Why giving a girl a compliment is over rated and won’t work for you.

Lets be honest here. Most people who uses direct game only dates girls below their looks scale. They call it a numbers game. They give a girl a compliment with their propaganda belief system be genuine, be direct with your intentions right away. She knows why you are picking her up anyways. Told to you by tall attractive caveman dating coaches who says looks doesn’t matter. Isn’t it funny how the best looking tall strong positive stereotype dating coaches tells you looks don’t matter? They want to think it is their game and not that they were attractive to begin with.

To give a compliment, you have to first be high value for the compliment to mean anything. Or you have to be higher value than she is or on the same level. So being a short Asian guy in the west, with a bowl cut, no fashion and being skinny as hell. Giving a compliment is like a beggar saying do you have any change? Even if a beggar give you a compliment on your clothing. Would it have as much value as a pretty women giving you a compliment? No. You put her on the pedestal and she now judges you purely on your physical appearance. Of course they would say, well give her a bigger sample of yourself and persist. You already leveled down your game and put her on the pedestal. You are fighting an hill battle now where she has the higher ground. You already lost, the number flakes and you said what the hell happened?

I’ll break it down. When you gave some 7.5/10 girl a compliment and put her on the pedestal. You BT spiked her. Or spiked her buying temperature. Now you self amuse all day and tease her. Her emotions are spiked up. Then you try to build some comfort. Now the conversation goes nowhere because you didn’t escalate. You text her and she no longer feels those emotions about you. It slowly goes away and that fake rapport building shit just bored her to tears. Then after a few weeks of learning direct game, you call it quits. Then go back to the night clubs thinking fuck this shit. It was your fault for buying into direct game. The most clever marketed scam only useful for tall strong positive stereotype caveman types who becomes dating coaches. Who denies their privileges because most of them can’t empathize with you, if they never had empathy to start with. You look up to them because you feel empowered. But unless you have their body, their race or their face, style. You would never be them.

Solution. Use situational openers. It isn’t even a compliment. You can tease and you can build massive social comfort to draw her in. Then escalate. Or you can compliment and lose her. Go after girls below your looks scale. Compliment her after she emotionally invest at a higher stage of the escalation game. Most people are so clueless. They think escalation is trying to act thirsty or sexual.