The Power of Just Showing Up: How Consistency Can Transform Your Daygame Success
Hey, did you know that showing up is half the battle?
Most fat daygamers think they need some secret tactics, but all they need to do is show up more and build consistency—doing more week after week.
I know it sounds crazy because we’re so used to hearing about fancy techniques or strategies as the most important thing in daygame, but it’s not!
And while those things have their place, I’m going to share three secrets with you today that will revolutionize the way you approach your daygame journey… by simply showing up and doing a bit more every week. Think of it like progressive overload in weightlifting.
So, What’s the Key to Unlocking Success in Daygame (Even If You’re Fat)?
The key is just showing up consistently. That’s it. Then, doing just a bit more every single week.
Most fat daygamers can’t even get out the door. They shut down because of cortisol, stress, and low self-esteem. But here’s the trick: habits can retrain this. Just showing up changes everything.
Secret #1: Fat Daygamers Have Cushing Syndrome
The first big secret is too much cortisol—what I call the “winner and loser effect.” Winners gain more testosterone, while losers end up with more cortisol, especially due to the high cost of living and the stress of being losers.
Why is this important? They stress-eat because they’re depressed. Then they get even more depressed and stress-eat more. You can measure the size of their double chin in inches—the bigger it is, the more weeks they will procrastinate. It’s a cortisol ADHD scorecard!
Secret #2: They Are Gaslighters
Here’s the thing: Fat daygamers gaslight themselves. They say they’ll do something, but then they do the opposite, lowering their own self-esteem and destroying mine.
If you say you’ll do something, do it. This way, you deposit into your emotional bank account. When you don’t follow through, you gaslight yourself, withdraw self-esteem, and destroy your confidence. You become more delusional, make wrong decisions, and quit.
Secret #3: They Are Quitters
Fat students quit one by one—total losers. They mentally and physically disable themselves for daygame, especially with today’s inflation.
Inflation started in 2022 and continued through 2024. Fat students get overwhelmed and stonewall others—a trait of sociopaths. When they can’t follow through, they shut down like losers with the lowest self-esteem.
The Real Solution: Just Show Up Consistently
I know what you’re thinking: “That sounds good on paper, but I still can’t do it.” You’re acting like an untrained animal—things go in one ear and out the other.
But the truth is, if you just show up, your self-esteem bank account will grow. The voices that say you’re a loser, delusional, or a quitter will start to fade.
How I Built a System to Get Even Fat Daygamers Laid
After years of coaching the toughest cases, I developed a system that focuses on showing up, building habits, and breaking the cycle of quitting. This system, which I use in my Elite 60: Emotional Intelligence Rewiring Program, can transform even the laziest fat daygamers into disciplined, high-performance individuals.
Here’s how it works: Every week, you do a bit more. If you can’t do more, you maintain your current level or go slightly lower, but you keep showing up. Over time, this builds your self-esteem, and you begin to win small private victories until those low self-esteem voices shut up.
The “Just Show Up” Plan
- Diet Plan: Start with a morning shake (Soylent or Huel), intermittent fasting, and avoid snacking.
- Workout Plan: Exercise daily.
- Supplements: Take supplements at night to manage cortisol levels.
By following this plan, you’ll turn off the tap to your cortisol issues and start winning.
Act Now—Transform Yourself or Stay a Loser
I don’t know how much longer I’ll keep this coaching program available. Prices will go up, and I doubt most fat daygamers can even commit. But if you’re ready to stop being a low self-esteem stereotype, train with me in Elite Bundle 2.
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No more excuses. Start taking action, or start getting used to being a loser. Your choice.
P.S. I’ve helped countless fat daygamers break through their laziness and mental blocks, and I’m ready to help you too. But you have to show up. Click the link to join Elite 60: Emotional Intelligence Rewiring Program, and I’ll see you on the inside.
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