that I’ve met before throughout certain times on my training period. These guys get angry at me and tries to blame me. These are unteachable cases. Holy shit. Even if you encourage them, either turtle shell or you try to yell at them. These guys don’t learn shit.
These guys don’t fucking learn shit.
Most daygame coaching failed in 2023 and 2024 during the inflation.
The question is how can you have daygame coaching that doesn’t fail? The answer is tough love, since it works.
I really want to share this message with John’s future and existing students
How Tough Love Training Elevated M Student Daygame Results
From zero to 646 daygame laid and pulled testimonials, my coaching approach has transformed underperforming methodologies, especially during the economic strains of 2023 and 2024 inflation.
Why I Challenge the Daygame Industry Norms
Unlike many coaches who mask their strategies to avoid upsetting clients and ensure bootcamp sign-ups, I adopt a transparent approach. This directness might be jarring because it is designed to disrupt your existing perceptions and snap you out of any brainwashing.
The Philosophy Behind My Tough Love Approach
Known for my aggressive style, akin to figures like Gordon Ramsay or Dan Pena, my coaching effectiveness stems from tough love. This method isn’t about harshness for its own sake; it’s about catalyzing real, lasting change. If you’re ready for a transformative experience and not just feel-good vibes, this approach is for you.
Ego Destruction: The First Step to True Change
The primary goal is ego destruction. Instead of gently coaxing you out of your comfort zone, I challenge you directly, pushing you to confront and overcome your limitations. Many perceive my methods as harsh, but they are about instilling the resilience needed for success.
Overcoming Delusions and Procrastination
Many clients come to me with a distorted perception of reality, viewing the world through ‘rose-colored glasses.’ My role is to strip away these illusions, fostering a sense of reality that acknowledges both challenges and opportunities. This reality check is crucial for genuine progress in daygame.
The Power of Accurate Self-Assessment
A significant issue I address is the lack of accurate self-assessment—many are unaware of their delusions. By confronting these head-on, I help clients see and accept their true circumstances, which is the first step toward improvement.
From Unskilled Approaches to Strategic Actions
Another common problem is the unskilled, spammy approach many take in daygame. My coaching redirects these efforts from mindless activity to strategic, purposeful actions that lead to real results.
The Importance of Feedback and Practice
With tools like Elite Access, I offer continuous feedback, allowing for the adjustment of strategies in real-time. This feedback loop is essential for turning practice into progress, helping clients shift from aimless practice to focused improvement.
Why Tough Love Works
The essence of my coaching philosophy is that tough love leads to real results. It’s about making you uncomfortable enough to change, disciplined enough to focus, and resilient enough to persist. This approach has led to more testimonials than softer methods, proving its effectiveness.
Beyond Hard Cases: Teaching Resilience and Adaptability
I don’t just work with easy cases; I specialize in clients who are seen as hard cases in the industry. By understanding where they stand and helping them adjust their strategies, I enable them to overcome their challenges and succeed.
Conclusion: The Success of Tough Love in Daygame
Despite the tough exterior, the core of my coaching is deeply empathetic. I understand the struggles of my clients and am committed to helping them succeed by any means necessary. This often means breaking down barriers they didn’t even know existed and rebuilding from a foundation of strength and clarity.
This tough love approach has proven effective, time and again, making it a cornerstone of my coaching philosophy. It’s not just about being tough; it’s about being fair and focused on results.
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